CHAPTER SEVENTEEN: FIND SECURITY AMONG GOD'S PEOPLE

IMAGINE that a violent storm has ravaged the area where you live. Your home is destroyed, and all your possessions are lost.  Food is scarce.  The situation seems hopeless.  Then, unexpected relief supplies arrive.   Food and clothing are provided in abundance. A new house is built for you.  Surely you would be grateful  to the person who made these provisions available. 

Something comparable is occurring today. Like that storm, the rebellion of Adam and Eve caused great damage to the human race.  Mankind's Paradise home was lost.  Since then, human governments have failed  to shelter people form war, crime, and injustice. Religion has left multitudes  starving for wholesome spiritual food. Spiritually speaking, however, Jehovah God is now furnishing food, clothing, and shelter. How is he doing that? 

'THE FAITHFUL AND DISCREET SLAVE"

Relief supplies are generally dispensed through an organized channel, and Jehovah has similarly made spiritual provision for his people.  For example, the Israelites were  "Jehovah's congregation" for some 1,500 years.  Among them were those who served as God's channel to teach his Law.  (1 Chronicles 28:8; 2 Chronicles 17:7-9)  In the first century C.E., Jehovah brought forth the Christian organization. Congregations were formed, and they functioned under the direction of a governing body made up of apostles and older men.  (Acts 15:22-31) Likewise  today, Jehovah deals with his people through an organized body. How do we know this?

Jesus said that at the time of his presence in Kingdom power, "the faithful and discreet slave" would be found providing "food at the proper time"  for his followers.  (Matthew 24:45-47)  When Jesus was installed as heavenly King in 1914, who died this "slave" prove to be? Certainly not the clergy of Christendom.  For the most part, they were feeding their flocks propaganda  that backed up their own national governments in World War I.  But proper and timely spiritual food was being dispensed by the group of Christians who were anointed by God's holy spirit and were part of what Jesus called the "little flock."  (Luke 12:32) These anointed Christians preached God's Kingdom rather than man's governments. As a result, over the years millions of righteously disposed  "other sheep" have joined the anointed  "slave"  in practicing true religion.  (John 10:16)  Using the 'faithful slave' and its present-day Governing Body, God directs his organized people to make spiritual food, clothing, and shelter available to all who wish to have these provisions. 

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HOW YOU CAN DRAW CLOSE TO GOD

COMMUNICATION WITH JEHOVAH NOT ONE-SIDED

If we want God to hear our prayers, we must listen to what he says:  (Zechariah 7:13)  He no  longer sends his messages through divinely inspired prophets and surely does not use spiritualistic means.   (Deuteronomy 18:10-12) But we can listen to God  by studying his Word, the Bible.  (Romans 15:4; 2 Timothy 3:16, 17)  Just as we may need to acquire a taste for physical food that is good for us, we are urged to "form a longing for the unadulterated milk belonging to the word."  Cultivate a taste for spiritual food by reading God's Word daily. -1 Peter 2;2, 3; Acts 17:11. 

Meditate on what you read in the Bible.  (Psalm 1:3; 77:11, 12) That means to ponder  over the material. You might liken this to digesting food. You can digest spiritual food by relating what you are reading to things you already know. Consider how the material  affects you life, or reflect  on what it reveals about Jehovah's qualities and dealings.  Thus through personal study, you  can take the spiritual food that Jehovah provides. This will draw you closer to God and will help you to deal with day-to-day problems. 

You can always draw close to God by listening to his Word discussed at Christian meetings, just as the Israelites listened attentively  when they gathered to hear the public reading of God's Law. The instructors of that time put meaning into their reading of the Law, thus helping their listeners to understand and be moved to apply what they heard.  This led to great joy,  (Nehemiah 8:8, 12)  So make it your customs to attend the meetings of Jehovah's Witnesses.  (Hebrews 10:24, 25)  This will help you to understand and then apply the knowledge of God in your life and will bring you happiness.  Being a part  of the worldwide Christian brotherhood will help you to stay close to Jehovah. And as we shall see, you can find true security among God's people. 

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PERSEVERE IN PRAYER

Though you are gaining knowledge abut God, you may feel that your prayers sometimes go unanswered. This could be the case because it may not be God's time to answer a specific prayer.  (Ecclesiastes 3:1-9)  Jehovah may allow a  situation to continue for awhile, but he does answer prayers and knows the best time to do so. -2 Corinthians 12:7-9. 

Our persistence in prayer reveals our heartfelt interest in what we are saying to God.  (Luke 18:1-8)  For example, we may ask Jehovah to help us overcome a certain weakness.  By persevering in prayer and acting in harmony with our petitions, we show our sincerity.  We should be specific and honest in our petitions. It is especially important to pray intensely when we are experiencing a temptation.  (Matthew 6:13) As we continue to pray while trying to control our sinful urges, we will see how Jehovah helps us.   This will build up our faith  and strengthen our relationship with him. -1 Corinthians 10:13; Philippians 4:13. 

By cultivating a prayerful attitude in rendering sacred service to Jehovah God, we will come to realize that we do not serve him in our own strength.  It is Jehovah who gets things done. (1 Corinthians 4:7)  Yes, we have sound reasons to persevere in prayer. Our earnest prayers and precious knowledge of how to draw close to our loving heavenly Father will make our life truly happy.  

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PRAYERS THAT JEHOVAH HEARS

Some may feel that God does not answer their prayers even though they pray to him through Christ.  However, the apostle Johns said:  "No matter what it is that we ask according to [God's ] will, he hears us."  (1 John 5:14) so, then, we need to ask according to God's will. Since he is interested in our spiritual welfare, anything affecting our spirituality is an appropriate subject for prayer.  We must resist the temptation to concentrate entirely on physical needs. For instance, while it is proper to pray for insight and fortitude to deal with illness, worries about health should not crowd out spiritual interests. (Psalm 41:1-3)  Having become aware that she was overly concerned about her health, one Christian woman asked Jehovah for help to have the proper view of her illness. As a result, her health problems became a much smaller issue, and she felt that she was given "power beyond what is normal."  (2 Corinthians 4:7)  Her desire to be of spiritual help to others intensified, and she became a full-time Kingdom proclaimer. 

what may we include in our prayers so that Jehovah will be pleased to hear them?  Jesus Christ taught his disciples how to pray. In the model prayer  recorded at Matthew 6:9-13,  He set out a pattern  of subjects about which  we may rightly pray. What should be of chief concern in our prayers?  Jehovah God's name and Kingdom must be the top priority. Asking for our material needs is appropriate. It is also important to ask for forgiveness of our sins and for deliverance from temptations and the wicked one, Satan the Devil. Jesus did not want us to chant this prayer or to repeat it over and over, reciting it without thinking about it meaning.  (Matthew 6:7) What kind of relationship would it be if a child used the same words every time he spoke to his father?

Besides petitions and heartfelt supplications, we should offer prayers of praise and thanksgiving.  (Psalm  34:; 92:1; 1 Thessalonians 5:18)  We can also pray for others. Prayers regarding our spiritual brothers and sisters who are afflicted or persecuted show our interest in them, and Jehovah is pleased to hear us express such concern.  (Luke 22:32; John 17:20; 1 Thessalonians 5:25)  In fact, the apostle Paul wrote:  "Do not be anxious over anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication along with thanksgiving let your petitions be known to God; and the peace of God that excels all thought will guard your hearts and your mental powers by means of Christ Jesus." -Philippians 4:6, 7. 

