What Is the Best Gift of All? -Continue with The Quest for the Best Gift

The recipient's desires.  A man in Belfast Northern Island, called a racing bike he received when he was 10 or 11 years old the best present ever.  Why?  "Because I really wanted it, he explained.  That remark reveals that it is a person's desire has much to do with whether he will cherish a gift or not.  So think about the person to whom you intend to give a gift.  Try to identify what he may value, because a person's values often influence his desires.  For example, grandparents as frequently as possible.  A family vacation including the grandparents would likely be more appreciated than any other gift for them.

A key to being aware of a person's desires is to be a good listener. The Bible encourages us to "be quick to listen, slow to speak."  (James 1:19)  As you engage in everyday conversation with your friends or relatives, listen closely for clues that indicate their likes and dislikes.  Then you may be in a better position to give a gift that they will enjoy.

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What Is the Best Gift of All? - The Quest for the Best GIft

Coming up with what might be considered the ideal gift is not an easy task,  After all the value of the gift will be determined by the receiver.  And what one recipient considers best might not be so for another.

For instance,  a teenager may feel that the latest gift electronic gadget would be  a perfect gift.  An adult, on the other hand, may deeply treasure receiving a gift of sentimental value, such as a family heirloom.  In some cultures, the preferred gift for young and old alike is money, allowing the receiver to use it for whatever he or she wants.

Despite the challenge, many thoughtful individuals continue in their quest for a gift most  suitable for someone special, while finding such a gift may not always seem possible, keeping in mind certain factors would like increase the chances for success. Let us consider four that can contribute to satisfaction on the part of the receiver. 

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What Is the best Gift of All? - "It Was the Best Gift I Ever Received"

That is how one  13-year-old girl felt when she received a pet dog as a gift. A successful business woman said that a computer her father gave her when she was in high school was a gift that changed her life.  And a newlywed husband felt that his wife's handmade first-anniversary card was the best he had ever received.

Each year, many people spend  time and effort searching for that "best" gift for a friend or a relative on a special occasion.  And most would love to hear a response  like those mentioned at the outset.  What about you?  Would you like to be able to give or receive gifts that are truly appreciated?  

That prospect can be very appealing, not only because of the effect a gift can have on the receiver but also of the way the giver feel.  After all, the Bible says:  "There is more happiness in giving than there is in receiving." (Acts 20:"35)  Of  course, the happiness gained from receiving may be enhanced if the gift is highly valued by the receiver. 

How, then, can you make your gift-giving a source of true-happiness  for you and for the receiver?  And If giving the "best" gift is not possible, what can you do so that your gift will be truly appreciated?

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Love-A Precious Quality -"LOVE BUILDS UP"

Paul wrote: "Love builds up."  (1 Corinthians 8:1) What does it mean?  In 1 Corinthians chapter 13, which some call the Psalm of Love," he explains how love builds up.  Love seeks the other person's advantage.  Love cares about the needs of others. (1 Corinthians 10:24; 13:5)  And  because it is thoughtful, considerate, patient, and kind, it builds up loving families and united congregations. - Colossians 3:14. 

There are many ways to show love for others, but our love for God is the most valuable and upbuilding love there is.  Why?  Because our love for him unites  us! People from all backgrounds, races, and languages worship Jehovah together serving him "shoulder to shoulder."  (Zephaniah 3:9) Let us be determined to show this precious quality of the fruitage of God's holy spirit every day. 

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Love-A Precious Quality - BENEFITS OF SHOWING LOVE

There are many benefits of showing love. Let us  consider two examples: 

AN INTERNATIONAL BROTHERHOOD: Because of our love for one another, we know that  the brothers and sisters in any congregation we  may visit around the world will warmly welcome us. What  a blessing it is to know that you are loved by "the entire association of your brothers in the world"!  (1 Peter 5:9) We can only find such love among God's people.

