Continue with Keep Anger From Stumbling You

Inevitably, when one gives way to uncontrolled anger, he or she will say and do things that will hurt everyone involved. (Proverbs 29:22) Cain and Saul became angry because each, in his own way, was jealous and envious. However, angry reactions can occur for various reasons. An unjustified criticism, an insult, a misunderstanding, or unfair treatment could be the spark that ignites an outburst.

The examples of Cain and Saul suggest a serious deficiency held in common. Cain's offering apparently laced the motivation of faith. (Hebrews 11:4) Saul's failure to obey Jehovah's express commands and his subsequent attempts at self-justification led to his losing God's favor and spirit. Clearly, both men breached their relationship with Jehovah.

Contrast such dispositions with that of David, who had reason to be angry over the treatment he experienced from Saul. David restrained his spirit. Why? He said: "It is unthinkable, on my part, from Jehovah's standpoint, that I should do this thing to my lord, the anointed of Jehovah." David had clearly in mind his relationship with Jehovah, and it affected his dealings with Saul. He humbly left matters in Jehovah's hands. -1 Samuel 24:6, 15.

Indeed, the implications of uncontrolled anger are serious. The apostle Paul cautioned: "Be wrathful, and yet do not sin." (Ephesians 4:26) While righteous indignation has its place, there is an ever present danger that anger could become our stumbling block. No wonder, then, that we face the challenge of controlling our anger. How can we do so?

A Primary way is to develop a strong relationship with Jehovah.

He encourages you to open your heart and mind to him. Tell him your cares and concerns, and ask for a calm heart to subdue anger. (Proverbs 14:30) Be assured that "the eyes of Jehovah are upon the righteous ones, and his ears are toward their supplication." - 1 Peter 3:12.

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