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OPPORTUNITIES TO TALK TO GOD 

Jesus Christ valued his relationship with Jehovah very highly. Therefore, Jesus made time to talk to God, in private prayer.  (Mark 1:35; Luke 2:40-46)  We do well to imitate Jesus' example and pray to God on a regular basis.  (Romans 12:12)  It is fitting to start the day off with words of prayer, and before going to bed,, we can rightly thank Jehovah for the day's activity.  During the day, make it a point to approach God "on every occasion."  (Ephesians 6:18) We can even pray silently  in our heart, knowing that  Jehovah can hear us.  Privately talking to God helps us to cement our relationship with him, and praying to Jehovah daily helps us to draw ever closer to him.

Jehovah also listens to prayers offered on behalf of groups of people.  (1 Kings 8:22-53) We can draw close to God as a family, with the head of the household taking the lead.  This strengthens the family bond, and Jehovah becomes real to young ones as they hear their parents humbly pray to God. What if someone is representing a group in prayer, perhaps at a meeting of Jehovah's Witnesses? If we were  in the audience, let us listen attentively so that at the end of the prayer, we can wholeheartedly say "Amen," which means "So be it." -1 Corinthians 14:16. 

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HOW YOU CAN DRAW CLOSE TO GOD

REQUIREMENTS FOR DRAWING CLOSE TO GOD

Is money needed in order to approach God?  Many people pay the clergy to pray for them. Some even believe that their prayers will be heard in proportion to the size of the donation they make. However, God's Word does not say  that a monetary offering is required for us to approach Jehovah in prayer.  His spiritual provisions and the blessings of a relationship with him in prayer are available without price. -Isaiah 55:1,2. 

What, then, is required?  A right heart attitude is one essential.  (2 Chronicles 6:29, 30; Proverbs 15:11)   In our heart we must exercise faith in Jehovah God as the "Hearer of prayer" and "the rewarder of those  earnestly seeking him."  (Psalm 65:2; Hebrews 11:6)  We must also have a humble heart.  (2 Kings 22:19; Psalm 51:17) In one of his illustrations, Jesus Christ showed that when approaching God a humble tax collector with a lowly heart attitude proved more righteous than an arrogant Pharisee.  (Luke 18:10-14)  As we approach God in prayer, let us remember that "everyone that is proud in heart is something detestable to Jehovah." -Proverbs 16:5. 

If we desire to have God answer our prayers, we have to cleanse ourselves of sinful conduct.  When the disciple James encouraged others to draw close to God, he added: "Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you indecisive ones." (James 4:8)  Even wrongdoers  can come into a peaceful relationship with Jehovah if they repent and leave their former way of life.  (Proverbs 28:13)  We cannot have audience with Jehovah if we merely pretend that we have cleansed  our way.  "The eyes of Jehovah are upon the righteous ones, and his ears are toward their supplication; but the face of Jehovah is against those doing bad things," says God's Word.  -1 Peter 3:12.

The Bible states:  "There is no man righteous in the earth that keeps doing good and does not sin."  (Ecclesiastes 7:20) you might therefore ask:  'How, then, can we approach Jehovah God?'  The Bible answers: "If anyone does commit a sin, we have a helper with Jesus Christ, a righteous one." (1 John 2:1) Though we are sinners, we can approach God with freeness of speech through Jesus Christ, who died as a ransom for us.  (Matthew 20:28)  He is the only  channel through whom we can approach Jehovah God.  (John 14:6) We must not take the merit of Jesus' ransom sacrifice for granted and deliberately practice sin.  (Hebrews 10:26)  However, if we are doing our best to refrain from what is bad and yet err at times, we can repent and ask God for forgiveness.  When we approach him with a humble heart, he will hear us. -Luke 11;4.

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CHAPTER SIXTEEN: HOW YOU CAN DRAW CLOSE TO GOD

A TOURIST visiting an Oriental country was amazed at the religious rituals she observed at a Buddhist temple. Although the images were not those of Mary or Christ, many of the rituals resembled those of her church back home.  For instance, she noted the use of rosaries and the chanting of prayers. Others too have made such comparisons. East or West, the ways in which devotees try to draw close to God or the objects of their worship are remarkably similar. 

Many especially try to draw close to God by praying to him. Praying has been described as "an act of communication by man with the sacred or holy-God, the gods, the transcendent realm, or supernatural powers."  (The New Encyclopedia Britannica) When approaching God in prayer, however, some think only in terms of what they can get out of it.   For example, a man once asked one of Jehovah's Witnesses:  "If you pray for me, will the problems I have in my family, at work, and with my health be solved?"  Apparently the man thought so, but many pray and find that their problems persist. So we might ask, 'Just why should we draw close to God?' 

WHY DRAW CLOSE TO GOD?

Prayer is not an empty ritual, nor is it merely a means in which to gain something.  A major reason for approaching God is to have a close relationship with him. Our prayers should therefore be directed to Jehovah God.  "Jehovah is near to all those calling upon him,"said the psalmist David. (Psalm 145:18) Jehovah invites us to come into a peaceful relationship with him.  (Isaiah 1:18) Those responding to this invitation agree with the psalmist who said;  "As for me, the drawing near to Jehovah God will enjoy true happiness and peace of mind. -Psalm 73:28.  

Why pray to God for help if he 'knows what we need before we ask him'?   (Matthew 6:8; Psalm 139:4)  Prayer shows that we have faith in God and view him as the Source of "every good gift and every perfect present." (James 1:17; Hebrews 11:6) Jehovah takes pleasure in our prayers.  (Proverbs 15:8)  He is glad to hear our meaningful expressions of appreciation and praise, just as a father rejoices at hearing his young child speak sincere words of gratitude.  (Psalm 119:108)  Where there is a food father-child relationship, there is warm communication. A  child who is loved wants to talk to his father.  The same is true when it comes down to our relationship  with God.  If we really appreciate what we are learning about Jehovah and the love he has shown for us, we will have a strong desire to express ourselves to him in prayer. -1 John 4:16-18. 

When approaching the Most High God, we should be respectful, though there is no need to worry excessively  about the exact words that we use.  (Hebrews 4:16) We always have access to Jehovah. And what a privilege it is that we can 'pour our heart' to God in prayer!  (Psalm 62:8) Appreciation for Jehovah leads to a warm relationship with him, like the one that the faithful man Abraham enjoyed as God's friend.  (James 2:23) But when praying to the Sovereign Lord of the universe, we must comply with his requirements for approaching him. 

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BUILDING A FAMILY THAT HONORS GOD

ACQUIRING "SKILLFUL DIRECTION"

 We can be grateful that Jehovah has provided the tools we need to build a happy family.  But simply using them properly.  For example, a builder may develop poor habits in the way that he handles his tools. He may put some of them to a wrong use altogether. Under these  circumstances, his methods  are very likely to result in an inferior product. Similarly, you may now be aware of unhealthy habits that have crept into your family.  Some may be strongly entrenched and hard to change. However, follow the Bible's advice: "A wise person will listen and take in more instruction , and a man of understanding is the one  who acquires skillful direction." -Proverbs 1:5.  

You can acquire skillful direction by continuing to take in the knowledge of God. Be alert to Bible principles that apply to family life, and make adjustments where needed. Observe mature Christians who set a fine example as marriage mates and parents.  Talk to them. Above all, take your concerns to Jehovah in prayer.  (Psalm 55:22; Philippians 4:6, 7) He can help you to enjoy a happy family life that honors him.

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Provide assurance of your love.   At Jesus' baptism, Jehovah declared: "I have approved you." (Luke 3:22)  Jehovah thus acknowledged his Son, freely expressing approval of him and giving assurance of His love, Jesus later said to his Father: "You loved me before the founding of the world."  (John 17:24)  As godly parents, then, give your children verbal and physical expressions  of your love for them-and do this often. Always remember that "love builds up." -1  Corinthians 8:1. 

