Showing posts with label Acquire A Heart Agreeable To Jehovah. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Acquire A Heart Agreeable To Jehovah. Show all posts

9.24.2011

HOW CAN YOU HELP A "PRODIGAL"" CHILD?

Draw Close to God

"Draw close to God," wrote the disciple James, "and he will draw close to you."  (James 4:8) To do so, a young person must be helped to cultivate a taste for the Word of God.  (Psalm 34:8) Initially he will need "milk" -the basic teachings of the Bible.  But as he takes delight in God's Word and acquires a taste for "solid food" -deep spiritual information-spiritual maturity will not be far off for him.  (Hebrews 5:11-14; Psalm 1:2) A youth who admitted that he had been swallowed up in the way of the world began to appreciate  spiritual values.  What helped  him turn around?  Responding to a suggesting to read the whole Bible, he kept to a regular Bible reading schedule.  Yes, reading the Word of God regularly is essential for cultivating a close bond with Jehovah.

How vital that parents help their children to cultivate a fondness for God's Word! Despite having a regular Bible study, one teenage girl associated with delinquents.  Regarding her family study, she recalls:  "When Father asked the questions, I just read off the answers, without even looking at his face."  Instead of just covering the material during  a family study, wise parents employ the art of teaching.  (2 Timothy 4:2) For a youth to enjoy the study, he must feel involved.  Why not ask viewpoint question and let him express himself.  Encourage the young ones to make practical application of the material under consideration.

 Moreover, make the Scriptural discussion lively.  When appropriate, have young ones act out Bible events and dramas.  Help them visualize the location and features of the land where events being discussed too place.  Using maps and charts may help. Yet, with little imagination, a family study can be made lively and varied.  Parents also do  well to examine their own relationship with Jehovah.  As they themselves draw closer to Jehovah, they can help their children to do so. -Deuteronomy 6:5-7.

Prayer also  helps one draw close to God. A girl in her early teens felt torn between the Christian way of life and her association with friends who did not share her beliefs.  (James 4:4) What did she do about it?   "For the very first time," she confessed, "I really prayed to Jehovah about how I felt."  She concluded that her prayer was answered when she eventually found within the Christian congregation a friend in whom she could confide.  Feeling that Jehovah was guiding her, she began to build a personal relationship with God.  Parents can help their children by improving the quality of their own prayers. When praying as a family, parents can pour out their heart so that their children can feel the personal bond between the parents and Jehovah.

Next time:  Be Patient but Firm

Watchtower, 2001

7.21.2011

FIGHTERS AGAINST GOD WILL NOT PREVAIL!

On With the Preaching Work!

As the decades passed, the Kingdom preaching work opened up.  Poland, though still under Communist rule, allowed the holding of  one-day conventions in 1982.  International conventions were held there in 1985.  Huge international conventions followed in 1989, with thousands from Russia and Ukraine attending.  That year Hungary and Poland granted Jehovah's Witnesses legal recognition.  In the autumn of 1989, the Berlin Wall came down.  A few months later, we received legal recognition in East Germany, and shortly thereafter an international convention was held in Berlin.  And at the start of the final decade of the 20th century, efforts were under way to make personal contact with the brothers of in Russia.  Some  of the officials in Moscow were approached, and in 1991, Jehovah's Witnesses were granted legal registration.  Since then the work has grown tremendously in Russia and in the Republics that were part of the former Soviet Union.

While persecution let up in some areas, it increased in others.   In the 45  years following the close of the second world war, many  lands refused to grant legal recognition to Jehovah's Witnesses.  Additionally, bans were imposed on us or our activities in 23 lands in Africa,  9 in Asia, 8 in Europe, 3 in Latin America and 4 in certain island nations.

Jehovah's Witnesses in Malawi experienced savage persecution beginning in 1967.  Because of their neutral stand as true Christians, our fellow believers there would not purchase political party cards.  (John 17:16)  Following a meeting of the Malawi Congress Party in 1972, there was a renewal of brutality. The brothers were driven from their homes and denied employment.  Thousands fled  the country to avoid being killed.  But did the fighters against God and his people prevail?  Not at all!   After a reversal of circumstances, a peak  of 43, 767 Kingdom publishers reported in Malawi in 1999, and over 120,000 attended district conventions there.  A new branch office has been built in the capital city.

