HOW INSIGHT HELPS US TO BE MILD -Conclusion

 When confronted by someone who has strong views, we should not quickly assume that we know what he believes. (Titus 3:2) For example what if your schoolmate says that is ridiculous to believe in God? Should you assume that he strongly believes in evolution and knows a lot about it? Actually, he may not have given the subject much thought. Instead of starting a debate about science, you can find a way to give your schoolmate something to think about later. Perhaps you could direct hi to material about creation found on jw.org. He might later be willing to discuss an article or video found there. Yes, a respectful response may move him to reconsider his view.

A teenager named Niall used our website to overcome some misconceptions about Jehovah's Witnesses. He says, "I was often told by a classmate that I do not believe in science because I trust a 'made-up book rather than the facts." When this classmate did not allow Niall to explain his beliefs, he directed the classmate to the jw.org section "Science and the Bible." Later, Niall discerned that the student has likely read the material and was more willing to discuss the origin of life. You might  have a similar result.

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HOW INSIGHT HELPS US TO BE MILD - Continue

 If a workmate asks, for example, why we do not celebrate birthdays, consider: Could he be wondering whether we are allowed to have a good time? Or might he feel that our position will dampen the company's team spirit? We may be able to ease or workmate's concerns by expressing how much we appreciate his interest in fellow workers and assuring him that we want to enjoy a pleasant environment at work.  That might open the way to a relaxed conversation about the Bible indicates regarding the subject of birthdays.

We might use a similar approach when other controversial topics come up. A schoolmate might assert that Jehovah's Witnesses should change their view of homosexuality. Does that reflect a misconception about Jehovah's Witnesses? Or could it be he has a friend or relative who a homosexual? Does he assume we have no love for people who pursue that lifestyle? We may need to assure him that we care for all people and that we respectfully recognize that each person has the right to make his own choices. (1 Peter 2:17) We might then be able to highlight the Bible's beneficial moral standards. 

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HOW INSIGHT HELPS US TO BE MILD

 Insight can also help us. (Proverbs 19:11) An insightful show restraint when challenged about his beliefs. Some questions or challenges are like icebergs, the greater part lying below the surface.  For example, a hidden motive or concern may prompt a person to ask a question. So before answering, we do well to realize that we may not know what has moved the person to raise the issue. - PROVERBS 16:23.

Consider how Gideon responded to the men of Ephraim. They angrily challenged him as to why he did not call them earlier to join him in the fight against Israel's enemies. Was there an underlying reason for their contentious attitude? Hurt pride, perhaps? Whatever the case, Gideon wisely respected their feeling and gave them a mild answer. The result? Disarmed, "they calmed down." - JUDGES 8:1-3. 

Perhaps a coworker or a schoolmate questions our Christian stand on certain moral issues. We will do our best to defend our convictions while respecting our listener's view. (Read 1 Peter 3:15) It is often helpful to view the questions as a way to learn what he cares about rather than an attack or a challenge. Regardless of the reason why someone has raised an issue, we do well to respond in a gentle, kind way. Our answer may then move him to reconsider his viewpoint. Even if his manner seems rude or sarcastic, our goal should be to respond kindly. - ROMANS 12:17. 

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Let Mildness Be Your Strength - Conclusion

 Christian parents, be assured that you too can teach your child the value of mildness. Consider the example of Maxence, age 17. He had to deal with angry people at school and in the ministry. His parents patiently worked with him to help him cultivate mildness. They say, "Maxence had come to understand that when provoked it takes more strength to hold back than to respond with anger or violence." Happily, mildness has become Maxence's strength.

What can we do when we are facing a tense situation, such as when someone slanders the name of our God or ridicules the Bible? We should ask Jehovah for his spirit and for his wisdom to respond in a mild way. What if we later realize that we did not respond as well as we should have? We can pray again about the matter and think of how we can do better the next time. In turn, Jehovah will grant us his holy spirit so that we can control our temper and show mildness.

Some Bible verses can help us to control our speech when confronted with difficult situations. God's spirit can bring those texts to mind. (John14:26) For example, the principles we find in the book of Proverbs can help us to be mild. (Read Proverbs 15:1, 18.) That Bible book also reveals the benefits of showing restraint in tense situations. - PROVERBS 10:19; 17:27; 21:23; 25:15. 

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Let Mildness Be Your Strength - HOW TO DEVELOP MILDNESS

 Mildness is a strength, not a weakness. It takes inner strength to keep calm when facing a trying situation.  Mildness is one aspect of "the fruitage of the spirit." (Galatians 5:22, 23) A form of the Greek word rendered "mildness" was at times used to describe a wild horse that had been tamed. Picture a wild horse that becomes gentle. That is, gently, yet strong. As humans, how can we develop mildness and at the same time be strong? Not by sheer willpower. A key to praying for God's spirit, asking him to help us to cultivate this beautiful quality. Experience shows that this can be done. Many Witnesses have responded mildly when confronted by opposers, leaving a favorable impression on observers.  (Read 2 Timothy 2:24, 25.) How can you make mildness one of your strengths? 