Discipline. The Bible stresses the importance of loving discipline.  (Proverbs 1:8) Parents who shirk their responsibility to guide their children today will almost certainly face heartbreaking consequences tomorrow. Yet, parents are  also cautioned against going to the other extreme.  "Your fathers," wrote Paul,  "do not be exasperating your children, so that they do not become downhearted."  (Colossians 3:21) Parents must avoid over-correcting their children or constantly harping on their shortcomings and criticizing their efforts.

Jehovah God, our heavenly Father, sets the example in providing discipline.  His correction is never extreme." "I shall have to chastise you to the proper degree," God told his people.  (Jeremiah 46:28)  Parents should imitate Jehovah is this regard. Discipline that exceeds reasonable limits or that goes beyond the intended purpose of correcting and teaching is exasperating.  

How can parent determine whether their discipline is effective?  They might ask themselves.  'What does  my discipline accomplish?"  It should teach.  Your child should understand why discipline is being administered.  Parents should also be concerned about the aftereffects of their correction.  True, almost all children will at first chafe at discipline.  (Hebrews 12:11)  But discipline should never make a child feel frightened or abandoned or leave him with the impression that he is inherently wicked.  Before correcting his people, Jehovah said:  "Do not be afraid, . . .for I am with you ." (Jeremiah 46:28) Yes, correction should be administered  in such a way that your child sensed that you are with him or her as loving, supporting parents. 

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BUILDING A FAMILY THAT HONORS GOD

REARING CHILDREN ACCORDING TO THE KNOWLEDGE OF GOD

Merely possessing a saw or a hammer does not make one a skilled carpenter. Likewise, simply having children does not make one a skilled parent. Knowingly or unknowingly, parents often bring up their children the way they themselves were brought up.  Thus, faulty parenting techniques are sometimes passed on  from one generation to the next.  An ancient Hebrew proverb says:  "Fathers are the ones that eat unripe grapes, but it is the teeth of the sons that get set on edge."  Yet, the Scriptures show that a person does not have to follow the course set out by his parents.  He can choose a different path, one influenced by Jehovah's statutes. -Ezekiel 18:2, 4, 17.  

Jehovah expects Christian parents to give their children proper guidance and care.  Paul wrote: "Certainly if anyone does not provide for those who are his own, and especially for those who are members of his household, he has disowned the faith and is worse than a person without faith."  (1 Timothy 5:8) What strong words! Fulfilling your role as a provider, which includes caring for your children's physical, spiritual, and emotional needs, is a godly person's privilege and responsibility.  The Bible furnishes  principles that can help parents build a happy environment for their children.   Consider some of these.  
Set a fine example.  Israelite parents were commanded:  "Your must inculcate [God's Words] in your son and speak of them when you sit in your house and when you walk on the road and when you lie down and when you get up."  Parents were to teach  God's standards to their children.  But this injunction was prefaced by the statement:  "These words I am  commanding you today must prove to be on your heart."  (Deuteronomy 6:6, 7) Yes, parents cannot give what  they do not have.  God's laws must first be inscribed on the hearts of  your children. - Proverbs 20:7; compare Luke 6:40.  

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BUILDING A FAMILY THAT HONORS GOD

Conclusion of Tools For Building A HAPPY MARRIAGE

In your house, let us say that you would have a very useful container that is especially delicate.  Would you  not treat it with great care?  Well, Peter used the term "weaker vessel" in a similar vein, and this should move a Christians husband to manifest tender regard for his beloved wife.  

But what counsel does the Bible give a wife?  Paul wrote:  "The wife should have deep respect for her husband."  (Ephesians 5:33)  Just as a wife needs to sense that she is honored and dearly loved by her mate, a husband needs to feel that he is respected by his wife.  A respectful wife would not thoughtlessly broadcast her husband's faults, whether he is a Christian or not.  She would not strip him of his dignity by criticizing and belittling him either privately or publicly.  - 1 Timothy 3:11; 5:13. 

This does not mean that a wife cannot express her opinions. If something disturbs her, she can respectfully give voice to it. (Genesis 21:9-12) Conveying an idea to her husband might be likened  to throwing a ball to him. She can toss it gently so that he can easily catch it, or she can fling it with such force that it injures him. How much better it is when both mates avoid hurtling accusations but, rather speak in a kind and gentle manner! -Matthew 87:12; Colossians 4:6; 1 Peter 3:3, 4.

As we have seen, Bible principles can help  you to build a happy marriage.  But what if your mate shows little interest in what the Bible has to say?  Much can still be accomplished if you apply the knowledge of God in your role. Peter wrote:  "You wives be in subjection to  your own husbands, in order that, if you are not obedient to the word, they may be won without a word through the conduct of their wives, because of having been eyewitnesses of your chaste conduct together with deep respect>"  (1 Peter 3:1, 2)  Of course, the same would apply  to a husband whose wife is indifferent toward the Bible.  Regardless of what your mate chooses to do, let the Bible principles make you a better spouse.  The knowledge of God can also make you a better parent.  

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What can you do when there are disagreements?  If tempers began to flare, you may do well to follow the advice of Proverbs 17:14:  "Before the quarrel has burst forth, take your leave."  Yes, you might suspend the discussion until later, when both you and your mate have cooled off.  (Ecclesiastes 3:1, 7)  In any case, endeavor to be "swift about hearing, slow about speaking, slow about wrath."  (James 1:19) Your goal should be  to remedy the situation, not to win the argument.  (Genesis 13:8, 9)  Choose words and a manner of speaking that will calm you and your mate.  (Proverbs 12;18; 15:1, 4; 29:11) Above all, do not remain in a provoked state, but seek help by communicating with God in humble prayer together. -Ephesians 4:26, 27; 6:18. 

A Bible proverb says:  "The heart of a  wise one causes his mouth to show insight and to his lips it adds persuasiveness."  (Proverbs 16:23)  Really, then, the key to successful communication is in the heart, not in the mouth. What is your attitude toward your mate?  The Bible encourages Christians to show "fellow feeling." (1 Peter 3:8)  Can you do this when your marriage partner experiences distressing anxiety?  If so, if will help you to know how to answer. -Isaiah 50:4. 

Honor and Respect.  Christian husbands are told to dwell with their wives "according to knowledge assigning them honor as to a weaker vessel, the feminine one."  (1 Peter 3:7) Honoring one's wife involves recognizing her value.  A husband who dwells with his wife "according to knowledge" has high regard for her feelings, strengths, intelligence, and dignity. He should also want to learn how Jehovah views  women and wants them to be treated. 

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BUILDING A FAMILY THAT HONORS GOD

TOOLS FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE

No matter how well-matched a married couple seem to be, they differ in emotional makeup, childhood experiences, and family background.  Therefore,  some problems are be expected after marriage. How will they  be handled?  Well, when builders construct a house, the consult the plans. These are guidelines to be followed.  The Bible provides God's standards for building a happy marriage. Let us examine a few of these.

Loyalty, Jesus said:  "What God has yoked together let no man put apart."  (Matthew 19:6)  The apostle Paul wrote:  "Let marriage  be honorable among all, and the marriage be without defilement, for God will judge fornicators and adulterers."  (Hebrews 13:4)  Married persons should therefore feel an obligation toward Jehovah to remain faithful to their mates. -Genesis 39:7-9.  