Next time: They Look for a Pretext

Watchtower, 2000

6.06.2011

THE BIBLE CHANGES LIVES

"I have proved the judge wrong"

YEAR BORN: 1954
COUNTRY OF ORIGIN: ENGLAND
HISTORY: VIOLENT CRIMINAL

MY PAST: I was born in Dudley, a large industrial town in the West Midlands.  From my childhood, Father instilled in me a love of reading.  He also encouraged an appreciation for the marvels of  nature, although he attributed those to evolution.  He taught me that God did not exist.  Even so, my parents sent me to a local Methodist Sunday school.

When I was eight, I saw some local boys set fire to a  boat on the canal.  The police came, but fear stopped me from talking to them.  The boys had threatened me.  I was unjustly accused of the crime and became resentful in response, I vandalized some local schools, churches and factories, leaving a trail of destruction worth thousands of dollars.  By the time I was ten, I had started  breaking into houses and shops to steal.  I became fascinated with fire and committed many acts of arson.  At  school, the teacher described me as uncontrollable.

When I was 12, I discovered a book about the occult and made my own Ouija board.  Because my parents didn't believe in God, they thought that my interest in spiritism was just harmless fun and that it would keep me out of trouble.  But by the time I left school, I had appeared many times before the juvenile court.  I had joined a violent group called skinheads.  I carried a razor and a bike chain as weapons. I found a job but soon lost it because I was sentenced to prison for a brief  time.  After my release, I again began vandalizing property and was arrested and sentenced to two years in  prison.  The judge described me as beyond reform and a menace to society.

After being released from prison, I met up with my former girlfriend,  Anita.  We married, and for a while I didn't steal or cause trouble.  After a few years, though,I returned to a life of crime.  I began breaking into businesses and robbing their safes.  I started taking drugs, drinking heavily and carrying a gun.  I was again arrested and sentenced to prison.

My lifestyle placed Anita under a great deal of stress.  Her doctor gave her a prescription  for tranquilizers but told her that what she really needed was a divorce.  Fortunately for me, she didn't take his advice. 

Next time:  HOW THE BIBLE CHANGED MY  LIFE

Watchtower, 2011

4.22.2011

Jehovah's Word Is Alive-Highlights From the Book of Daniel

Jehovah 'Blesses Those Fearing Him'

What does the book of Daniel teach us about the God we worship?  Consider the prophecies contained therein-those already fulfilled and those yet to be fulfilled.  How vividly they paint Jehovah as the Fulfiller of his word! -Isaiah 55:11.

What does the narrative part of the book of Daniel show about our God?  The four Hebrew youths who refused to be assimilated into Babylonian court life received 'knowledge, insight and wisdom.'  (Daniel 1:17) The true God sent his angel and rescued Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego out of the fiery furnace.  Daniel was delivered from the lion's pit.  Jehovah 'helps and shields those trusting in him' and blesses those fearing him.' -Psalm 115:9, 13.

Next time: PARENTS-TRAIN YOUR CHILDREN WITH LOVE

Watchtower, 2007

4.13.2011

MAKE YOUR LIFE SUCCESSFUL!

The Benefits of Bible Reading

The psalmist also observed that the successful man take delight in reading God's Law "in an undertone day and night." (Psalm 1:1, 2)  Granted, the Bible is not light reading, and in it are "some things hard  to understand."  (2 Peter 3:16) But Bible reading need not be drudgery.  It is possible to "form a longing for the unadulterated milk"  of God's Word.  (1 Peter 2:2)  Try reading just a little each day.  If there are  points that you do not understand, do some research.  Afterward, think about what  you have read.  (Psalm 77:11, 12) If you have trouble concentrating, try reading out loud "in an undertone."  In time, your love of Bible reading is sure to grow.  One young sister in Brazil recalls:  "Jehovah always seemed distant to me.  But for some months now, I have been improving  my  personal study and Bible reading.  Now I feel that my relationship with Jehovah is stronger.  He is more real to me."

