JEHOVAH COMFORTS US THROUGH FELLOW BELIEVERS

 When we are suffering, our fellow believers can be "a source of great comfort." (Colossians 4:11) Our brothers and sisters are truly a living expression of Jehovah's love for us. Fellow believers can comfort us by listening empathically, or they may support us with their presence.  They may share a reassuring Bible verse or say a prayer with us. (Romans 15:4) At times, a brother or a sister may remind us of Jehovah's thinking and thus help us maintain our balance. Fellow Christians can also give us practical support, such as providing a meal when we are in distress.

To receive support from others, we need to ask for it. Our brothers and sisters love us and want to help. (Proverbs 17:17) But they may know how we feel or what we need.  (Proverbs 14:10) If you are hurting emotionally, be willing to share your feelings with mature friends. Let them know what would help you. You might choose to confide in one or two sisters with whom you feel at ease. Some sisters have found it comforting to speak with another mature sister. 

Resist the urge to isolate yourself. Because of painful emotion, you may not feel like interacting with others. At times, you brothers and sisters may misunderstand you or fail to choose the right words. (James 3:2) Do not let such challenges prevent you from receiving the encouragement you need. An elder named Gavin, you suffers from depression says: "Keeping in touch with friends is often the last thing I feel like doing." Nevertheless, Gavin does not give in to his feelings, and he benefits from his association with others. A sister named Amy says: "Because of my past experiences, I have difficulty trusting people.  But I am learning to love and to trust my brothers and sisters as Jehovah does. I know that this makes Jehovah happy, and it makes me happy too." 

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