Loyalty accords the marriage dignity and security. Loyal spouses know that, come what may, they will support each other.  (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12)  How different from those who abandon their marriage at the first hint of trouble!  Such individuals quickly conclude that they "chose the wrong person,'  that they have 'fallen out of love,' that a new mate  is the cure. But this gives neither spouse opportunity to grow. Instead, such disloyal ones may carry the same problems to new partners. When a person  has a fine home but finds that the roof is leaking, surely he tries to repair it. He does not just move to another house. Similarly, changing a mate is not the way to solve the issues that lie beneath marital strife.  When problems arise, do not try to get out of the marriage, but work very hard to preserve it. Such loyalty treats the union as something worth guarding, maintaining, and cherishing. 

Communication,  "There is a frustrating of plans where there is no confidential talk," says a Bible proverb.  (Proverbs 15:22) Yet, communicating is difficult for some married couples.  Why is that the case?  Because people have different communication styles.  This is a fact that often leads to considerable misunderstanding and frustration. Upbringing may play a role in this. For example, some may have been raised in an atmosphere of parental bickering. Now as married adults, they may not know how to speak to their mate in a kind and loving way. Nevertheless, you home need not deteriorate into 'a house full of quarreling.' (Proverbs 17:1) The Bible stresses putting on "the new personality," and it does not condone malicious bitterness, screaming, and abusive speech. -Ephesians 4:22-24, 31.  

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BUILDING A FAMILY THAT HONORS GOD

SUPPOSE  you plan to build your own home.  You purchase the land. With keen anticipation, you see your new house in  your mind's eye. But what if you have no tools and no building skills?  How frustrating your efforts would be!

Many couples enter marriage envisioning a happy family, yet possess neither the tools nor the skills needed to build one. Shortly after the wedding day, negative patterns develop.  Fighting and bickering become a daily routine.  When children are born, the new father and mother find themselves no more skilled at parenthood than they are at marriage.

Happily, however, the Bible can help. Its principles are like tools that enable you to build a happy family. (Proverbs 24:3)  Let us see how.  

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WHOSE AUTHORITY SHOULD YOU RECOGNIZE?

ACCEPT JEHOVAH'S VIEW OF AUTHORITY

The first man and woman were tested over the issue of subjection to authority.  Not surprisingly, a similar test faces us daily.  Satan the Devil has promoted a spirit of rebellion among mankind.  (Ephesians 2:2)  The course of independence is made to appear enticingly superior to that of subjection.

We must, however, reject the world's rebellious spirit.  In doing so, we will find that godly subjection brings rich rewards.  For instance, we will avoid the anxieties and frustrations  common to those  who court trouble with the secular authorities.  We will reduce the friction that is prevalent in many families. And we will enjoy the benefits of warm, love association with our Christian fellow believers. Most of all, our godly subjection will result in a good relationship with Jehovah, the Supreme Authority.

Next time: CHAPTER FIFTEEN: BUILDING A FAMILY THAT HONORS GOD

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WHOSE AUTHORITY SHOULD YOU RECOGNIZE?

AUTHORITY IN THE CONGREGATION

Since Jehovah is an orderly God, it is reasonable that he would provide authoritative  and well-organized leadership for his people. Accordingly, he has appointed Jesus as the Head of the Christian congregation.  (1 Corinthians 14:2; Ephesians 1:20-23)  Under Christ's invisible leadership, God has authorized an arrangement  by which appointed elders in each congregation shepherd the flock eagerly, willingly, and lovingly. (1 Peter 5:2, 3)  Ministerial servants assist them in various ways and render valuable service within the congregation. - Philippians 1;1.

Regarding Christian elders, Paul wrote: "Be obedient to those who are taking the lead among you and be submissive, for they are keeping watch over your souls as those who will render an account; that they may do this with joy and not with sighing, for this would be damaging to you."  (Hebrews 13:17) Wisely, God has entrusted to Christian overseers the responsibility to care for the spiritual needs of those in the congregation.  These elders do not constitute a clergy class.  They are servants and slaves of God, ministering to the needs of their fellow worshipers, just as our Master, Jesus Christ, did. (John 10:14, 15) Knowing that Scripturally qualified men take an interest in our progress and spiritual growth encourages us to be cooperative and submissive. -1 Corinthians 16:16. 

At times, sheep may stray or become endangered by harmful worldly elements. Under the leadership of  the Chief Shepherd, elders as under shepherds are alert to the needs of those in their charge and diligently give them personal attention.  (1 Peter 5:4) They visit members of the congregation and offer words of encouragement . Knowing that the Devil seeks to disrupt the peace of God's people, elders exercise the wisdom from above in dealing with any problems.  (James 3:17,18) They work hard to maintain unity and oneness of faith, something for which Jesus himself prayed. -John 17:20-22; 1 Corinthians 1;10.

What if a Christians suffers some evil or becomes discouraged because of committing a sin?  Soothing Bible counsel and the elder's heartfelt prayers in his behalf can help to restore  him to spiritual health.  (James 5:13-15)  These men, appointed by holy spirit, also have the authority to administer discipline and reprove any who pursue a course of wrongdoing or who pose a danger to the spiritual and moral cleanness of the congregation.  (Acts 20:28; Titus 1:9; 2:15) In order to keep the congregation clean, it may be necessary for individuals to report serious wrongdoing.  (Leviticus 5:1) If a Christian has committed a grave sin accepts Scriptural  discipline and reproof and gives evidence of genuine repentance, he will be helped.  Of course, persistent and unrepentant violators of God's law are disfellowshipped. -1 Corinthians 5:9-13

The Bible foretold that under Jesus Christ as King, spiritually mature men would be appointed to provide comfort, protection, and refreshment for God's people.  (Isaiah 32:1, 2) They would take the lead as evangelizers, shepherds, and teachers in order to promote spiritual growth. (Ephesians 4:11, 12, 16) Although Christian overseers may at times, reprove, reprimand, and exhort fellow believers, application of the elder's healthful teaching based on God's Word helps to keep all on the road to life. -Proverbs 3:11, 12; Titus 2:1.

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WHOSE AUTHORITY SHOULD YOU RECOGNIZE?

Conclusion of AUTHORITY IN THE FAMILY 

A Christian wife's subjection to her husband is relative.  This means that God rather than man must be obeyed if submitting in a certain matter would result in violating divine law.  Even then, a wife's firm stand should be tempered with a "quiet and mild spirit."  It should be evident that the knowledge of God has made her a better wife.  (1 Peter 3:1-4)  The same would be true of a Christian man whose wife is an unbeliever.  His compliance with Bible principles should make him a better husband.

Ephesians 6:1 outlines the role of children, stating: "Be obedient to your parents in union with the Lord, for this is righteous."  Christian children follow the example of Jesus,  (non-Christian children should obey their parents, as the parents are the head over them) who remained subject to his parents as he grew up.  As an obedient boy, he "went on progressing in wisdom and in physical growth and in favor with God and men." -Luke 2:51, 52.  

The way parents handle their responsibilities may have a bearing on whether their children will respect authority or will rebel against it.  (Proverbs 22:6)  So parents might well ask themselves, 'Do I exercise my authority  lovingly or harshly?  Am I permissive?  A godly parent is expected to be loving and considerate, yet firm in adhering to godly principles. Appropriately, Paul wrote:  "Fathers, do not be irritating your children [literally, 'provoking them to wrath'], but go one bringing them up in the discipline and mental-regulating of Jehovah." -Ephesians 6:4; Colossians 3:21. 

Parents should scrutinize their training methods, especially if they desire that their children be obedient and thus bring them joy.  (Proverbs 23:24, 25) In the Bible, discipline is primarily a form of instruction.  (Proverbs 4:1; 8:33) It is linked with love and mildness, not with anger and brutality. Hence, Christian parents need to act with wisdom and keep themselves under restraint when disciplining their children. -Proverbs 1:7. 