PEACE: "Putting up with one another in  love" allows us to enjoy "the uniting bond of peace." (Ephesians 4:2, 3)  We experience  the peace at our meetings, assemblies, and conventions.  Would you not agree that such a peaceful spirit is truly unique in today's divided world?  (Psalm 119:165; Isaiah 54:13) When we pursue  peace with others, we show that we truly love them, and this pleases our heavenly Father. -Psalm 133:1-3; Matthew 5:9. 

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Love-A Precious Quality - HOW CAN WE CULTIVATE LOVE?

Ask God to give you his holy spirit, which produces love.  Jesus said that Jehovah gives "holy spirit to those asking him."  (Luke 11:13)  So we can be sure  that if we pray for holy spirit and allow it to help us, we will become more and more loving.  (Galatians 5:16)  For example, if you are an elder, you can ask for holy spirit to help you to be loving when you must counsel others from the Bible. Leigh found that asking herself that question helped her to think before acting.  She says:  "Once, a coworker sent me an e-mail to my colleagues with negative comments about me and the work I was doing.  It hurt me deeply,  But then I asked myself, 'How can I imitate Jesus in dealing with this person?'  After reflecting on what Jesus would have done, I decided to let the matter go and not make an issue of it.  Later, I learned my coworker had been coping with a serious health problem, and was under a lot of stress.  I concluded that she probably did not mean what she wrote.  Reflecting on Jesus' example of showing love even when provoked helped me to show similar love to my coworker." If we imitate Jesus, we will always show love to others.

Learn to show self-sacrificing love.  This is the kind of love that identifies Jesus' true followers.  (John 13:34, 35 )  Jesus himself had this kind of love, and he set the perfect example for us. How so?  By leavening heaven "he emptied himself" in our behalf, even "to the point of death."  (Philippians 2:5-8) When we imitate Jesus' self-sacrificing love, our thoughts and feelings will become more like his, and we will put the needs of others ahead of our own. 

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Love- A Precious Quality - "GO ON WALKING IN LOVE"

Paul encourages us:  "Become imitators of God, as beloved children, and go on walking in love, just as the Christ also loved us and gave himself for us."  (Ephesians 5:1,2)  What does it mean to "go on walking in love"?  It means to show love at all times.  We do  not simply say that we love others.  We show it by what we do.  John wrote: "Little children, we should love, not in word or with the tongue, but in deed and truth."  (1 John 3:18) For example, we preach the "good news of the Kingdom" because we love Jehovah and our neighbor. (Matthew 24:14; Luke 10:27) We also "go on walking in love" when we are patient, kind, and forgiving.  We apply the Bible's counsel:  "Just as Jehovah freely forgave you, you must also do the same." -Colossians 3:13)


If we counsel or correct others, however, it does not mean that we are unloving.  For example, to stop; their children from crying, some parents may simply do whatever the child demands.  But a parent who truly loves a child will be firm when necessary.  In a similar way, although God is love, "those whom Jehovah loves  he disciplines."  (Hebrews 12:6)  So it is loving to give proper discipline when needed.  (Proverbs 3:11, 12) But remember, we are all sinners and often fail to show love.  So when we can improve in showing love.  How can we do this? Let us consider three ways.


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Love-A Precious Quality- What IS LOVE?

Even though it is very difficult to explain exactly what love is, the Bible describes how a loving person thinks and acts.  For example, a loving person is "patient and kind" and "rejoices with the truth." When a person has love, he "bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." He has a deep affection  for others, he really cares for them, and he is a loyal friend.  But when  a person does not have love, he is jealous, proud, indecent, selfish, and unforgiving.  Instead of showing negative qualities like those, we want to show genuine love for others, the kind of love that "does not look for its own interests." - 1 Corinthians 13:4-8.  

JEHOVAH AND JESUS SET THE PERFECT EXAMPLE OF LOVE

"God is love."  (1 John 4:8) All his works and actions prove that.  His greatest act of love toward mankind was sending Jesus to the earth to suffer and die for us.  The apostle John said:  "By this love of God was revealed in our case, that God sent his only-begotten Son into the world so that we might gain life through him.  The love in this respect not that we have loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as  a propitiatory sacrifice for our sins."  (1 John 4:9, 10) Because of God's love, our sins can be forgiven and we can have hope and life. 