The Bible contains many accounts that highlight the value of mildness. Take the example of Isaac. When he settled in the Philistine territory of Gerar, his envious neighbors stopped up wells that his father's servants had dug. Instead of fighting for his rights, Isaac moved his household further away and dug other wells. (Genesis 26:12-18) But the Philistines claimed that the water is this location was also theirs. Despite this, Isaac acted peacefully. (Genesis 26:19-25) What helped him to remain mild even when others seemed determined to provoke him? He surely observed the example of his parents, learning much from the peaceful ways of Abraham and "the quiet and mild spirit of Sarah." - 1 PETER 3:4-6; GENESIS 21:12-34. 

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Let Mildness Be Strength

 "A slave of the Lord does not need to fight, but needs to be gentle toward all." - 1 TIMOTHY 2:24.

HOW do you feel when a workmate of a schoolmate asks you about your beliefs? Do you feel nervous? Most of us do. But such a question may offer insight into the other person's thinking or beliefs, giving us an opportunity to share the good news. At times, though, a person may raise a question in a challenging manner. That should not surprise us. After all, some have been misinformed about our beliefs.  (Acts 28:22) Furthermore, we are ling in "the last days," a time when many are "" and are not open to any agreement and are even "fierce." - 2 TIMOTHY 3:1,3. 

You may wonder, 'How can I be gentle and gracious when someone challenges my Bible-based beliefs?' What will help you? In a word-mildness. A mild person does not easily upset but is able to control himself when faced with frustrations and uncertainties. (Proverbs 16:32) You my feel, though, that it is easier said than done. How can you develop mildness? How you respond with mildness when someone challenges your beliefs? And if you are a parent, how can you help your children to learn how to defend their faith with mildness? Let us see.

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OTHER EVIDENCE THAT JEHOVAH APPROVES OF US - Conclusion

Jehovah is pleased to entrust the good news to those whom he approves of. (Read 1 Thessalonians 2:4.) Note how a sister named Jocelyn benefited from sharing the good news with others. One day, Jocelyn woke up feeling depressed. "I felt as if I had nothing to give," she says, "But I was pioneering, and it was service day. So I said a prayer and went out in service." That morning Jocelyn met Mary, a kind woman who accepted a Bible study. Some months later Mary mentioned that the had been praying to God for help when Jocelyn knocked on her door. Reflecting on this experience, Jocely says, "I felt as if Jehovah were telling me, 'I approve of you. "Of course, not everyone will respond positively to our preaching work, but we can be sure that Jehovah is pleased when we try to our best to share the good news with others. 

Jehovah applies the value of the ransom to those he approves of. (1 Timothy 2:5, 6) But what if our heart resists the idea that Jehovah approves of us, even though we have faith in the ransom and are baptized? Remember we cannot always trust our own feelings but we can trust Jehovah. He considers those who have faith in the ransom to be righteous in his eyes and promises to bless them. (Read Psalm 5:12; Romans 3:26) Meditating on the ransom helped Vicky. One day after thinking deeply about the ransom, she realized: "Jehovah had been patient with me for so long. . . . . Yet, I was, in effect, saying to him: "Your love is not great enough to reach me. Your Son's sacrifice is not enough to cover me." By meditating on this gift of the ransom, she began to feel loved by Jehovah. We too will feel loved by Jehovah and sense his approval as reflect on the ransom.

Although we may try hard to apply the above suggestions, we may at times get discouraged and wonder if we have Jehovah's approval. If that happens, remember that he approves of "those who continue loving Him."  (James 1:12) So continue to draw close to Jehovah and take note of his approval for you. Always bear in mind that Jehovah "is not far off from each of one of us." -ACTS 17:27.

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OTHER EVIDENCE THAT JEHOVAH APPROVES OF US

 Jehovah gives his holy spirit to those whom he approves of.(Matthew 12:18) We can ask ourselves, 'Have I been able to display some aspect of the fruitage of God's spirit in my life?' Do you notice that you are more patient with others than you were before you came to know Jehovah? Actually, the more you learn to display the fruitage of God's spirit, the more evident it will be that you have Jehovah's approval. - See the box "The Fruitage of the Spirit Is. . . .

                                                                                                                   

 "The Fruitage of the Spirit Is . . .

Explore this nine-part series of the in the Watchtower to learn more about each aspect of the fruitage of God's holy spirit. - GALATIANS 5:22, 23. 

