Be Alert to the Importance of Commendation

Elders who Offer Proper Commendation

Cornelia, a Christian woman now serving in a European branch office of Jehovah's Witnesses, recalls that during the early 1970's the visiting traveling overseer asked her how she was doing with her personal study and magazine reading.  "I felt a little ashamed of myself,"  she says.  But she went on to admit that she did not manage to read every magazine article.  "Instead of finding fault with me for this,"  she remembers, "he commended me for reading as much as I did.  I felt so encouraged by his commendation that since then, I have  been determined to read every single article."

Ray, who serves at a branch office in Europe, remembers his first day of pioneer service.  The presiding overseer of the congregation, a man with business and family obligations as well as numerous responsibilities in the congregation, entered the Kingdom Hall that evening and went straight to Ray and asked,   "How was your first day of pioneer service?"  Now, almost 60  years later, Ray still remembers that elder's thoughtfulness.

As those two experiences show, a sincere,  loving expression of appreciation for what others have done- not just thoughtless  words or pointless flattery-can work wonders. In the Christian congregation, we have so many reasons to commend our fellow believers.  Just think of the desire to serve Jehovah, their well-prepared comments, their progress in overcoming stage fright in order to deliver talks or to participate in meeting parts, their zeal in their preaching and teaching, and their attempts to highlight Kingdom interests and spiritual goals.  When we give commendation to others, we are richly rewarded.  It makes us happy and puts us in a positive frame of mind. -Acts 20:35.



Congregation elders do well to commend the congregation for its good work.  And when counsel is necessary, they give it in a spirit of love.  On the other hand,they avoid becoming so concerned with doing everything  just right that anything short of perfection is regarded as serious weakness.

Christian elders who copy the example of respectful and loving courtesy shown by Elihu, the tactful approach used by Paul, and the loving concern shown by Jesus will be a source of genuine encouragement to their brothers.  Commendation will bring out their best in others and will make for joyful, harmonious relationships.  How Jesus at his baptism must have rejoiced to hear his heavenly Father commend him with the words:  "You are my Son, the beloved; I have approved you!"    (Mark 1:11)  May we cause the hearts of our brothers to rejoice by our sincere meaningful words of commendation.

Next time: Jehovah's Word Is Alive-Highlights From the Book of Daniel

Watchtower, 2007

Be Alert to the Importance of Commendation

Jesus' Perfect Example of Offering Commendation

Jesus offered commendation.  For instance, after his resurrection and ascension to heaven, Jesus, at God's direction, spoke through the apostle John to the seven  congregations in Asia Minor.  He did not fail to commend those who deserved commendation.  To the congregation Ephesus, Pergamum and Thyatira, he used such expressions as:  "I know your deeds, and your labor and endurance, and that you cannot bear bad men;"  "you keep on holding fast my name, and you did not deny your faith in me;"  and "I know your deeds and your love and faith and ministry and endurance, and that your deeds of late are more than those formerly."  Even in Sardis, where the congregation needed strong counsel, Jesus took note of individuals who were worthy of commendation, saying:  "Nevertheless, you do have a few names in Sardis that did not defile their outer garments, and they shall walk with me in white ones, because they are worthy."  (Revelation 2:2, 13, 19; 3:4)  What a fine example Jesus set!

In imitation of Jesus, we should never condemn and entire group for the failure of a few or give necessary counsel without also giving appropriate commendation.  It is good to have in mind, however,  that if we give commendation only when we  plan to give counsel, our commendation may sometimes fall on deaf ears.  Be generous in giving commendation whenever possible!  Then, should counsel be needed on another occasion, it will be more readily accepted.

Next time: Elders Who Offer Proper Commendation

Watchtower, 2007