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WHOSE AUTHORITY SHOULD YOU RECOGNIZE?

AUTHORITY IN THE FAMILY 

The family is the basic unit of human society.  Within it a  husband and a wife can find rewarding companionship, and children can be safeguarded and trained for adulthood.  (Proverbs 5:15-21; Ephesians 6:1-4) Such a noble arrangement needs to be organized in a way  that enables family members to live in peace and harmony. Jehovah's way of accomplishing this is through the principle of headship, summed up in these words, found at 1 Corinthians 11:3: "The head of every man is the Christ; in turn the head of a woman is the man; in turn the head of Christ is God."

The husband is the family head. However, there is a head above him-Jesus Christ.  Paul wrote:  "Husbands, continue loving your wives, just as the Christ also love the congregation and delivered himself up for it."  (Ephesians 5:25) A husband reflects his subjection to Christ when he treats his wife in the way that Jesus has always treated the congregation.  (1 John 2:6)  Great authority has been conferred upon Jesus, but he exercises it with the utmost gentleness, love, and reasonableness.  (Matthew 20:25-28) As a man, Jesus never abused his position of authority. He was "mild-tempered and lowly in heart," and he called his followers "friends" rather than "slaves." "I will refresh you," He promised them, and that is what he did. -Matthew 11:28, 29; John 15:15.

Jesus' example teaches husbands that Christian headship is not a position of harsh domination.  Instead, it is one of respect and self-sacrificing love.  This would clearly rule out mistreating a mate physically or verbally.  (Ephesians 4:29, 31, 32; 5:28, 29; Colossians 3:19)  If a Christian man were thus to mistreat his wife, his other good works would be valueless, and his prayers would be hindered.  -1 Corinthians 13:1-3; 1 Peter 3:7.

Note: Even they are Christian husbands, God would not approve of any man physically or verbally abuse his wife and he would not want the wife abusing her husband in that way either.  Yes, it does happen, some women have abused their husbands, because their husbands are kind and do not believe in abusing women in any way. 

When a husband imitates Christ's example, it is easier for his wife to comply with the words of Ephesians 5:22, 23:  "Let wives be in subjection to their husbands as to the Lord, because a husband is head of his wife as the Christ also is head of the congregation."  Just as a husband is to be submissive to Christ, a wife must be in subjection to her husband.  The Bible also makes it clear that capable wives merit honor and praise for their godly wisdom and industriousness. -Proverbs 31:10-31.  

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WHOSE AUTHORITY SHOULD YOU RECOGNIZE?

"THE SUPERIOR AUTHORITIES"

The apostle Paul wrote:  "Let every soul be in subjection to the superior authorities, for there is no authority except by God."  Who are the "superior authorities"?  Paul's words in succeeding verses show that they are human government authorities.  (Romans 13:1-7; Titus 3:1) Jehovah did not originate man's governmental authorities, but they exist by his permission.  So Paul could write:  "The existing authorities stand placed in their relative positions by God."  What does this indicate about such earthly authority.  (John 19:10, 11)  Therefore, when there is a conflict between man's law and God's law, Christians "must obey God as ruler rather than men." -Acts  5:29. 

Much of the time, however, the governmental superior authorities  act as 'God's minister to us for our good.'  (Romans 13:4)  In what ways?  Well, think of the numerous services the superior authorities provide, such as mail delivery, police and fire protection, sanitation, and educations."  That is why you are also paying taxes." wrote Paul "For they are God's public servants constantly serving this very purpose." (Romans 13:6)  With regard to taxes or any other legal obligation, we should "conduct ourselves honestly." -Hebrews 13:18. 

 At times, the superior authorities misuse their power.  Does this absolve us of our responsibility to remain in subjection to them?  No. It does not. Jehovah sees the misdeeds of these authorities.  (Proverbs 15:3) His toleration of man's rule does not mean that he winks at its corruption; nor does he expect  us to do so. Indeed, God will soon  "crush and put and end to all these kingdoms," replacing them with the rule of his own righteous government.  (Daniel 2:44) but until this occurs, the superior authorities serve a useful purpose.  

Paul explained:  "He who opposes the authority has taken a stand against the arrangement of God."  (Romans 13:2) The superior authorities are God's "arrangement" in that they preserve a measure of order , without which chaos and anarchy would reign.  Opposing them would be unscriptural  and senseless.  To illustrate:  Imagine that you had undergone surgery and stitches were securing the wound. Though the stitches are foreign to the body, they serve a purpose for a limited time.  Removing them prematurely could be harmful.  Similarly, human governmental authorities were not part of God's original purpose. Until his Kingdom is ruling the earth completely, however, human governments hold society together, performing a function that fits in with God's will for the present time.  We should thus remain in subjection to  the superior authorities, while we give priority to God's law and authority. 

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CHAPTER FOURTEEN: WHOSE AUTHORITY SHOULD YOU RECOGNIZE?

"AUTHORITY" is a distasteful word to many people.  This is understandable, for authority is often abused-on the job, in the family, and by governments.  The Bible realistically says:  "Man has dominated man to his injury." (Ecclesiastes 8:9) Yes, many have dominated others by acting in a tyrannical and self-serving manner. 

But not all authority is injurious. For example, it might be  that our body exercises authority over us.  It "orders" us to breathe, eat, drink, and sleep. Is this oppressive?  No. Compliance with these demands is for our good. While submission to our bodily needs may be involuntary, there are other forms of authority that require our willing  subjection. Consider some examples.

THE SUPREME AUTHORITY

Over 300 times in the Bible, Jehovah is called "Sovereign Lord."  What gives Jehovah this status? Revelation 4:11 answers:  "You are worthy, Jehovah, even our God, to receive the glory and the honor and the power, because you created all things, and because of your will they existed and were created."

 As our Creator, Jehovah has the right to exercise his authority as he chooses.  This might seem frightening, especially when we consider that God has an "abundance of dynamic energy."  He is called  "God Almighty"-a term that in Hebrew conveys the idea of overpowering strength.  (Isaiah 40:26; Genesis 17:1) Yet, Jehovah shows his strength in a benevolent way, for his dominant quality is love. -1 John 4:16. 

Although Jehovah warned that he would bring punishment upon unrepentant wrongdoers, Moses knew him principally as "the true God., the faithful God, keeping covenant and loving-kindness  in the case of those who love him and those who keep his commandments."  (Deuteronomy 7:9) Just imagine! The Supreme Authority of the universe does not force us to serve him.  Rather, we are drawn to him because of his love.  (Romans 24:5, 8) Submitting to Jehovah's authority is even a pleasure for his laws always work to our ultimate  benefit. -Psalm 19:7, 8. 

Our first parents rejected God's sovereignty.  They wanted to decide for themselves what was good and what was bad.  (Genesis 3:4-6) As a  result, they were ousted from their Paradise home.  Jehovah thereafter allowed them to live in an orderly, though imperfect, society. What are some of these authorities, and to what degree does God expect us to submit to them?

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WHY LIVING A GODLY LIFE BRINGS HAPPINESS

RESPECT FOR LIFE AND BLOOD
For true happiness, we need to view human life as sacred, even as Jehovah does.  His Word forbids us to commit murder.  (Matthew 19:16-18)  He also forbids just shooting people intentionally.  In fact, God's Law to Israel shows that he views the unborn child as a precious life-not something to be destroyed.  (Exodus 21:22, 23) For that matter, we must not treat life as something cheap by using tobacco, abusing our body drugs or alcohol, or taking needless risks.  Neither should we engage in any life-threatening pursuits nor should ignore safety precautions, which might in bloodguilt. -Deuteronomy 22;8. 