Attending congregation meetings is also vital to your spiritual growth.  If you "pay attention to how you listen,"  you can receive much encouragement.  (Luke 8:18) Do you sometimes feel that the meetings are not very interesting?  Well, ask yourself, 'What do I do to make the meetings interesting?  Do I pay attention?  Do I prepare?  Do I offer comments?' After all, the Bible tells us to "consider one another to incite to love and fine works, . . .encouraging one another."  (Hebrews 10:24, 25) To do this you must participate!  Of course, to participate you must study in advance.  A young sister admits:  "It really is easier to participate in the meetings when  you prepare."

Next time: Following God's Way Leads to Success

Watchtower, 1999

4.12.2011

MAKE YOUR LIFE SUCCESSFUL!

Avoid Envying Wrongdoers

Many young ones choose to forget Jehovah because they feel that being a Witness is too restrictive.  A brother in Spain recalls how he felt as a teenager:  "I was attracted to the world because the truth seemed difficult and rigid.  It meant sitting, studying, going to meetings, putting on a tie and those were not things I enjoyed doing."  Do you sometimes feel that you are missing out because you serve God?  Perhaps it will surprise you  to know that one of the writers of the Bible experienced those very feelings.  Please open your Bible and read Psalm 73. 

Let us examine this psalm in some detail.  Verses 2 and 3 say:  "As for me, my feet had almost turned aside, my steps had nearly been made to slip.  For I became envious of the boasters, when I would see the very peace of the wicked people."  According to the  superscription, this psalm was written by Asaph.  He was a Levite musician and contemporary of King David.  (1 Chronicles 25:1, 2; 2 Chronicles 29:30)  Although he had the fine privilege of serving in God's temple, he  "became envious" of men who boasted about their lawlessness.  Things appeared to go well for them; they apparently enjoyed peace and security.  In fact, their seeming successes 'exceeded the imaginations of their hearts.'  (Verses 5, 7)  They would talk about their exploits  "in an elevated style,"  that is, in an arrogant manner.  (Verse 8)  "They would put their mouths in the heavens and their tongue would walk about in the earth,' showing regard fro no one-either in heaven  or on earth. -Verse 9.

Perhaps the same can be  said about your peers at school.  You may hear them shamelessly boast of their sexual escapades, their wild parties and their indulgence in alcohol and drugs.  When you contrast your life of so-called pleasures with the narrow way you must walk as a Christian, you might sometimes feel "envious of the boasters."  (Matthew 7:13, 14)  Asaph himself got to the point where he exclaimed:  "Surely it is in vain that I have cleansed my heart and that I wash my hands in innocence itself.  And I came to be plagued all day long."  (Verses 13, 14)  Yes, he began to question the value of serving God and leading an upright life.

Next time: The Conclusion of Avoid Envying Wrongdoers

Watchtower, 1999

4.08.2011

YOUTHS-TRAIN YOUR PERCEPTIVE POWERS!

Discernment in Planning Your Education

The Bible says that it is wise to plan for the future.  (Proverbs 21:5)  have  you and your parents discussed your future?  Perhaps you plan to enter the full-time ministry as a pioneer.  Really, no career choice could bring greater satisfaction.  If  you are cultivating good study habits and developing skills in the ministry, you are preparing for this exciting career.  Have  you thought about how you will support yourself in the ministry?  If, in the future, you choose to raise a family, will you be able to care for that added responsibility?  making balanced, realistic decisions about such things requires the use of perceptive powers.

In some places it is still possible to get on-the -job training in a useful skill or profession.  There are youths who learn the family business or receive training from adult friends who have businesses.  Other take courses at school that will be useful in earning a living later.  Where such opportunities are not available, after careful thought parents may arrange for their children to receive some supplementary education after high school.  Planning ahead in this way so as to care for adult responsibilities and especially so as to be able to share in the pioneer service over the long term is not compatible with putting God's Kingdom first.  (Matthew 6:33) And supplementary education does not  rule out pioneering.  One  young  Witness, for example, had wanted to pioneer for a long time.  After she finished high school, her parents - regular pioneers themselves - arranged for her to have some supplementary education.  She was able to pioneer while she received her schooling, and now she has a  skill with which she supports herself as she continues pioneering.