Jesus showed that he love mankind by sacrificing his life to do God's will.  The apostle Paul tells us:  "By this 'will' we have been sanctified through the offering of the body of Jesus Christ once for all time."  (Hebrews 10:9, 10)  No human could show greater love.  Jesus said:  "No one has greater love than this, that someone should surrender his life in behalf of his friends."  (John 15:13) Can imperfect humans imitate the love Jehovah and Jesus have shown?  Yes! Let us consider how we can do so. 

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Love-A Precious Quality

LOVE

JOY

PEACE

PATIENCE

KINDNESS

GOODNESS

FAITH

MILDNESS

SELF-CONTROL



JEHOVAH inspired the apostle Paul to write about nine qualities that result from the action of the holy spirit.  (Galatians 5:22, 23) Together, these qualities  are called "the fruitage of the spirit."  This fruitage is also part of "the new personality"  that Christians must put on. (Colossians 3:10) Just as a tree will produce fruit when it is watered properly, a person will have these beautiful qualities when holy spirit flows freely in his life. -Psalm 1:1-3. 

The first quality that Paul listed is love. How precious is this quality?  Paul said that without love, he was "nothing."  (1 Corinthians 13:2)  But what is love, and how can we develop it and show it every day?

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'The Power of God . . . Surpasses All Understanding' - IT WILL GUARD OUR HEARTS AND MENTAL POWERS

What results when we receive this "peace of God that surpasses all understanding"?  The Scriptures answer by saying that it 'will guard our hearts and our mental powers by means of Jesus Christ.'  (Philippians 4:7)  The original language word for "guard" was a military expression.  It referred to a garrison of troops that was assigned to guard a fortified city in ancient times.  Philippi was such a city.  The inhabitants of Philippi slept soundly at night, knowing that soldiers were guarding the gate of their city.  In a similar manner, when we have "the peace of God," our hearts and minds remain at rest.  We know that Jehovah cares for us and wants us to succeed. (1 Peter 5:10)  That knowledge guards us from becoming overwhelmed by anxiety or discouragement.

Soon mankind will face the greatest tribulation that will ever occur here on earth.  (Matthew 24:21, 22)  We do not know all the details of what that will mean for us individually.  However, there is no need to be consumed by anxiety. Even though we do not know everything Jehovah will do, we do know our God.  We have seen from his past dealings that no matter what happens, Jehovah will always accomplish his purpose, and sometimes he does it in an unexpected manner.  Each time Jehovah doe so for us, we may experience in a new way "the peace of God that surpasses all understanding." 

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'The Peace of God . . . Surpasses All Understanding' - Conclusion of EXAMPLES OF JEHOVAH DOING THE UNEXPECTED

Granted, we do not expect that Jehovah will miraculously take away all our problems before the promised new world; nor do we demand that spectacular things occur in our lives. But we do know that God who helped his servants in amazing ways is our God, Jehovah.  (Read Isaiah 43:10-13)  This confidence helps us to have faith in him. We know that he can do whatever is needed to empower us to accomplish his will fully.  (2 Corinthians 4:7-9)  What lessons do we learn from these Bible accounts?  As the examples of Hezekiah, Joseph, and Sarah show, Jehovah can help us to conquer the seemingly unconquerable if we remain faithful to Him.

How can we face challenges and still "retain the peace of God"?  It is by maintaining a good relationship with our God, Jehovah.  Such a relationship is possible only "by means  of Christ Jesus,"  who offered his life as a ransom sacrifice.  The provision of that ransom is yet another one of the amazing works of our Father.  Jehovah uses the ransom to cover our sins, enabling us to have a clean conscience and draw close to him. -John 14:6; James 4:8; 1 Peter 3:21. 

