ACQUIRING "SKILLFUL DIRECTION"

We can be grateful that Jehovah has provided the tools we need to build a happy family.  But simply possessing the tools is not enough.  We must practice using them properly.  For example, a builder may develop poor habits in the way that he handles his tools.  He may put some of them to a wrong use altogether.  Under these circumstances, his methods are very likely to result in an inferior product.  Similarly, you  may now be aware of unhealthy habits that have crept into your family.  Some may be strongly entrenched and hard to change. However, follow the Bible's advice: "A wise person will listen and take in more instruction, and a man of understanding is the one who acquires skillful direction." -Proverbs 1:5.

You can acquire skillful direction by continuing to take in the knowledge of God.  Be alert to Bible principles that apply to family life, and make adjustments where needed.  Observe mature Christians who set a fine example as marriage mates and parents.  Talk to them.  Above all, take your concerns to Jehovah in prayer. (Psalm 55:22; Philippians 4:6, 7) He can help you to enjoy a happy family life that honors him.

Next time: HOW YOU CAN DRAW CLOSE TO GOD

The Book - KNOWLEDGE That Leads To Everlasting Life, 1995