In the matter of supplementary education, each family has the right and responsibility to make its own decision.  When such education is chosen, it can be helpful.  It can, though, be a trap.  If you are considering such education,  what is your goal?  Is it to  prepare yourself to handle adult responsibilities in an honorable way?  Or are you "seeking great things for  yourself"?  (Jeremiah 45:5; 2 Thessalonians 3
:10; 1 Timothy 5:8; 6:9)  What about pursuing supplementary education away from home, perhaps living on a campus?  Would that be  wise in view of Paul's warning that "bad associations spoil useful habits"?   (1 Corinthians 15:33; 2 Timothy 2:22)  Remember, too, that  "the time left is reduced."  (1 Corinthians 7:29)  How much time will you devote to such education?  Will it consume the bulk  of your youthful years?  If so, how will you apply the Bible's encouragement to "remember, now, your Grand Creator in the days of your young manhood"?  (Ecclesiastes 12:1) Further, will the courses  you take allow time for such vital Christian activities as meeting attendance, field service and personal study?  (Matthew 24:14; Hebrews 10:24, 25) If your perceptive powers are keen, you will never lose sight of spiritual goals as you and your parents  plan for your future.

Next time: Keeping Courtship Honorable

Watchtower, 1999

2.25.2011

What Happened to Integrity?


A LITTLE over one hundred years ago, Barney Barnato, a diamond speculator, returned to England from South Africa. Upon his arrival he took exception to a newspaper story written about him. So he gave the editor some handwritten notes for a second article, "just putting things right," with a check for a large sum of money.

The editor, J.K. Jerome, threw the notes into the wastepaper basket and gave the check back. Surprised, Barnato immediately doubled his offer. That was likewise rejected. "How much do you want?" He asked. Recalling the incident, Jerome says: "I explained to hm it wasn't done-not in London." His editorial integrity was definitely not for sale.

"Integrity" has been defined as "moral uprightness and honesty." A person of integrity is worthy of trust. But today, improbity -a lack of integrity-is undermining all walks of life.

In Britain the media have popularized the word "sleaze" to describe the loss of moral integrity. As The Independent newspaper put it, sleaze covers "everything from love affairs and local government gerrymandering to kickbacks or big expert orders. "No area of life is exempt.

Next time: Integrity's Fluctuating Standards

Watchtower, 1997

1.25.2011

Searching for Jehovah With a Prepared Heart



Factors That Enrich the "Soil of Our Heart

Let us consider some factors, or qualities, that will enrich the "soil" of our heart so that it favors healthy growth. There are, of course, many things that will improve our heart, but here we will consider six: a recognition of our spiritual need, humility, honesty, godly fear, faith and love.

"Happy are those conscious of their spiritual need," Jesus said. (Matthew 5:3) Like physical hunger that reminds us of our need to eat, an awareness of our spiritual need keeps us hungry for spiritual food. By nature, humans have a craving for such food because it gives meaning and purpose to life. Pressures from Satan's system of things, or sheer laziness when it comes to study may dull our consciousness of this need. Even so, Jesus said: "Man must live not on bread alone, but on every utterance coming forth through Jehovah's mouth." -Matthew 4:4.

In a literal way, regular, balanced, and wholesome meals promote bodily health, and they also incline the body to develop an appetite for the next meal when the time arrives. The same is true in a spiritual sense. You may not consider yourself to be a studious person, but if you make it a habit to read publications on a regular basis, you will find that your appetite increases. In fact, you will eagerly look forward to your times for Bible study. So do not give up easily; work hard to develop a wholesome spiritual appetite.

Next time: Humility Softens the Heart

Watchtower, 2000

1.17.2011

JEHOVAH -THE ONE WHO IS VIGOROUS IN POWER

POWER is something many of us take for granted. For example, we give little thought to the electrical power that gives us light and heat or to the convenience of plugging in any electrical appliance we may own. Only an unexpected power outage brings home to us that without power, man's cities would practically shut down. Most of the electricity on which we depend comes indirectly from the earth's most reliable power source-the sun. Every second this solar reactor consumes five million tons of nuclear fuel, showering the earth with life-sustaining energy.