Jehovah told Noah and his family that blood represents the soul, or life. Therefore, God forbade them to eat any blood.  (Genesis 9:3, 4)  Since we are their descendants, that law is binding upon all of us.  Jehovah told the Israelites that blood was to be poured out on the ground and was not to be used for man's own purposes.  (Deuteronomy 12:15, 16) And God's law on blood was reiterated when first-century Christians were instructed:  "Keep abstaining from blood."  (Acts 15:28, 29)  Out of respect for the sanctity of life, godly people do not accept blood transfusions, even if others insist that this procedure would be life-saving.  Many medical  alternatives acceptable to God and Jehovah's Witnesses have proved to be very effective and do no expose one to the hazards of blood transfusions. Christians know that only Jesus' shed blood is truly life-saving.  Faith in it brings forgiveness and the prospect of eternal life. -Ephesians 1:7. 

Clearly living a Godly life requires effort. It may result in ridicule from family members or acquaintances.  (Matthew 10:32-39; 1 Peter 4:4) But the rewards of living such a life far outweigh any trials. It results in a clean conscience and provides wholesome  companionship with with fellow worshipers of Jehovah.  (Matthew 19:27, 29)  Then, too, imagine living forever in God's righteous new world.  (Isaiah 65:17, 18) And what joy there is in complying with Bible counsel and thus making Jehovah's heart rejoice! (Proverbs 27:11) No wonder that living a Godly life brings happiness! -Psalm 128:1, 2. 

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WHY LIVING A GODLY LIFE BRINGS HAPPINESS

EMPLOYMENT AND ENTERTAINMENT

True Christians are under obligation to work hard and provide for their needs. Accomplishing this brings family heads a feeling of satisfaction.  (1 Thessalonians 4:11, 12)  Of course, if a Christian's employment conflicted with the Bible, this would rob him of happiness. Yet, it is sometimes difficult for a Christian to find employment that is in harmony with Jehovah God's standards.  For instance, some employees are required to deceive customers. On the other hand, many employers will make concessions to accommodate the conscience of an honest worker, not wanting to lose a trustworthy employee. Whatever develops, however, you can be sure that God will bless your efforts to find employment that leaves you with a clean conscience. -2 Corinthians 4:2. 

Since God wants his servants to be happy, we need to balance hard work and  with refreshing periods of recreation and rest.  (Mark 6:31; Ecclesiastes 3;12, 13)  Satan's world promotes ungodly entertainment. But to please God, we must be selective about books we read, radio programs and music we listen to, and concerts, films, plays, television programs and videos we watch. If the entertainment we chose in the past conflicts with the warnings in such scriptures  as Deuteronomy 18:1-0-12, Psalm 11:5 and Ephesians 5:3-5, we will please Jehovah and will be happier if we make adjustments. 

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WHY LIVING A GODLY LIFE BRINGS HAPPINESS

WEIGHING ANNUAL OBSERVANCES

 A godly life frees us from the often burdensome celebrating of worldly holidays. For instance, the Bible does not reveal the exact day of Jesus' birth.  'I thought Jesus was born on December 25!' some exclaim.  This is not possible because he died in the spring of 33 C.E. at 33 1/2 years of age.  Moreover, at the time of his birth, shepherds were "living out of doors and keeping watches in the night over their flocks."  (Luke 2:8)  In the land of Israel, late December is a cold, rainy season during which sheep would be kept in shelters to protect them from the weather.  Actually, December 25 was set aside by the Romans as the birthday of their sun god.  Centuries after Jesus was on earth, apostate Christians adopted this date for the celebration of Christ's birth.  Consequently, true Christians do not celebrate Christmas or any other holiday based on false religious beliefs.  Because they give Jehovah exclusive devotion, they also do not observe holidays that idolize sinful humans or nations.  

The Bible specifically mentions only two birthday observances, both involving men who did not serve God.  (Genesis 40:20-22; Matthew 14:6-11)  Since the Scriptures do not reveal the birth date of the perfect man Jesus Christ, why should we give special attention  to the birthdays of imperfect humans (we do not deserve it, anyway)  (Ecclesiastes 7:1)  Of course, godly parents do not await a special day to show their children love. A 13-year-old Christian girl remarked:  "My family and I have lots of fun. . . . I'm very close to my parents, and when other kids ask why I don't celebrate holidays, I tell them that I celebrate everyday."  Said a Christian youth aged 17:  "In our house, gift-giving is all year long."  Greater happiness result when gifts are given spontaneously.  

For those pursuing a godly life, there is one day each year to  be specifically observed. It is the Lord's Evening Meal, often called the Memorial  of Christ's death.  Concerning it, Jesus commanded his followers:  "Keep doing this in remembrance of me."  (Luke 22:19, 20; 1 Corinthians 11:23-25)  When Jesus instituted this meal on the night of Nisan 14, 33 C.E., he used unleavened bread and red wine, representing his sinless human  body and his perfect blood.  (Matthew 26:26-29)  These emblems are partaken of by Christians anointed with God's holy spirit.  They have been taken into the news covenant for the Kingdom, and have a heavenly hope.  (Luke 12:32; 22:20, 28-30; Romans 8:16, 17; Revelation 14: 1-5)  Nevertheless, benefits are experienced by all those present on the evening that corresponds with Nisan 14 on the ancient Jewish calendar.  They are reminded  of the love shown by Jehovah God and Jesus Christ in the sin-atoning ransom sacrifice that makes eternal life possible for those having divine favor. -Matthew 20:28; John 3:16.  

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WHY LIVING A GODLY LIFE BRINGS HAPPINESS

"NO PART OF THE WORLD"

Those desiring to please Jehovah enjoy Kingdom blessings avoid idolatry in any form.  The Bible shows that it is wrong to make and worship images, including those of Christ, or of Jesus' mother, Mary.  (Exodus 20:4, 5; 1 John 5:21) So, true Christians do not venerate icons, crosses, and images.  They also avoid more subtle forms of idolatry, such as acts of devotion to flags and the singing of  songs that glorify nations.  When pressured to perform such acts, they recall Jesus' words  to Satan:  "It is Jehovah you God you must worship, and it is to him alone you must render sacred service."  (Matthew 4:8-10)  Jesus said that his followers are "no part of the world."  (John 17:14)  This means being neutral in political affairs and living peacefully in harmony with Isaiah 2:4, which says: "He [Jehovah God] will certainly  render judgment among the nations and set matters straight respecting many peoples.  And they have to beat their swords  into plowshares and their spears into pruning shears. Nation will not lift up sword against nation, neither will they learn war anymore."   

Being "no part of the world" also means breaking off all association with "Babylon the Great," the world empire of false religion. Unclean worship spread from ancient Babylon until it held harmful spiritual dominion over people earth wide.  "Babylon the Great" embraces all religions whose doctrines and practices are out of harmony with the knowledge of God.  (Revelation 17:1, 5, 15) No faithful worshiper of Jehovah will engage in interfaith activities by sharing in worship with different religions or by having spiritual fellowship with any part of Babylon the Great.  (Numbers 25:1-9; 2 Corinthians 6:14)  Consequently, many new Bible students send a letter of resignation to the religious organization to which they belong.  This has brought them closer to the true God, as promised:  "Get out from among them, and separate yourselves," says Jehovah, 'and quit touching the unclean thing'; 'and i will take you in.' " (2 Corinthians 6:17; Revelation 18:4, 5) Is not such acceptance by our heavenly Father what you keenly desire? 