. "Love-A Precious Quality" (w17.08) 

.  "Joy-A Quality We Acquire From God" (w18.02) 

. "Peace-How Can You Find It?" (w18.05) 

. "Patience-Endurance With a Purpose" (w18.08)

. "Kindness-A Quality Expressed in Word and Action" (w18:11)

. "Goodness-How Can You Cultivate It?" (w19.03)

. "Faith-A Strengthening Quality" (w19.08)

. "Mildness-How Does It Benefit Us?" (w20.05) 

. "Self-Control-Essential for Jehovah's Approval" (w20.06)

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HOW DOES JEHOVAH EXPRESS HIS APPROVAL? -Conclusion

Through fellow worshippers.  Jehovah uses our brothers and sisters to express his approval of us. For example, he may move others to speak encouraging words at the right time. A sister in Asia experienced this during a time of great stress. She had lost her job and had become seriously ill. Then her husband committed a serious sin and was removed as an elder. "I could not figure out why this was happening," she said. "I thought perhaps I had done something wrong and had lost Jehovah's approval." Our sister begged Jehovah to reassure her of his approval. How did he do so? She notes, "The congregation elders talked with me and reassured me of Jehovah's love." Later she again asked Jehovah for help. "That same day I received a letter from a group of brothers and sisters in the congregation," she says. "As I read their comforting words, I felt that Jehovah had heard me." Yes, Jehovah often expresses his approval through the kind words of others. - PSALM 10:17.

Jehovah also expresses his approval of us by using fellow believers to give us counsel when we need it. For example, in the first century, Jehovah used the apostle Paul to write 14 inspired letters to fellow believers. Those letters included firm but loving counsel. Why did Jehovah inspire Paul to include such counsel? Jehovah is a good Father, and he disciplines his children "in whom he delights." (Proverbs 3:11, 12) So if we receive Bible-based counsel we can see it as evidence that we have God's approval, the that we have lost it.  (Hebrews 12:6) What are other indications that we have Jehovah's approval? 

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HOW DOES JEHOVAH EXPRESS HIS APPROVAL?

 Through the Bible. Jehovah loves to express warm approval of those for whom he has affection. The Scriptures report two occasions when He told Jesus that he was his beloved, approved Son. (Matthew 3:17; 17:5) Would you like to hear Jehovah reassure you of his approval? Jehovah does not speak audibly, but he speaks to us from the pages of his Word. We can "hear "Jehovah's voice of approval when we read Jesus' words in the Gospels. (Read John 16:27.) Jesus perfectly reflected his Father's personality. So when we read that Jesus expressed his approval of his imperfect but faithful followers, we can picture Jehovah saying those words to us. - JOHN 15:9, 15.

Through his actions. Jehovah is eager to help us, such as providing for our material needs. At times, Jehovah may allow us to suffer hardships, as he did righteous Job. (Job 1:8-11) Trials do not mean that we have lost God's approval. Rather, they provide us with opportunities to prove the depth of our love for God and our trust in him. (Read James 1:12.) We will experience his loving care and support as helps us endure.

Consider a brother in Asia named Dimitri. He lost his job and could not find work for many months. So he decided to increase his share in the ministry, thus showing that he trust in Jehovah. Months dragged on, and he still could not find work. Then he experienced health problems to the point that he became bedridden. He began to doubt his worth as a husband and father, and if he wondered if he lost Jehovah's approval. Then one evening his daughter printed on a sheet of paper the words found at Isaiah 30:15: "Your strength will be in keeping calm and showing trust." She brought it to his bedside and said, "Daddy, when you feel bad, you can remember this scripture." Dimitri realized that thanks to Jehovah, his family still had adequate food, clothing, and shelter." What I needed to do, "he says "was stay calm and continue trusting in my God." If you are facing a similar trial, you can trust that Jehovah cares about you and will help you to endure.

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WHY SOME MAY FEEL THAT JEHOVAH DOES NOT APPROVE OF THEM - Conclusion

 Our heavenly Father promises to give us if we are repentant. (Psalm 86:5) So if we are truly sorry for the sins we have committed, we can take Jehovah at his word-he has forgiven us. -COLOSSIANS 2:13. 

We all want to serve Jehovah as fully as possible.  However, some may feel that they can never do enough to gain his approval. A sister named Amanda says: "I tend to equate giving Jehovah my best with the constant need to do more. I often expect more of my myself than I can give. When I 'fail,' I assume that Jehovah is as disappointed as I am with myself."

How can we overcome the feeling that we can never do enough to please Jehovah? Remember that Jehovah is not rigid, or inflexible. He never demands more of us than we can reasonably do. He appreciates whatever we do for him as long as we are doing our best. Also, reflect on Bible example of those who served Jehovah whole souled. Think of Paul. He exerted himself zealously for years, traveling thousands of miles establishing many congregations. Yet, when circumstances limited his share in the preaching work, did he lose God's approval? No. He continued to do what he could, and Jehovah blessed him. (Acts 28:30, 31) Similarly, what we can give to Jehovah may vary at times. But matters to him is why we do it. Let us now consider some ways that Jehovah expresses his approval of us.