Where does all this solar power come from? Who constructed this celestial power plant? Jehovah God did. Referring to him, Psalm 74:16 says: "You yourself prepared the luminary, even the sun." Yes, Jehovah is the ultimate Source of all power, just as he is the Source of all life. (Psalm 36:9) Never should we take this power for granted. Through the prophet Isaiah, Jehovah reminds us to look up at the heavenly bodies, such as the sun and the stars and meditate on how they came into existence. "Raise your eyes high up and see. Who has created these things? It is the One who is bring forth the army of them even by number, all of who he calls even by name. Due to the abundance of dynamic energy, he also being vigorous in power, not one of them is missing." -Isaiah 40:26; Jeremiah 3
2:17.

Since Jehovah is vigorous in power, we can rest assured that the sun will continue to provide us the light and heat on which our lives depend. However, we rely on the power of God for much more than our basic individual needs. Our redemption from sin and death, our hope for the future, and our trust in Jehovah are all inseparably linked to his exercise of power. (Psalm 28:6-9; Isaiah 50:2) The Bible abounds with examples that testify to Jehovah's power to create and redeem, to save his people and destroy his enemies.

Next time: God's Power Is Manifest to Creation

Watchtower, 2000

1.08.2011

GETTING TO KNOW " THE MIND OF CHRIST"



Conclusion of What Jesus Was Like as a Person

Jesus was a Master Teacher. Much of his teaching reflected the realities of everyday life, with which he was well acquainted. (Matthew 13:33; Luke 45:8) His manner of teaching was matchless-ever clear, simple, and practical. Even more significant is what he taught. His teachings reflected his heartfelt desire to acquaint his listeners with the thoughts, feelings, and ways of Jehovah. -John 17:6-8.

Often using illustrations, Jesus revealed his Father with vivid word pictures that could not be easily forgotten. It is one thing to talk in general terms about the mercy of God. It is quite another to liken Jehovah to a forgiving father who is so deeply moved at the sight of his returning son that he 'runs and falls upon his son's neck and tenderly kisses him.' (Luke 15:11-24) Rejecting a rigid culture in which religious leaders looked down on common people, Jesus explained that his Father was an approachable God who preferred the pleas of a humble tax collector to the showy prayer of a boastful Pharisee. (Luke 18:9-14) Jesus portrayed Jehovah as a caring God who knows when a tiny sparrow falls to the ground. "Have no fear," Jesus reassured his disciples,' "you are worth more than many sparrows." (Matthew 10:29,1) Understandably, people were astounded at Jesus' "way of teaching" and were drawn to hm. (Matthew 7:28, 29) Why, on one occasion "a big crowd" remained near him for three days, even going without food! -Mark 8:1, 2.

We can be thankful that Jehovah has revealed in his Word the mind of Christ! How, though, can we cultivate and demonstrate the mind of Christ in our dealings with others? This will be discussed in the next article.

Next time: DO YOU HAVE "THE MIND OF CHRIST"?

Watchtower, 2000

12.30.2010

LET US BE THE SORT THAT HAVE FAITH



Bringing Examples of Faith to Life

Paul also built faith by powerful use of examples. As you read Hebrews chapter 11, note how he brings the examples of Bible characters to life. He says, for instance, that Moses "continued steadfast as seeing the one who is invisible." In other words, Jehovah was so real to Moses that it was as if he could see the invisible God. Could the same be true of us? It is easy to talk about a relationship with Jehovah, but to build and strengthen that relationship requires work. That is work we need to do! Is Jehovah so real to us that we take him into consideration when making decisions, including minor ones? Faith of that kind will help us to endure even the worse opposition.

Consider, too, the faith of Enoch. The opposition he faced is difficult for us to imagine. Enoch had to deliver a stinging message of judgment against the wicked people living then. (Jude 14, 15) The persecution that threatened this faithful man was evidently so vicious, so violent, that Jehovah "transferred him," taking him from the living state to the sleep of death before the enemies could lay hold of him. So Enoch did not get to see the fulfillment of the prophecy to be uttered. However, he received a gift that was in some respects, even better. -Hebrews 11:5; Genesis 5:22-24.

