Conclusion of Careful Planning and Balance

Because of the dangers inherent in some types of modern dancing, loud music, and free flow of alcohol, a number of Christian bridegrooms have decided not to include these features in their wedding.  Some have been criticized for this, but instead  they should be commended for their desire to avoid anything that might bring reproach on God's holy name.  On the other hand, some bridegrooms arrange for appropriate music, a time for dancing, and alcohol served in moderations.  In either case the bridegroom is responsible for what he allows to take place at his wedding.

In Africa some immature ones look down on dignified Christian weddings and say that they are like attending a funeral.  However, that is not a balanced view. Sinful works of the flesh may bring temporary  excitement, but they leave Christians with a troubled conscience and bring reproach on God's name. (Romans 2:24) On the other hand, God's holy spirit produces genuine joy.  (Galatians 5:22) Many Christian couples look back with pride on their wedding day, knowing that it was a happy occasion and not a "cause of stumbling." - 2 Corinthians 6:3.

Welsh and Elthea still recall the many favorable comments of unbelieving relatives who attended their wedding.  Said one: "We are tired of the noisy weddings that take place these days.  It was so nice to attend a decent wedding for a change."

Most important, Christian weddings that are joyful and dignified honor the Originator of marriage, Jehovah God.

Next time: JEHOVAH IS GREATER THAN OUR HEARTS

The Watchtower, 2000