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WHY SOME MAY FEEL THAT JEHOVAH DOES NOT APPROVE OF THEM

 A number of us have battled feeling of low self-worth since childhood. (Psalm 88:15) A brother named Adrian says: "I have always felt worthless. Some of my earliest memories are of praying that my family would make it into Paradise, although I was sure that I was not good enough to be there." Tony. who did grow up in a Christian home, says: "My parents never told me that they loved me or were proud of me. The message was that I could always do better." 

If we at times struggle with feelings of worthlessness, we can remember that in his own way, Jehovah drew us to him. (John 6:44) He sees the good in us that we may not see in ourselves, and he knows our heart. (1 Samuel 16:7; 2 Chronicles 6:30) So we can trust him when he says that we are precious. - 1 JOHN 3:19, 20. 

Before learning the truth, some of us did things that may still fill us with guilt. (1 Peter 4:3) Even faithful Christians battle against sinful inclinations. Does your hear condemn you? If so, take comfort in knowing that faithful servants of Jehovah struggle with similar feelings. For example, the apostle Paul felt miserable when reflecting on his imperfections. (Romans 7:24) Of course, Paul had repented of his sins and got baptized. Still, he referred to himself as "the least of the apostles" and the "foremost" s sinner. - 1 CORINTHIANS 15:9; 1 TIMOTHY 1:15.

Next time: WHY SOME MAY FEEL THAT JEHOIVAH DOES NOT APPROVE OF THEM - Conclusion

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Find Comfort in Jehovah's Approval

 "I have approved of you." - LUKE 3:22.

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HOW reassuring it is to know that Jehovah approves of his people as a group! The Bible says: "Jehovah takes pleasure in his people." (Psalm 149:4) At times, however, some get so discouraged that they may wonder, 'Does Jehovah approve of me personally?' A number of Jehovah's faithful worshippers in Bible times had moments when they struggled with such thoughts. - 1 SAMUEL 1:6-10; JOB 29:2, 4; PSALM 51:11. 

The Bible clearly shows that imperfect humans can gain Jehovah's approval, or goodwill. How? We must exercise faith in Jesus Christ and get baptized. (John 3:16) We thus demonstrate publicly that we have repented of our sins and made a promise to God to do his will. (Acts 2:39; 3:19) Jehovah is delighted when we take these steps to cultivate a relationship with him. As long we continue to do our best to live up to our dedication vow. Jehovah approves of us and considers us his close friends. -PSALM 25:14. 

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WALK "AS CHILDREN OF LIGHT" - Conclusion

 Be alert to any opportunities to serve Jehovah more fully. This is what Donald, who lives in South Africa, did. He says: "I looked at my situation and supplicated Jehovah to help me be more productive in the ministry. I prayed for work that would allow me to have more time for preaching. With Jehovah's help, I did find appropriate work. My wife and I started our journey of full-time service together." 

Paul's letter to the Ephesians must really have helped them in their Christian course. And that inspired counsel can help us too. As noted, it can aid us in choosing our entertainment and our associates wisely. It can motivate us to continue immersing ourselves in the light of truth by having a consistent program of Bible study. And it emphasizes the importance of holy spirit, which can produce fine qualities in us. Apply what Paul wrote can help us to make wise decisions, ones that are in harmony with Jehovah's thinking. By doing these things, we will be able to avoid the darkness of the world and remain in the light. 

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WALK "AS CHILDREN OF LIGHT" -Continue

When we have important decisions to make, we need to perceive "what the will of Jehovah is" and then act in harmony with it. (Read Ephesians 5:10, 17.) By identifying Bible principles that apply to our situation, we are actually seeking God's thinking on the matter. Then as we apply his principles, we will more likely make good decisions.

Paul also counseled the Ephesian Christians to use their time wisely. (Read Ephesians 5:15, 16.) "The wicked one," our enemy Satan, would like to keep us so busy with this world's pursuits that we have no time for our service to God. (1 John 5:19) It would be all too easy or a Christian to put material possessions, secular education, or his career ahead of opportunities to serve Jehovah. Were to happen, it would indicate that he is being affected by the world's thinking. Of course, these things are not wrong in themselves, but they should never take first place in our live. To walk "as children of light," we need to be "making the best use of [our] time," focusing on what is truly important.