Paul explains: "Before his transference [Enoch] had the witness that he had pleased God well." (Hebrews 11:5) What did this mean? Before he went into the sleep of death, Enoch may have had a vision of some kind, perhaps of the earthly Paradise in which he will awaken one day soon. In any case, Jehovah let Enoch know that He was well pleased by his faithful course. Enoch had made Jehovah's heart rejoice. (Compare Proverbs 27:11) Thinking of Enoch's life is touching, is it not? Would you like to live such a life of faith? Then ponder over such examples; see them as real people. Be determined to live by faith, day by day. Remember, too, that the sort that have faith do not serve Jehovah on the basis of a date or deadline when God will fulfill all his promises. Rather, we are resolved to serve Jehovah forever! Doing so means the very best of life in this system of things and in the next.

Next time: How to Grow Stronger in the Faith

Watchtower, 1999

12.29.2010

LET US BE THE SORT THAT HAVE FAITH



Express Confidence in One Another

The first thing we might note is Paul's positive attitude toward his audience. He wrote: "Now we are not the sort that shrink back to destruction, but the sort that have faith to the preserving alive of the soul." (Hebrews 10:39) Paul thought the best, not the worst, of his faithful fellow Christians. Notice, too, that he used the expression "we." Paul was a righteous man. Yet, he did not speak down to his audience, as if he were on a lofty plane of righteousness far above them. (Compare Ecclesiastes 7:16) Rather, he included himself with them. He expressed heartfelt confidence that he and his faithful Christian readers would all face the daunting obstacles looming before them, that they would courageously refuse to shrink back to destruction, and that they would prove to be of the sort that have faith.

How could Paul have such confidence? Was he blind to the faults of the Hebrew Christians? On the contrary, he offered them specific counsel to help them overcome their spiritual shortcomings . (Hebrews 3:12; 5:12-14; 6:4-6; 10:26, 27; 12:5) Still, Paul had at least two good reasons for having confidence in his brothers. (1) As an imitator of Jehovah, Paul endeavored to see God's people as Jehovah sees them. That was not merely in terms of their faults but in terms of their good qualities and their potential for choosing to do good in the future. (Psalm 130:3; Ephesians 5:1) (2) Paul had implicit faith in the power of the holy spirit. He knew that no obstacles, no human frailties could prevent Jehovah from imparting "power beyond what is normal" to any Christians endeavoring to serve Him faithfully. (2 Corinthians 4:7; Philippians 4:13) So Paul's confidence in is brothers and sisters was not misplaced,unrealistic, or blindly optimistic. It was solidly based and Scripturally founded.

Surely, the confidence Paul displayed proved infectious. It must have meant a great deal to the congregation in Jerusalem and Judea to have Paul speak so encouragingly to them. In the face of the withering scorn and haughty indifference of their Jewish opposers, the Hebrew Christians were helped by such expressions to resolve in their hearts to be the sort that have faith. Can we do the same for one another today? It is all too easy to see in others only a long list of faults and personality quirks. (Matthew 7:1-5) Yet, we can help on another far more if we take note of and value the unique faith that each one possesses. With such encouragement, faith is more likely to grow. -Romans 1:11, 12.

Next time: Fitting Use of God's Word

Watchtower, 1999

12.24.2010

CHRISTMAS IN THE ORIENT



The Role of Gift-Giving

Gift-giving is one custom that has never faded away. For a long time, Koreans have found much joy in giving and receiving gifts. This was one reason for the popularizing of the Christmas celebration in Korea.

After World War II, for the U.S. soldiers stationed in Korea who wanted to strengthen their ties with the people, churches were places to meet and to distribute gifts and relief aid. Especially on Christmas Day did this occur. Many children visited churches out of curiosity, and there they had their first exposure to gifts of chocolate. As you can understand, many of them then looked forward to the next Christmas.

For such children, Santa Claus was an American soldier in a red stocking cap. Proverbs 19:6 says: "Everybody is a companion to the man making gifts." Yes, gift-giving proved to be very effective. But as you can conclude from that verse, such gifts do not guarantee a lasting friendship. Even in Korea, many are those whose experiences with the church amounted to nothing more than a taste of chocolate in their younger years. Christmas, though, was not forgotten. Along with Korea's rapid economic growth, commercialism grew, and Christmas gift-giving was a simple means for boasting consumer spending. Businesses exploited Christmas to increase profits.

That provides you with insight into Christmas in the Orient today. Aiming at the Christmas shopping spree, new products are developed. Plans for advertisements begin in midsummer. Sales figures peak at year-end, supported by all the purchasing of Christmas gifts, cards and musical recordings. Why, advertisement would make the average youth feel miserable if he or she stayed at home and did not get any presents on Christmas Eve!