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WHY LIVING A GODLY LIFE BRINGS HAPPINESS

HAPPINESS IN MARRIAGE

Those living together as husband and wife should make sure that their marriage has been properly registered with the civil authorities.  (Mark 12:17) they also need to view wedlock as a serious responsibility. True, separation might become necessary in cases of willful non-support, extreme abuse, or the absolute endangerment of spirituality.  (1 Timothy 5:8; Galatians 5:9-21)  But the apostle Paul's words at 1 Corinthians 7:10-17)  encourage marriage mates to stay together.  For true happiness, of course, they must be faithful to each other. Paul wrote:  "Let marriage be honorable among all, and the marriage bed be without defilement, for God will judge fornicators and adulterers."  (Hebrews 13:4)  The term "marriage bed" denotes sexual intercourse between a man and woman legally married to each other.  No other sexual relationship, such as marriage to more than one wife, can be described as "honorable among all."  Moreover, the Bible condemns premarital intercourse and homosexuality. -Romans 1:26, 27; 1 Corinthians 6:18. 

Fornication may bring a few moments of physical pleasure, but it does not result in true happiness. It displeases God and can scar the person's conscience.  (that is if they have one; some don't or don't use them)  (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5)  The sad consequences of illegitimate sex  may be AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases.  "It has been estimated that more than 250 million  people worldwide are infected annually with gonorrhoea, and about 50 million with syphilis," states one medical report.  There is also the problem of unwanted pregnancies. The International Planned Parenthood Federation reports that, around the world, more than 15 million girls between the ages of 15 and 19 become pregnant each year, and third of them have abortions.  A study showed that in one African country, abortion complications result in 72 percent of all deaths among teenage girls. Some fornicators may escape disease and pregnancy but not emotional damage.  Many lose their self-respect and even hate themselves. 

Although adultery may be forgiven, it is a valid Scriptural basis for divorce on the part of the innocent mate.  (Matthew 5:32; compare Hosea 3:1-5)  When such immorality results in the break-up of a marriage, this may leave deep emotional scars on the innocent mate and on the children.  For the good of the human family, God's Word points out  that this adverse judgment will come upon unrepentant fornicators and adulterers. Moreover, it clearly shows that those who practice sexual immorality "will not inherit God's Kingdom." -Galatians 5:19, 21.

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WHY LIVING A GODLY LIFE BRINGS HAPPINESS

OTHER FACTORS PROMOTING HAPPINESS

To be happy, Christians must also 'guard their thinking abilities.' (Proverbs 5:1, 2) This requires that they read and meditate on God's Word and wholesome Bible literature.  But there are things to avoid.  For instance, excessive drinking of alcoholic beverages can make a person lose control of his thinking. In such a state, many people get involved in immoral behavior, act violently, and cause deadly accidents. No wonder the Bible says that drunkards will not inherit God's Kingdom!  (1 Corinthians 6:10) Determined to stay "sound in mind," true Christians avoid drunkenness, and this helps to promote happiness among them. -Titus 2:2-6. 

A clean body contributes to happiness.  Yet, many become addicted to harmful substances.  For example, consider the use of tobacco.  The World Health Organization reports that smoking "kills three million people each year."  Breaking the tobacco habit can be difficult because of temporary withdrawal symptoms. On the other hand, many ex-smokers find that they have better health and more money for household needs.  Yes, overcoming the tobacco habit or addiction to other harmful substances will contribute to a clean body, a clear conscience, and true happiness. -2 Corinthians 7:1. 

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WHY LIVING A GODLY LIFE BRINGS HAPPINESS

HONESTY RESULTS IN HAPPINESS

Jehovah is "the God of truth."  (Psalm 31:5) No doubt, you desire to follow his example and be known as a truthful person. Honesty leads to self-respect and a feeling of well-being. Because dishonesty is so common in this sinful world, however, Christians need this reminder:  "Speak  truth each one of you with his neighbor . . . Let the stealers steal no more, but rather let him do hard work . .  .   that he may have something to distribute to someone in need." (Ephesians 4:25, 28)  Christian employees do an honest day's work. Unless their employer gives permission, they do not take things that belong to him. Whether at work, in school, or at home, a worshiper of Jehovah must be 'honest in all things.'  (Hebrews 13:18) Anyone who makes it a practice to lie or to steal cannot have God's favor. -Deuteronomy 5:19; Revelation 21:8. 

Being honest results in many blessings. Selina is a needy African widow who loves Jehovah God and his righteous principles.  One day, she found a bag containing  a bankbook and a large sum of money. Using a telephone directory, she was able to find the owner-a storekeeper who had been robbed.  The man could not believe his eyes when Selina, though quite sick, visited him and returned the full contents of the bag.  "Such honesty must be rewarded," he said and handed her a sum of money. More important, this man praised Selina's religion. Yes, honest deeds adorn Bible teaching, glorify Jehovah God, and bring happiness to his honest worshipers. -Titus 2;10; 1 Peter 2:12. 

GENEROSITY BRINGS HAPPINESS

There is happiness in being generous, whereas greedy persons will not "inherit God's Kingdom."  (1 Corinthians 6:10)  A common form of greed is gambling, which is an attempt to make money through the losses of others. Jehovah does not approve of those who are "greedy of dishonest gain." (1 Timothy 3:8)  Even where gambling is legal a person gambles for fun, he could become addicted and be promoting a practice that has ruined many lives. Gambling often brings hardship to the gambler's family who may be left with little money to buy such necessities as food and clothing. - 1 Timothy 6:10.

Because of their loving generosity, Christians find joy in assisting others, especially needy fellow believers.  (James 2:15, 16)   Before Jesus came to earth, he observed  God's generosity toward mankind.  (Acts 14:16, 17)  Jesus  himself gave his time, his talents, and even his life in behalf of humankind.  Hence, he was well qualified to say:  "There is more happiness in giving than there is in receiving." (Acts 20:35) Jesus also spoke well of the poor widow who generously put two small coins in the temple treasure chest, for she gave "her whole living."  (Mark 12:41-44)  The ancient Israelites and the first-century  Christians provide examples of joyful generosity in giving material support to the congregation and the Kingdom work.  (1 Chronicles 29:9; 2 Corinthians 9:11-14)  In addition to making material contributions for these purposes, present-day Christians  happily offer praise to God and use their lives in his service.  (Romans 12:1; Hebrews 13:15)  Jehovah blesses them for using their time, energy,m and other resources, including their funds, to support true worship and promote the worldwide work of preaching the good news of the Kingdom. -Proverbs 3:9, 10. 

Next time: WHY LIVING A GODLY LIFE BRINGS HAPPINESS/OTHER FACTORS PROMOTING HAPPINESS 

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CHAPTER THIRTEEN: WHY LIVING A GODLY LIFE BRINGS HAPPINESS

JEHOVAH is "the happy God," and he wants you to enjoy life. (1 Timothy 1:11) By walking in his way, you can benefit yourself and experience tranquility that is deep and lasting, like an ever-flowing river.   Walking in God's way also moves one to perform continuous acts of righteousness, "like the waves of the sea."  This brings true happiness. - Isaiah 48:17, 18. 

Some may object, 'People sometimes suffer for doing what is right.'  True, and that is what happened to Jesus' apostles. Although persecuted, however,  they rejoiced and went on "declaring the good new about the Christ."  (Acts 5:40-42)  We can learn important lessons from this.  One is that our living a godly life does not guaranteed that we will always be treated well.   "In fact," wrote the apostle Paul,  "all those desiring to live with godly devotion in association with Christ Jesus will also be persecuted." (2 Timothy 3:12)  The reason for this is that Satan  and his world are opposed  to those living in a godly way.  (John 15:18, 19; 1 Peter 5:8)  But genuine happiness is not dependent on external things. Rather, it comes from a conviction that we are doing what is right and therefore have God's smile of approval. -Matthew 5:10-12; James 1;2, 3; 1 Peter 4:13, 14. 

