WHY LIVING A GODLY LIFE BRINGS HAPPINESS

HAPPINESS IN MARRIAGE

Those living together as husband and wife should make sure that their marriage has been properly registered with the civil authorities.  (Mark 12:17) they also need to view wedlock as a serious responsibility. True, separation might become necessary in cases of willful non-support, extreme abuse, or the absolute endangerment of spirituality.  (1 Timothy 5:8; Galatians 5:9-21)  But the apostle Paul's words at 1 Corinthians 7:10-17)  encourage marriage mates to stay together.  For true happiness, of course, they must be faithful to each other. Paul wrote:  "Let marriage be honorable among all, and the marriage bed be without defilement, for God will judge fornicators and adulterers."  (Hebrews 13:4)  The term "marriage bed" denotes sexual intercourse between a man and woman legally married to each other.  No other sexual relationship, such as marriage to more than one wife, can be described as "honorable among all."  Moreover, the Bible condemns premarital intercourse and homosexuality. -Romans 1:26, 27; 1 Corinthians 6:18. 

Fornication may bring a few moments of physical pleasure, but it does not result in true happiness. It displeases God and can scar the person's conscience.  (that is if they have one; some don't or don't use them)  (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5)  The sad consequences of illegitimate sex  may be AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases.  "It has been estimated that more than 250 million  people worldwide are infected annually with gonorrhoea, and about 50 million with syphilis," states one medical report.  There is also the problem of unwanted pregnancies. The International Planned Parenthood Federation reports that, around the world, more than 15 million girls between the ages of 15 and 19 become pregnant each year, and third of them have abortions.  A study showed that in one African country, abortion complications result in 72 percent of all deaths among teenage girls. Some fornicators may escape disease and pregnancy but not emotional damage.  Many lose their self-respect and even hate themselves. 

Although adultery may be forgiven, it is a valid Scriptural basis for divorce on the part of the innocent mate.  (Matthew 5:32; compare Hosea 3:1-5)  When such immorality results in the break-up of a marriage, this may leave deep emotional scars on the innocent mate and on the children.  For the good of the human family, God's Word points out  that this adverse judgment will come upon unrepentant fornicators and adulterers. Moreover, it clearly shows that those who practice sexual immorality "will not inherit God's Kingdom." -Galatians 5:19, 21.

Next time: WHY LIVING A GODLY LIFE BRINGS HAPPINESS/"NO PART OF THIS WORLD" 

From the book: KNOWLEDGE That Leads to Everlasting Life