As Christmas Day draws near, stores and shopping malls in Seoul get crowded with people who are there to buy gifts, and the story is the same in other Oriental cities. There are traffic jams, Hotels, business districts, restaurants and nightclubs are flooded with customers. Sounds of revelry-loud singing-can be heard. On Christmas Eve, drunken men and women are seen making their way through streets that are littered with trash.

So it is, Christmas in the Orient is no longer a holiday led by professed Christians. Obviously, in Korea as elsewhere, commercialism has taken the lead in making the most of this holiday of Christendom. . Is the commercialism, then, solely to blame for a Christmas that has become so out of line with the spirit of Christ? True Christians need to probe deeper into the serious issues involved.

Next time: The Origin of Christmas

Watchtower, 1999

12.15.2010

FORGIVE FROM YOUR HEART

We Need to Work at Being Forgiving

It would be nice to think that in the Christian congregation, there are few occasions when we have to practice the godly course of forgiving. The reality is otherwise. Granted, our Christian brothers and sisters are striving to follow Jesus' pattern of love. (John 13:35; 15:12, 13; Galatians 6:2) They have long worked, and are still working, to abandon ways of thinking, speaking, and acting common to this wicked world. They truly want to manifest the new personality. (Colossians 3:9, 10) Yet, we cannot ignore the fact that the global congregation, and each local congregation, is composed of imperfect humans. Overall, they are certainly better than they once were, yet they are still imperfect.

In the Bible, God deliberately tells us that we can expect imperfection in the congregation, among our brothers and sisters. Consider, for instance, Paul's words recorded at Colossians 3:13: "Continue putting up with one another and forgiving one another freely if anyone has a cause for complaint against another. Even as Jehovah freely forgave you, so do you also.{"

Significantly, the Bible here reminds us of the link between God's forgiving us and our duty and need to be forgiving toward others. Why is this a challenge? Because Paul admitted that someone may have "a cause for complaint against another." He realized that such causes would exist. They must have existed in the first century, even among Christian "holy ones," who, had a 'hope reserved for them in the heavens.' (Colossians 1:2, 5) So we can imagine that it would be otherwise today when most true Christians do not have the testimony of the spirit that they are God's chosen ones, holy and loved."? (Colossians 3:12) Hence, we should not conclude that something is exceptionally wrong if in our congregation there are causes for complaint-hurtful feelings over real or supposed wrongs.

The words of Jesus' half brother James also show that we must expect that we may at least occasionally encounter situations that call on us to forgive our brothers. "Who is wise and understanding among you? Let him show out of his fine conduct his works with a mildness that belongs to wisdom. But if you have bitter jealousy and contentiousness in your hearts, do not be bragging and lying against the truth." (James 3:13, 14) "Bitter jealousy and contentiousness" in the hearts of true Christians? Yes, James' words clearly suggest that such had surfaced in the first-century congregation and will do so today.

A real example involved two anointed Christians who had a fine reputation for exerting themselves side by side with Paul. You may recall reading about Euodia and Syntyche, members of the Philippian congregation. Though not describing the matter in detail. Philippians 4:2,3 shows that there was some problem between them. Did it begin with a thoughtless, unkind comment, a perceived slight of a relative, or some evidence of competitive jealousy? Whatever its nature, it became so serious that Paul heard about it far away in Rome. Icy silence may have developed between the two spiritual sisters, leading to their keeping each other at a distance at the meetings or making harsh comments about the other to their friends.

Does any of that sound familiar, like what occurred between some in your congregation or something that you were involved in? A problem of that sort may even now exist to a degree. What can we do? In the ancient case , Paul urged those two dedicated sisters "to be of the same mind in the Lord." They may have agreed to discuss the matter, to clear the air, to express a mutual willingness to forgive,and then actually to imitate Jehovah's forgiving attitude. There is not reason to think other than that euodia and Syntyche succeeded, and we too can succeed. Such a forgiving attitude can be applied successfully today.

