Practical Guidance For Marriage

The family, says the UN Chronicle, "is the oldest and most basic unit of human organization; the most crucial link between generations." This "crucial link," however, is coming apart at an alarming rate. "In today's world," notes the Chronicle, "many families face daunting challenges that threaten their ability to function and, indeed, to survive." What advice does the Bible offer to help the family unit survive?

To begin with, the Bible has much to say about how husbands and wives should treat each other. Concerning husbands ought to be loving their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself, for no man ever hated his own flesh; but he feeds and cherishes it." (Ephesians 5:28, 29) A wife was advised to "have deep respect for her husband." -Ephesians 5:33.

Consider the implications of applying such Bible counsel. A husband who loves his wife 'as his own body' is not hateful or brutal toward her. He does not strike her physically, nor does he abuse her verbally or emotionally. Instead, he accords her the same esteem and consideration he shows himself. (1 Peter 3:7) His wife thus feels loved and secure in her marriage. He thereby provides his children with a good example of how women should be treated. On the other hand, a wife who has "deep respect" for her husband does not strip him of his dignity by constantly criticizing him or belittling him. Because she respects him, he feels trusted, accepted and appreciated.

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A Book For All People, 1997