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WALK "AS CHILDREN OF LIGHT"

 Paul encouraged the Ephesian Christians not only to continue rejecting the darkness but also "go on walking as children of light." (Read Ephesians 5:7-9) What does that mean? Simply put, it means to conduct ourselves as true Christians at all times. One way to achieve this goal is by diligently reading and studying the Bible along with our Bible-based publications. It is especially important to pay close attention to the example and teachings of Jesus Christ, "the light of the world." - JOHN 8:12; PROVERBS 6:23.\

We also need the help of God's holy spirit so that we can keep conducting ourselves "as children of light." Why? Because it is a definite challenge to remain clean in this immoral world. (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5, 7, 8) Holy spirit can help us to combat the thinking of the world, including its philosophies and viewpoints that conflict with God's thinking. Holy spirit can also help us to produce" every sort of goodness and righteousness." - EPHESIANS 5:9. 

One way we can receive holy spirit is by praying for it. Jesus said that Jehovah will "give holy spirit to those asking him." (Luke 11:13) And when we praise Jehovah together at Christian meetings, we also receive holy spirit. (Read Ephesians 5:19, 20.) The wholesome influence of God's holy spirit will help us to live in a way that pleases God.

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AVOID THE DARKNESS -Conclusion

 Satan wants us to associate with people who make it harder for us to stick to Jehovah's standards. Accordingly, Paul urged the Ephesians: "Do not be sharers with them," that is, with those who practice what is wrong in God's eyes. (Ephesians 5:7) We need to remember that our association is not limited to those we spend time with in person. It includes those we interact with on social media, a danger that the ancient Egyptians were not exposed to. Angela, who lives in Asia, found out how dangerous social media can be. She admits: "It can be a trap, subtly numbing your senses. I reached the point where it did not bother me to have 'friends' who did not respect Bible principles. Eventually, I started to think it was ok to pursue a lifestyle that displeased Jehovah." Thankfully, loving elders helped Angela to make needed changes. She says: "Now I fill my mind with spiritual things rather than with social media."

We must fight against the world's thinking that immoral conduct is acceptable. We know better. (Ephesians 4:19, 20) We do well to ask ourselves: 'Do I make it a point to avoid all unnecessary association with workmates, classmates, or others who do not respect Jehovah's righteous standards? Do I courageously uphold Jehovah's standards even though some may call me intolerant for doing so?' As indicated at 2 Timothy 2:20-22, we may also need to be careful when choosing our close associates within the Christian congregation. We bear in mind that some may not help us to remain faithful in our service to Jehovah. 

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AVOID THE DARKNESS

 Read Ephesians 5:3-5. In order to stay far away from moral darkness, the Ephesian Christians had to continue rejecting practices that displeased Jehovah. That included not only sexually immoral conduct but also obscene talk. Paul reminded the Ephesians that they had to avoid such things if they were to have "any inheritance in the Kingdom of the Christ and of God. 

We too must continue to fight against becoming entangled in "the unfruitful works that belong to the darkness." (Ephesians 5:11) Time and again, experience has shown that the more a person looks at, listens to, or talks about unclean, immoral things, the easier it will be for him to fall into wrongdoing. (Genesis 3:6; James 1:14, 15) In one country, several dozen brothers became "friends" in an online chat group. Many of them started their chats talking about spiritual things. In the course of time, however, the chats became unwholesome. They began to revolve around sex. Several of those individuals later admitted that this unclean talk led them to commit sexual immorality.

Satan's world tries to deceive us, to make us believe that what Jehovah calls immoral and unclean is not wrong at all. (2 Peter 2:19) This is no coincidence! One of the Devil's long-used tactics is to confuse people so that they are unable to discern what is right and what is wrong. (Isaiah 5:20; 2 Corinthians 4:4) It is no wonder that many movies, televisions shows, and websites promote ideas that go against Jehovah's righteous standards! Satan is trying to deceive us into thinking that unclean practices and lifestyles are not only acceptable but also enjoyable and harmless. - Read EPHESIANS 5:6. 

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FROM DARKNESS TO LIGHT - Conclusion

 Moral darkness. Ephesus was famous for its gross immorality and brazen conduct. Obscene talk was commonly heard in the city's theaters and even at religious festivals. (Ephesians 5:3) Many of its inhabitants were "past all moral sense," and expression that literally means "having ceased to feel pain." (Ephesians 4:17-19) Before learning was truly right or wrong, the Ephesians did not feel pangs of conscience or think that they had any accountability to Jehovah. Paul could thus describe them as being "in darkness mentally and alienated from the life that belongs to God." 

Some of the Ephesians, though, did not remain in darkness. Paul wrote that they were "now light in connection with the Lord." (Ephesians 5:8) They had embraced the light of the Scriptural truth. (Psalm 119:105) These Ephesians had abandoned their false religious practices and immoral conduct. They had "become imitators of God" and were doing their best to worship Jehovah and to please him.

In a similar way, before we learned the truth, we were in religious and moral darkness. Some of us celebrated false religious holidays; others of us pursued an immoral lifestyle. But once we learned about Jehovah's standards of right and wrong, we made changes. We began to bring our life into harmony with his righteous requirements. And as a result, we have enjoyed many benefits.  (Isaiah 48:17) Now, though, we face ongoing challenges. We need to stay away from the darkness that we left behind and "go on walking as children of light." How can we do so? 