There are people who feel that they can earn God's favor through occasional acts of devotion but can forget about him at other times.  True worship of Jehovah God is not like that. It affects a person's conduct throughout all his waking hours, from day to day, year after year. That is why it is also called "The Way."  (Acts 19:9; Isaiah 30:2) It is a godly way of living that calls upon us to speak and act in harmony with God's Word. 

When new students of the Bible see that they need to make some changes in order to please Jehovah, they may wonder,  'Is godly life really worth living?' You can be sure that it is. Why? Because "God is love," and his ways are therefore meant to benefit us.  ( 1 John 4:8) God is also wise and knows what is best for us. Since Jehovah God is  almighty, he is able to strengthen us to fulfill our desire to please him by breaking a bad habit.  (Philippians 4:13)  Let us consider some principles involved in godly living and see how applying them brings happiness.  

Next time: WHY LIVING A GODLY LIFE BRINGS HAPPINESS/HONESTY RESULT IN HAPPINESS

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RESIST WICKED SPIRIT FORCES

KEEP UP YOUR FIGHT AGAINST WICKED SPIRITS

Even after these basic steps, however, some have been troubled by wicked spirits.  For instance, one man in Cote d'Ivoire studied the Bible with Jehovah's Witnesses and destroyed all his amulets.  Thereafter, he made fine progress, dedicated his life to Jehovah, and was baptized.  But a week after his baptism, the demons began to trouble him again, and voices told him to abandon his new found faith. If this happened to you, would it mean that you had lost Jehovah's protection? Not necessarily.

Though the perfect man Jesus Christ had divine protection, he heard the voice of the wicked spirit creature Satan the Devil. Jesus showed what to do in such a case. He told the Devil:  "Go away, Satan!"  (Matthew 4:3-10) In like manner, you should refuse to listen to voices from the spirit world. Resist wicked  spirits by calling on Jehovah for help. Yes, pray aloud using God's name.  (Proverbs 18:10 says:  "The name of Jehovah is a strong tower.   Into it the righteous runs and is given protection."  The Christian man in Cote d'Ivoire did this, and the wicked spirits stopped harassing him. -Psalm 124:8; 145:18. 

Jehovah has allowed the wicked spirits to remain in existence, but he shows his power, particularly in behalf of his people, and his name is being declared in all the earth.  (Exodus 9:16) If you stay close to God,m you need not fear wicked spirits.  (Numbers 23:21, 23; James 4:7, 8; 2 Peter 2:9)  Their power is limited.  They were punished in Noah's day, were cast out of heaven in recent times, and are now awaiting final judgment.  (Jude 6; Revelation 12:9; 20:1-3, 7-10, 14)  In fact, they dread their coming destruction.  (James 2:19)   So whether wicked spirits try to attract you with some kind of bait or attack you in any way, you can resist them.  (2 Corinthians 2:11)  Shun every form of spiritism, apply the counsel of God's Word, and seek Jehovah's approval. Do this without delay, for you life depends on your resisting wicked spirit forces! 

Note:  These wicked spirits and Satan their leader,  do not totally give up.   They may not do big things if you are a servant of God, but they will still mess with you somewhat.  They like to play tricks on you and other little diddies, but nothing major, but still, wise advice: "Stay very close to God, continue  reading the Bible everyday, even if its only two chapters; also keep studying and praying aloud and also give thanks to him every time he does something for you. For instance: Like make a street or road to be clear to be cross it.  Or if it seems you are running short on time and have a lot to do, he can give you the time he knows you need to get it done. If you need strength, he will give it to you. I always talk to him.  He has been very good to me. If for some reason that  he does not answer a pray for you, it is usually for a very good reason.  If he doesn't answer right away, he is giving it some thought, but when he does answer a prayer, it is just at the very right time.   So keep faith  in God, keep close to him, ready study and pray to Jehovah God. Pray for strength, faith and endurance to face each day. 

Next time: CHAPTER THIRTEEN:  WHY LIVING A GODLY LIFE BRINGS HAPPINESS

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RESIST WICKED SPIRIT FORCES

HOW TO RESIST WICKED SPIRIT FORCES

What is one way that you can resist wicked spirits and protect yourself and your family from their snares?  First-century Christians in Ephesus who had practiced spiritism before becoming believers took positive steps. We read that "quite a number of those who practiced magical arts brought their books together and burned them up before everybody."  (Acts 19:19)  Even if you have not practiced spiritism, get rid of anything having spiritistic  uses or overtones.   This includes books, magazines, videos, posters, musical recordings, and objects used for spiritistic purposes. Also included are idols, amulets (like necklaces with crosses, rosary beads, for example)  and other items worn for protection, (or worship)  and gifts received from practicers of spiritism.  (Deuteronomy 7:25, 26; 1 Corinthians 10:21) To illustrate:  A married couple in Thailand had long been harassed by demons. They got rid of objects associated with spiritism.  What was the result?  They were relieved of the demonic attacks and thereafter  made real spiritual progress.

In order to resist wicked spirits, another necessary step is to apply the apostle Paul's counsel to put on the complete suit of armor.  (Ephesians 6:11-17) Christians must fortify their defenses against wicked spirits. What does this step include?  "Above all things, said Paul, "take up the large shield of faith, with which you will be able to quench all the wicked one's burning missiles."  Indeed, the stronger your faith, the greater your ability to resist wicked forces.  - Matthew 17:14-20. 

How can you strengthen your faith?  By continuing to study the Bible and apply its counsel in your life. The strength of one's faith depends largely on the firmness of its base-the knowledge of God. Do you not agree that the accurate knowledge you have gained and taken to heart as you have studied the Bible has built up your faith?  (Romans 10:10, 17) No doubt, therefore, as you continue this study and make it your custom to attend the meetings of Jehovah's Witnesses, your faith will be fortified even more. (Romans 1:11, 12; Colossians 2:6, 7)  it will be a might bulwark against demon attacks. -1 John 5:5. 

What further steps might be taken by a person who is determined to resist wicked spirit forces?  Ephesian Christians needed protection because they lived in a city infested with demonism. Hence, Paul tole them:  "Carry on prayer on every occasion in spirit."  (Ephesians 6:18)   Since we live in a demon-infested world, praying intensely for God's protection is essential in resisting wicked spirits.  (Matthew 6:13) Helpful in this regard is the spiritual assistance and prayers of appointed elders in the Christian congregation. - James 5:13-15. 

Note: Another thing that helps to resist wicked spirits is if any of your family or friends  are not believer, or have anything to do with magic, or any other thing that has to do with spiritism- music or books about magic, worshiping any other thing that they consider god, and they either gave you something or want to give you something pertaining to the practice of spiritism,  Give back, get rid of  and refuse anything like that, including jewelry that has a cross on it, That, flags, rosaries or any statute or anything else that pertains to spiritism.  That is considered idolatry. Also saluting the flag, standing when the Star Spangled Banner comes on, is odolatry.  Anything that takes too much time away from God and worshiping him is wrong in his eyes. 

Next time: RESIST WICKED SPIRIT FORCES/KEEP UP YOUR FIGHT AGAINST WICKED SPIRIT FORCES. 

From the book: KNOWLEDGE That Leads to Everlasting Life