Next time: Make Peace-Forgive

Watchtower, 1999

10.30.2010

'SAVE YOURSELF AND THOSE WHO LISTEN TO YOU


Working to Save Your Children

Among those whom we want to save, of course, are our family members. A great number of the children of Christian parents are sincere and "solid in the faith." Others, though, may not have the truth deeply rooted in their hearts. (1 Peter 5:9; Ephesians 3:17; Colossians 2:7) Many of these young people leave the Christian way when they approach or enter adulthood. If you are a parent, what can you do to make such an outcome less likely? First, you can work on creating a wholesome family atmosphere. A good family life lays the groundwork for a healthy view of authority, appreciation of proper values, and happy relations with others. (Hebrews 12:9) Thus, close bonds within the family can be the seedbed in which a child's friendship with Jehovah can grow. (Psalm 22:10) Strong families do things together as a unit-even if parents must sacrifice time that could be used to personal advantage. In this way you can by example teach your children to make right decisions in life. Parents, what your children need most from you is, not material advantages, but you-your time, energy and love. Are you giving your children these things?

Christian parents must never assume that their children will automatically become Christians too. Daniel, and elder and father of five, observes: "Parents must take the time to help dispel the doubts that their children inevitably pick up at school and other places. They must patiently help their children work out the answers to such questions as: 'Are we actually living in the time of the end? Is there really only one true religion? Why is a certain seemingly nice schoolmate not good association? Is it always wrong to have sex before marriage?' " Parents, you can count on Jehovah to bless your efforts, for he too is interested in your children's welfare.

Some parents may feel inadequate when it comes to studying with their own children. However, you need not feel this way, for no one is in a better position to instruct your children than you are. (Ephesians 6:4) Studying with your own children will allow you to know firsthand what is in their hearts and minds. Are their expressions heartfelt or perfunctory? Do they really believe what they are learning? Is Jehovah real to them? You can find the answers to these and other vital questions only if you personally study with your children. -2 Timothy 1:5.

How can you maintain your family study program once you have started it? Joseph, an elder and father of a young son and daughter, says: "Like all Bible studies, the family study should be enjoyable, something everyone looks forward to. To achieve that in our family, we can't be too rigid with regard to time. Our study may last an hour, but even if occasionally we have only ten minutes, we still study. One thing that makes our study a high point in the week for the children is that we act out scenes from My Book of Bible Stories. The depth of impression and the comprehension that result are far more important than how many paragraphs we cover."

Of course, teaching your children is not limited to formal study periods. (Deuteronomy 6:5-7) The Witness in Thailand mentioned at the outset says: "I vividly remember how Dad used to take me along in the preaching work, on our bicycles, to the far corners of our congregation territory. Definitely, it was our parent's fine example and their teaching us under all circumstances that helped us to decide to enter the full-time ministry. And the lessons must have stuck. I'm still working in the far corners of the field!"

One day soon, at just the right time, Jesus will come to execute God's judgment on this system. That great event will then pass into universal history, but Jehovah's faithful servants will keep right on serving him with eternal salvation in view. Do you hope to be among them, along with your children and Bible students? Then remember: "Pay constant attention to yourself and to your teaching. Stay by these things, for by doing this you will save both yourself and those who listen to you." -1 Timothy 4:16.

Next time: Music That Pleases God

Watchtower, 2000

9.29.2010

ACQUIRE A HEART AGREEABLE TO JEHOVAH

HE WAS tall in stature and attractive in appearance. Upon seeing him, the prophet Samuel was so impressed that he concluded that this eldest son of Jesse was the one God had chosen to be king after Saul. But Jehovah declared: "Do not look at [that son's] appearance and at the height of his stature, for I have rejected him. . . .Mere man sees what appears to the eyes; but as for Jehovah, he sees what the heart is." Jehovah's choice proved to be Jesse's youngest son, David- "a man agreeable to the heart." -1 Samuel 13:14; 16:7.

God can read the human heart, as he later made clear: "I, Jehovah, am searching the heart,examining the kidneys, even to give to each one according to his ways, according to the fruitage of his dealings." (Jeremiah 17:10) Yes, "Jehovah is the examiner of the hearts." (Proverbs 17:3) What, though, is the heart in a man that Jehovah examines? And what can we do to acquire a heart agreeable to him?

Next time: "The Secret Person Of The Heart"

Watchtower, 2001