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FROM DARKNESS TO LIGHT

 Paul wrote to the Ephesians Christians: "You were once darkness, but you are now light." (Ephesians 5:8) Paul here used the metaphors of darkness to light contrasting or opposing conditions. Let consider why Paul could say that the Ephesians were "once darkness." 

Religious darkness. Before learning the truth and becoming Christians, the Ephesians to whom Paul wrote were enslaved to false religious ideas and superstitions. The city of Ephesus was home to the famous temple of Artemis, which the ancients considered one of the seven wonders of the world. The people who worshipped there were steeped idolatry. The fabrication and sale of false religious shrines of the goddess Artemis was a lucrative business. (Acts 19:23-27) In addition, the city was well-known for magical arts. - ACTS 19:19. 

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Avoid the Darkness-Remain in the Light

 "You were once darkness, but you are now light." - EPHESIANS 5:8. 

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What we can learn from the metaphors of darkness and light mentioned in Ephesians chapter 5.

While he was under house arrest in Rom, the apostle Paul wanted to encourage his fellow believers. He could not visit them in person, so he wrote letters. He wrote one of these in about 60 or 61 C.E. to the Ephesians. - EPHESIANS 1:1; 4:1.  

Almost ten years earlier, Paul had spent some time Ephesus, preaching and teaching the good news. (Acts 19:1, 8-10; 20:20, 21) He loved his brothers very much and wanted to help them to remain faithful to Jehovah. But why did he write to anointed Christians about darkness and light? And what lessons can all Christians learn from this counsel? Let us consider the answers to these questions.

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"KEEP TESTING . . . KEEP PROVING"

 There is more to Robert's experience. He continues: "After I refused my coworker's invitation, she said, 'You passed the test!' I asked her what she meant. She explained that a friend of hers, a former Witness, had told her that all young Witnesses lead a double life and that they would jump at the opportunity to compromise. So she told her friend that she would test that out on me. I realized then how glad I was that I had honored Jehovah's name.

When you dedicate yourself to Jehovah and get baptized, you show that you want to sanctify his name no matter what comes. And you can be certain that Jehovah knows the trials you face and the temptations you resist. He will bless your efforts to remain faithful. Trust that by means of his holy spirit, he can give you the strength to do so. (Luke 11:11-13) With Jehovah's help, you will be able to keep following Jesus after your baptism.

Next time: Avoid the Darkness-Remain in the Light

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"KEEP TESTING . . . KEEP PROVING"

 It will also be of help to you if after baptism you examine yourself regularly. (Read 2 Corinthians 13:5.) From time to time, take a close look at your life and habits to see if you are praying daily, reading and studying the Bible, attending meetings, and participating in the ministry. Try to find ways to make these aspects of your worship even more meaningful. For example, ask yourself such questions as: 'Can I explain basic Bible teachings to others? Are there ways that I can make my ministry more enjoyable? How specific are my prayers, and do they show that I am completely reliable on Jehovah? Do I regularly attend Christian meetings? How can I improve my concentration and participation at meetings? 

You would also do well to examine yourself honestly regarding your weaknesses. A brother named Robert relates that an experience that illustrates the point: "When I was about 20 years old, I had a part-time job. One day after work, a coworker invited me to her home. She said we'd be alone and we'd have a good time.' At first, I gave a few weak excuses, but I finally said no explained why." Robert resisted the temptation, and that is commendable. Later, though, he looked back on the incident and saw that he could have handled the situation better. He admits: "I didn't reject the offer as firmly or as quickly as Joseph resisted Potiphar's wife. (Genesis 39:7-9) In fact, I was surprised at how difficult it was for me to refuse. This incident helped me to see that I needed strengthen my friendship with Jehovah." 

You may benefit from making a self-examination similar to what Robert made. Even when you succeed in resisting temptation, ask yourself, 'How long did it take to say no?'  If you see room for improvement, do not condemn yourself. Be glad that you are now aware of this weakness. Make it a matter of prayer and take steps to strengthen your determination to live by Jehovah's moral standards. - PSALM 139:23, 24. 

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HOW TO KEEP FOLLOWING JESUS

 Jesus was zealous, and he remained close to Jehovah in prayer. (Luke 6:12) In fact, one of the best ways for you to keep following Jesus after your baptism is develop a pattern of doing things that you will draw you closer to Jehovah.  The Bible says: "To the extent we have made progress, let us go walking orderly in this same course." (Philippians 3:16) From time to time, you will hear the experiences of brothers and sisters who have reached out to expand their sacred service. Perhaps they attended School for Kingdom Evangelizers or moved where there is a greater need.  If you can such a goal, by all means do so. Jehovah's people are eager to expand their ministry. (Acts 16:9) What, though, if right now you are unable to do that? Do not think that you are inferior to those who can. The Christian race if one of endurance. (Matthew 10:22) Do not underestimate the value of serving Jehovah according to your abilities and circumstances. This is an important way that you can keep following Jesus after baptism. - PSALM 26:1. 