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'The Peace of God .. . Surpasses All Understanding' - EXAMPLES OF JEHOVAH DOING THE UNEXPECTED

As we search the Scriptures, time and again we find examples of Jehovah doing the unexpected.  King Hezekiah lived at at time when King Sennacherib of Assyria invaded Judah and captured all the fortified cities, with the exception of Jerusalem.  (2 Kings 18:1-3, 13)  Then, Sennacherib turned his attention to Jerusalem.  What did King Hezekiah do when faced with this imminent threat?  he approached Jehovah in prayer and turned to Jehovah's prophet Isaiah for advice.  (2 Kings 19:5, 15-20)  Hezekiah also tried to show his reasonableness by paying the fine that Sennacherib imposed on him. (2 Kings 18:14, 15) In time,  Hezekiah made preparations for a long siege. (2 Chronicles 32:2-4)  But how  was the situation resolved?  Jehovah sent an angel to destroy 185,000- if Sennacherib's soldiers in one night.  Truly, not even Hezekiah expected that to happen! - 2 Kings 19:35. 

Consider the young man Joseph, a son of Jacob. While in a prison hole in Egypt, did Joseph have any idea that he would be appointed to the second-highest position in the land or that he would be used by Jehovah to save his family from starvation?  (Genesis 40:15, 41:39-43; 50:20)  No doubt Jehovah's actions exceeded all of Jehovah's expectations.  Think, too, about Joseph's great-grandmother Sarah.  Did aged Sarah expect that Jehovah would allow her to give birth to her own son, not just receive as son the child produced by her servant girl?  The birth of Isaac certainly exceeded all that Sarah could ever have imagined. -Genesis 21:1-3, 6, 7.

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'The Peace of God . . . Surpasses All Understanding' - "DO NOT BE ANXIOUS OVER ANYTHING"

What can help us not to be anxious over anything and to experience  "the peace of God"?  Paul's words to the Philippians show us that the antidote to worry is prayer.  So when we are anxious, we need to turn our worries into prayers.  (Read 1 Peter 5:6, 7)  Pray to Jehovah in full faith, knowing that he cares for you. Pray to him "with thanksgiving,"  remembering your blessings.  Our confidence in him will be strengthened when we keep in mind that he can "do more than super abundantly beyond all the things we ask or conceive." -Ephesians 3:20. 

As in the case of Paul and Silas in Philippi, we may be surprised by what Jehovah does for us personally.  It may not be spectacular, but it will always be  what we need.  (1 Corinthians 10:13) Of course, this does not mean that we sit back and do nothing, simply waiting for Jehovah to correct the situation of solve the problem.  We need to act in harmony with our prayers. (Romans 12:11) Our actions thereby prove our sincerity and give Jehovah something to bless.  But at the same time, we need to realized that Jehovah is not limited by our requests, plans, and expectations. Sometimes, he surprises us by doing the unexpected.  Let us consider some Bible accounts that reinforce our confidence in Jehovah's ability to do the unexpected in our behalf. 

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'The Peace of God . . . Surpasses All Understanding' - IT "SURPASSES ALL UNDERSTANDING"

What do we learn from these events?  Jehovah can do the unexpected, so we need not be anxious in the face of trials.  That lesson no doubt made a deep impression on Paul, as evidenced by what he later wrote to the brothers in Philippi about anxiety and the peace of God.  Let us first discuss Paul's words recorded at Philippians 4:6,7.  Then, we will review some additional Scriptural examples of how Jehovah did the unexpected.  Finally, we will consider how "the peace of God" can help us to endure with full confidence in Jehovah.

No doubt when the brothers of Philippi read Paul's letter to them, they remembered what had happened to him and how none of them had expected  Jehovah to take action in the way he did.  What lesson was Paul teaching them?   Basically:  Do not worry.  Pray, and then you will receive the peace of God.  But notice that "the peace of God . . . surpasses all understanding."  What does that mean?  Some translators render this expression "surpasses all our dreams" or "excels all human planning."  Paul was, in effect, saying that "the peace of God" is more wonderful than can be imagined.  So although from a human viewpoint we may not see a way out of our problems, Jehovah does, and he can do the unexpected. -Read 2 Peter 2:9. 

