THE BIBLE'S VIEWPOINT/PHYSICAL BEAUTY

"Do not let your adornment be external . .. ,but let it be the secret person of the  heart the incorruptible adornment of the quiet and mild spirit, which is of great value in the eyes of God." -1 Peter 3:3, 4. 

Why is it wise to have a balanced view?

Concerning physical beauty, some say:  "If you've got it, flaunt it!"  In cultures where such thinking is common, adolescent and even preadolescent  girls learn to view themselves  "as objects of others.' desires . . . ,to be looked at and evaluated for their appearance," says a report by the APA.  That view can be most harmful. In fact, it has become a major social and health concern, that according to the APA,  may lead to "a host of negative emotional consequences."  These may include anxiety and  "even self-disgust . . . , eating disorders, low self-esteem, and depression or depressed mood." 

What Attitude reflects a sound mind? 

The Bible associates "soundness of mind," or sensibleness, with modesty.  (1 Timothy 2:9)  Consider: Modest people are not superficial or vain, obsessing about their looks, but they have a healthy, balanced view of themselves.  They also consider the feelings of others and thus earn admiration, respect and, above all, God's favor.  (Micah 6:8)  Moreover, they are more likely to make true friends and attract potential marriage mates who are interested not just in physical intimacy but also in a lasting and happy union. 

For many good reasons, then, the Bible exhorts us to focus on the inner person-"the secret person of the heart" (1 Peter 3:3, 4)  (Note: God says beauty should come from within the person, and that is what counts in his eyes) Inner beauty truly is ageless. In fact, it can improve with time!  "Gray hair is a crown of beauty when it is found in the way of righteousness," says Proverbs 16:31. Hence, whether young or old, people who heed the Bible's superior advice will find the key not only to the beauty that lasts but also to dignity and contentment.  

Next time: KEYS TO A HAPPY LIFE

From the Awake! magazine