What if, for a time, you feel that your prayers have become mechanical or that your ministry is in a rut? What if your Bible reading does not seem as rewarding as it did in the past? If such situations develop after your baptism, do not conclude that you have lost Jehovah's spirit. You are an imperfect human, and your feelings can fluctuate.  If your zeal starts to diminish, reflect on the example of the apostle Paul. Although he tried to imitate Jesus, he knew that at times he might not feel as motivated as at other times. (Read 1 Corinthians 9:16, 17.) He said: "Even if I go against my will, I still have a stewardship entrusted to me."  In other words, Paul was determined to accomplish his ministry despite how might feel at the moment. 

Similarly, do not let your imperfect feelings make your decisions for you. Resolve that you will do the right thing despite how you feel. Your actions should in time affect your feelings for the better. At any rate, maintaining a good spiritual routing will help you to keep following Jesus after baptism. Your consistency will also be an encouragement to your fellow believers. - 1 THESSALONIANS 5:11. 

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"KEEP FOLLOWING" JESUS DESPITE TRIALS AND TEMPTATIONS" - Conclusion

 What if you are offered employment that will interfere with your regular attendance at Christian meetings? Your reaction is not in doubt. Long before the offer was made, you had already said no to such a job proposal. Thus, you will not need to figure out whether you can make a bad decision succeed. Recalling Jesus' determination to please his Father, you, you will quickly and firmly reject anything that you know would displease God to whom you are dedicated. - MATTHEW 4:10; JOHN 8:29. 

The fact is that trials and temptations give you an opportunity to show that you are determined to "keep following," Jesus. As you do, you can be assured that Jehovah will help you. The Bible says: 'God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear, but along with the temptation he will also make your way out so that you may be able to endure it." - 1 CORINTHIANS 10:13. 

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"KEEP FOLLOWING" JESUS DESPITE TRIALS AND TEMPTATIONS - Continue

 When you make a dedication to Jehovah, you disown yourself. This means that you say no to personal desires and ambitions that would displease Jehovah. (Matthew 16:24) So when you face a test, you will not need to spend time debating what to do. You will have already shut the door on all options except one-faithfulness to Jehovah. You will remain firmly resolved   to please Jehovah. You will be in that sense like Job. Even though he faced extremely difficult trials, he resolutely stated: "I will not renunce my integrity!" - JOB 27:5.

By reflecting on your prayer of dedication to Jehovah, you will find the strength to resist any temptation. For example, would you start flirting with another's person's mate? Certainly not! You will have already said to that. You will thus spare yourself the anguish of having to deal with improper feelings after they have taken root. You will "turn away" from the path of the wicked." - PROVERBS 4:14, 15. 

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"KEEP FOLLOWING"JESUS DESPTE TRIAL AND TEMPTATIONS

 After baptism, your life will not be problem free. In fact, Jesus made it clear that his disciples would carry a "torture stake." Actually, they would do so "day after day." (Read Luke 9:23.) Was Jesus saying that his followers would always be suffering? Not at all. He was simply emphasizing that in addition to the blessings they would experience, they would face challenges. Some of these challenges might even be painful. - 2 TIMOTHY 3:12.

Perhaps you have already faced opposition from family member, or perhaps you have sacrificed certain material pursuits to put Kingdom interests first. (Matthew 6:33) If so, you can be certain that Jehovah has noticed your faithful works. (Hebrews 6:10) Likely, you have experienced the truthfulness of Jesus' words: "No one has left house or brothers or sisters or mother or father children or fields for my sake and for the sake of the good news who will get 100 times more now than in this period of time-houses, brothers, sisters, mothers, children, and fields with persecution- and in the coming system of things, everlasting life." (Mark 10:29, 30) The blessings that you have received are truly greater than any sacrifices that you have made. - PSALM 37:4. 

Yu will need to fight "the desire of the flesh" after baptism. (1 John 2:16) After all, you will still be a sinful descendant of Adam. At times, your feelings might be similar to those of the apostle Paul. He wrote: "I really delight in the law of God

according to the man I am within, but I see in my body another law warring against the law of my mind and leading me captive to sin's law that in my body." (Romans 7:22, 23) You may feel discouraged by your sinful tendencies.  However, thinking about the promise you made to Jehovah when you dedicated yourself to him will strengthen your resolve to fight against temptation. The reality is that when you face temptations, your dedication will simplify your life. How? 

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"Keep Following" Jesus After Baptism

 "If anyone want to come after me, let him disown  himself and pick up his torture stake day after day and keep following me" -LUKE 9:23.