As the brothers in Philippi thought over what had happened in ten years since those events, they would have been strengthened. What Paul wrote was true. Although Jehovah had allowed an injustice to occur, this ultimately resulted in "the defending and legally establishing of the good news."  (Philippians 1:7)  Those city magistrates would think twice before doing anything against the newly formed Christian congregation in their city.  Perhaps because of Paul's actions, his traveling companion Luke, the physician, was able to remain in Philippi after Paul and Silas left.  Luke could thus give extra help to the Christians in that city.

Indeed, when those brothers in Philippi read Paul's letter, they knew that these were not the words of an academic who was sitting somewhere in an office.  Paul had experienced extreme difficulties; yet, he demonstrated that he had "the peace of God." In fact, when Paul wrote to those brothers, he was under house arrest in Rome.  But he was still showing that "the peace of God" was with him. -Philippians 1:12-14; 4:7, 11, 22.


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'The Peach of God . . . Surpasses All Understanding"

Perhaps there have  you expected. You came face-to-face with challenges, or you found yourself in new circumstances that required massive changes in your life.  (Ecclesiastes9:11)  As you look back, maybe you are left wondering why Jehovah allowed certain things to happen.  If so, what can help you to continue to endure with full confidence in Jehovah? To find the answer, let us return to the account of Paul and Silas.

As Paul and Silas sing songs of praise, a series of totally unexpected events occurs.  Suddenly, there is a violent earthquake.  The doors of the prison are thrown wide open.   All the prisoners'   bonds are loosened.  Paul stops the jailer from committing suicide.  The jailer and his entire family get baptized. As the new officials ask them to leave the city peacefully.  Then, on realizing that Paul and Silas  are Roman citizens, the magistrates see that they have made a huge blunder, so they themselves come to escort the two men out.  But Paul and Silas insist on first saying good-bye to their newly baptized sister Lydia. Additionally, they use the opportunity to strengthen the brothers.  (Acts 16:26-40) How quickly everything changed!

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"The Peace of God . . . Surpasses All Understanding"

"The peace of God that surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts." -Philippians 4:7. 


IT IS midnight.  Two missionaries, Paul and Silas, are in prison-the innermost part of the prison=-in the city of Philippi.  Their feet are fastened securely with stocks and their backs are still aching from the beatings they had just received.  (Acts 16:23, 24)  How quickly things had happened!  Without a warning, they had been dragged by a mob to the marketplace to stand before a hastily convened court. Their clothes were torn off them, and they were severely beaten with rods.  (Acts 16:16-22) The injustice of it all!  Paul, a Roman citizen, deserved a proper trial. 

 As Paul sits in the darkness, he contemplates the events of the day.  He thinks  about the people of Philippi. They do not even have a Jewish synagogue in their city, unlike so many other cities that Paul had visited.  In fact, the Jewish worshipers need to gather outside the city gates beside a river.  (Acts 16:13,14) Is this because there are not even ten Jewish males in the city, the number required for a synagogue?  The people of Philippi are obviously very proud of their Roman citizenship, even if only a partial or secondary form of citizenship.  (Acts 16:21) Could this be why they do not even think it is possible that these Jews, Paul and Silas, could be Roman citizens?  Whatever the case, here they are, unjustly thrown into prison.

Perhaps Paul is also thinking about the events of the past few months.  He was on the other side of the Aegean Sea, in Asia Minor, While Paul was there, the holy spirit repeatedly stopped him from preaching in certain areas.  It was as if the holy spirit were pushing him to go somewhere else.  (Acts 16:6, 7)  But where?  The answer came in a vision while he was in Troas.  Paul was told:  "Step over into Macedonia."  With such a clear indication of Jehovah's will, Paul immediately accepted the invitation. (Read Acts 16:8-10)  But what happened next?  Soon after he arrived in Macedonia, he ended up in prison? Jehovah allowed this to happen to Paul? How long would he be stuck in prison?  Even if these questions weighed heavily on Paul's mind, he did not let  them erode his faith and joy. Both he and Silas started "praying and praising God with song." (Acts 16:25)  Their hearts and minds were soothed by the peace of God.

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Imitate Jehovah's Compassion - COMPASSION IS GOOD FOR YOU TOO!

Mental-healthy experts say that showing compassion can improve our health and our relationships with others. When you help those who are suffering, you will feel happier, more hopeful, less lonely, and less negative.  Showing compassion is good for you.  (Ephesians 4:31, 32)  When love moves us to help others, we have a good conscience because we know that we are doing what Jehovah wants us to do.  Compassion will help us to be better parents, marriage mates, and friends.  In addition people who show compassion to others usually receive help when they need it. - Read Matthew 5:7;  Luke 6:38.


Although showing compassion is good for us, the main reason we show compassion is that we want to imitate Jehovah and bring glory to him. He is the source of love and compassion. (Proverbs 14:31)  He sets the perfect example for us.  So let us do all we can to imitate God by showing compassion.  Then we will draw closer to our brothers and sisters and have better relationships with the people around us. -Galatians 6:10; 1 John 4:16.


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Imitate Jehovah's Compassion -Conclusion of HOW WE CAN SHOW COMPASSION

Help those who are sick and elderly.  When we see people suffering from sickness, and old age, we feel compassion. We long to see the end of these problems. so we pray for God's Kingdom to come. In the  meantime, we all we can to help the sick and elderly.  On author wrote that one day his elderly mother, who suffered from Alzheimers disease. soiled her clothes.  While trying to clean up, her doorbell rang.  Two Witnesses who regularly visited her were there.  The sisters asked if they could help.  The woman said:  "It is embarrassing  but yes."  The sisters helped her to clean up. Then they made her  a cup of tea and stayed to chat with her.  The son was very thankful and said that the Witnesses "practice what they preach."  Does your compassion for the sick and the elderly move you to do all you can to help them? -Philippians 2:3, 4. 

Help people to known Jehovah.  The best way we can help people  is to teach them about God and his Kingdom.  Another way is to help them see why obeying Jehovah's standards is good for them.  (Isaiah 48:17, 18)  The ministry is a wonderful way to honor Jehovah and show compassion to others.  Could you do more in the ministry? -1 Timothy 2:3, 4.

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Imitate Jehovah's Compassion - HOW WE CAN SHOW COMPASSION

Be helpful in everyday life.  Jehovah Requires that Christians show compassion to their neighbors and their brothers.  (John 13:34, 35; 1 Peter 3:8 )  One meaning of compassion is "to suffer together." A person who shows compassion tries to help those who are suffering. So we should look for opportunities to help others, perhaps by offering to do a necessary chore or errand for them. - Matthew 7:12.

Share in relief work. When we see people suffering because of a disaster, we want to show them compassion.  Jehovah's people are well-known for helping others at such times. (1 Peter 2:17) For example, a  Japanese sister lived in an area that was damaged in the 2011 earthquake and tsunami.  She said that she was "very encouraged and comforted" when she saw volunteers come from different parts of Japan and from other countries to repair homes and Kingdom Halls.  She added:  "This experience helped me to realize that Jehovah cares.  And fellow Witnesses care about one another.  Many brothers and sisters all over the world are praying for us."


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Imitate Jehovah's Compassion - Conclusion of JEHOVAH-THE PERFECT EXAMPLE OF COMPASSION

Jesus was an excellent example of compassion.  He felt pity for the people because he saw that "they were skinned and thrown about like sheep without a shepherd."   So, what did he do?  "He started to teach them many things."  (Matthew 9:36; read Mark 6:34)  In contrast, the Pharisees were not compassionate and did not want to help the people.  (Matthew 12:9-14; 23:4;  John 7:49) Like Jesus, do you have a deep desire to help people and teach them about Jehovah?