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This article can help all of us to reflect on the meaning of our dedication. In particular, it can help those who recently got baptized to remain faithful.

IT IS a joy to get baptized and become part of Jesus' family. Those who in that privileged position would agree with the word os the psalmist David, who said: "Happy is the one whom you [Jehovah] choose and bring near to reside in your courtyards." - Psalm 65:4.

Jehovah does not bring just anyone into his courtyards. As discussed in the preceding article, he chooses to draw close to those who prove that they want a relationship with him. (James 4:8) When you dedicate yourself to Jehovah and get baptized, you draw closer to Jehovah in a special way. You can be sure that thereafter he will "pour out on you a blessing until there is nothing lacking. - MALACHI 3:10; JEREMIAH 17:7,8.

Baptism, of course, is just the beginning. After you take that step, you want to live to do your best to live to live up to your dedication vow, even in the face of temptations or tests of faith. (Ecclesiastes 5:4, 5.) As a disciple of Jesus, you will follow Jesus' example and commands as closely as possible. (Matthew 28:19, 20; 1 Peter 2:21) This article will help you do that.

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HOW TO BE HAPPY WHILE WAITING - Conclusion

 Strengthen your hope. Psalm 62:5 says: "I wait patiently for God because my hope comes from him." Strong hope includes confident expectation-which is crucial if we have to endure this system longer than we imagined. We must be convinced that Jehovah's promises will become realities no matter how long we may have to wait for them. We can strengthen our hope by studying God's Word-the prophecies, the internal harmony, and the details Jehovah reveals about himself. (Psalm 1:2, 3) Also, we need to continue to "pray with holy spirit" to keep our good relationship with Jehovah while we wait for his promise of everlasting life to be fulfilled. -JUDE 20, 21.

Like King David, be confident that Jehovah watches over those waiting for Him and expresses His loyal love to them. (Psalm 33:18, 22) Keep waiting patiently for Jehovah by focusing on the positive things in your life, by praising him, by drawing encouragement from fellow Witnesses, and keeping your precious hope strong.

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HOW TO BE HAPPY WHILE WAITING

 Focus on the positive. King David had seen much wickedness throughout his life. (Psalm 37:35) Yet, he wrote: "Keep silent before Jehovah and wait expectantly for him. Do not be upset by the man who succeeds in carrying out his schemes." (Psalm 37:7) David himself took that advice to heart by fixing his attention on his hope of salvation. He also took note of every blessing he received from Jehovah. 

Stay bust praising Jehovah. The writer of Psalm 71, apparently David, said to Jehovah: "I will continue to wait; I will add to your praise." (Psalm 71:14) How would he praise Jehovah? He would tell others about Jehovah and sing praises to him. (Psalm 71:16, 23) Like Davidd, we can find joy while waiting for Jehovah. We praise him through our ministry, our daily conversations and our songs for worship. The next time you sing a Kingdom song, why not pay careful attention to its uplifting message. 

Draw encouragement from your brothers and sisters. When David faced challenges, he said to Jehovah: "In the presence of your loyal ones, I will hope in your name." (Psalm 52:9) We too can draw encouragement from loyal fellow worshippers, not only at our meetings and in or ministry but also during social occasions. - ROMANS 1:11, 12. 

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WEHY DOES JEHOVAH EXPECT US TO WAIT?

 The Bible says: "Jehovah is waiting patiently to show you favor, and he will rise up to show you mercy.  For Jehovah is a God of justice. Happy are all those keeping in expectation of him." (Isaiah 30:18) These words of Isaiah were originally directed to the stubborn Jews. (Isaiah 30:1) But there were some faithful ones among the Jews, and these words offered them hope. These same words offer hope to Jehovah's faithful servants today.

So we must wait patiently because Jehovah is waiting patiently. He has an appointed time for when he will bring this system to an end, and he is waiting for that day and hour to arrive. (Matthew 24:36) At that time, it will be absolutely clear that the Devil's charges against Jehovah and those who serve Him are false. He will then remove Satan and any who side with him, but he will "show [us] mercy." 

In the meantime, Jehovah may not remove our trials, but he assures us that we can be happy while waiting. As Isaiah stated, we can be happy while we long or hope for something good to happen. (Isaiah 30:18) How can we gain that happiness? Four steps can help us.

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Find Happiness While Waiting Patiently for Jehovah

DO YOU look forward to the time when Jehovah will do away with all wickedness and make things new? (Revelation 21:1-5) No doubt you do! However, it is not always easy to keep waiting patiently on Jehovah, especially when we are facing difficulties. Hope delayed may make us feel sick at heart. - PROVERBS 13:12, ftn.

Still, Jehovah expects us to wait patiently for him to act at his appointed time. What can help us to be happy while we wait?

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