This does not  mean that it is always appropriate to show compassion.    For example, King Saul may have thought that he was showing compassion when he did not kill Agag, who was the king of Amalek and an enemy of God's people.  Saul also did not ill all the animals of the Amalekites.  But Jehovah had told Saul to kill all the Amalekites and all their animals. Because of Saul's disobedience, Jehovah rejected him as king.  (1 Samuel 15:3, 9, 15)  Jehovah is the righteous Judge.  He can read people's hearts, and he knows when compassion should not be shown.  (Lamentations  2:178;  Ezekiel 5:11)  Soon he will bring judgment on all those who refuse to obey him.  (2 Thessalonians 1:6-10) That will not be the time for Jehovah to show compassion to the wicked.  However, by destroying them, he will compassion for the righteous, whom he will save.  

Of course, it is not our job to judge whether people should live or die.  Instead, we need to do all we can now to help the people. What are some practical ways that we can show compassion to others? Here are a few suggestions. 

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Imitate Jehovah's Compassion - Continue with JEHOVAH-A PERFECT EXAMPLE OF COMPASSION

Today, many of Jehovah's servants have experienced his compassion.  For example, during the 1990's  in Bosnia, various ethnic groups were fighting and killing one another.  One family living there included a 12-year-old boy we will call Milan.  Milan, his brother, his parents, and other Witnesses were traveling on a bus from Bosnia to Serbia.  They were going  to a convention, where Milan's parents were planning to get baptized.  At the border, some soldiers noticed that the family was from a different ethnic group and made them get off the buss.  Then they let the rest of the brothers on the bus to continue their trip.  For two days,, the soldiers would not let the family go.   Finally, the officer in charge called his superior officer and asked what he should do with them.  The family was standing right there and could hear the officer reply, "just take them out and shoot them!"

As the soldiers were talking, two strangers approached the family.  They whispered that they were Jehovah's Witnesses too and that the brothers on the bus had told them what happened.  The two witnesses told Milan and his brother to get into their car to cross the border because the soldiers were not checking children's papers.  Then the brothers told the parents to walk around the back of the border post and meet them on the other side.  Milan was so scared that he did not know whether to laugh or to cry.  His parents asked, "Do you think they are just going let us walk off?" But as they walked away, it seem as if they soldiers did not even see them.  Milan and his brother met his parents on the other side of the border, and they went on to the convention.  They were convinced that Jehovah had answered their prayers!  We  know from the Bible that Jehovah does not always directly protect his servants in such a way.  (Acts 7:58-60)  But in this case, Milan said:  "It seemed to me that the angels blinded the soldiers and that Jehovah rescued us." -Psalm 97:10.

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Imitate Jehovah's Compassion - JEHOVAH-THE PERFECT EXAMPLE OF COMPASSION

The Bible contains many examples of Jehovah's compassion.  For example, thing of what he did for Lot.  Lot was a righteous man who was "greatly distressed" by the immoral people of Sodom and Gomorrah.  Those people had no respect for God, and Jehovah decided they deserved to die.   (2 Peter 2:7, 8)  Jehovah sent angels to Lot to tell him that Sodom and Gomorrah would be destroyed and that he needed to flee.  The Bible says:  "When [Lot] kept lingering, then because of Jehovah's compassion for him, the [angels] seized hold of his hand and the hand of his wife and the hands of two daughters, and they brought him out and stationed him outside the city."  (Genesis 19:16)  Just as Jehovah understood Lot's situation, we can be sure that he understands any difficulties we go through. -Isaiah 63:7-9; James 9-11; 2 Peter 2:9. 

Jehovah has also taught his people to show compassion.  Think about one of the laws that he gave to Israel.  If someone owed money to lender, the lender could take the person's garment as a guaranteed that he would pay the money back.  (Read Exodus 22:26, 27.)  But the lender had to return the garment back to the person by sunset so they could stay warm during the night.   Someone who was not compassionate would not want to give the garment back. but Jehovah taught his people to be compassionate.  What  does the principle behind this law teach us?  Never ignore the needs of a fellow Christian.  When we can help a brother or a sister who is suffering, we want to do so. -Colossians 3:12; James 2:15, 16; read 1 John 3:17. 

Jehovah felt compassion for the Israelites even when they sinned against him.  We read: "Jehovah the God of their forefathers kept warning them by means f his messengers, warning them again and again, because he felt compassion for his people and for his dwelling place."  (Chronicles 36:15)  In a similar way, we should feel compassion for those who do not yet know Jehovah but who may still repent and become his friends.  Jehovah does not want anyone to be destroyed in the coming judgment.  (2 Peter 3:9)  So while there is still time, we  want to share this warning with everyone we can and help; as many as possible to benefit God's compassion. 

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Imitate Jehovah's Compassion

"Jehovah, Jehovah, a God merciful and compassionate." -EXODUS 34:6.


ON ONE occasion, God revealed himself to Moses by declaring His name and some of his qualities.  Jehovah could have emphasized his power or wisdom, but instead, he first spoke of his mercy and compassion.  (Read Exodus 34:5-7)   Moses needed to know if Jehovah would support him.  So Jehovah emphasized qualities that show that he really wants to help his servants.  (Exodus 33:13) How does it make you feel to know that Jehovah cares so much for us?  This article will focus on compassion, which is sympathy for the suffering of others and the desire to help them.

Jehovah is compassionate, and humans were made in his image.  So it is natural for humans to care about others. Even those who do not know Jehovah often show compassion.  For example. when Solomon needed to find out which of the two women was the mother of a baby,  he tested them by ordering that the baby be cut in half.  The mother felt deep compassion for  her baby, so she pleaded with the king to let the other woman have him.  (1 Kings 3:23-27) Another example of compassion is Pharaoh's daughter.  When she found baby Moses, she realized that he was a Hebrew and was suppose to be killed. But "she felt compassion for him," and she decided to raise him as her own son. -Exodus 2:5, 6.

Why should we learn more about compassion?  Because Jehovah wants us to imitate him.  (Ephesians 5:1)  Even though we were created to be compassionate, we are imperfect and tend to be selfish.  Sometimes it may not be easy for us to decide whether to help other people or to focus on ourselves. What can help us to be more interested in others?  First, let us examine how Jehovah and others have shown compassion.  Second, let us see how we can imitate God's compassion and why it is good for us to do so.

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How We Put On and Keep On the New Personality -"CLOTHE YOURSELVES WITH LOVE"

All the qualities thus far are closely connected with love.  For example, the disciple James had to counsel his brothers for favoring the rich over the poor.  He showed that such conduct violated the royal law:  "You  must love your neighbor as yourself." Then he added:  "If you continue showing favoritism, you are committing sin." (James 2:8, 9)  In contrast, love will move us to avoid any discrimination based one education, race, or social status.   Indeed, impartiality needs to be more than a veneer.  It must be a genuine part of  our personality.

Love is also "patient and kind" and "does not get puffed up."  (1 Corinthians 13:4)  It truly takes patience, kindness, humility to continue sharing in the Kingdom message with our neighbors.  (Matthew 28:19)  These same qualities make it easier for us to get along with all the brothers and sisters in the congregation.  What is the reward for showing such love?  (Note: We should have that patience etc for everyone, not just for certain people/groups)  It produces united congregations that reflect well on Jehovah and that attract newly interested ones. Fittingly, the Bible's description of the new personality concludes with this powerful truth:  "Besides these things, clothe yourselves with love, for it is a perfect bond of union." -Colossians 3:14. 

"CONTINUE TO BE MADE NEW"

Each of us should ask themselves, 'What more can I do to strip off and keep off the old personality?'  We need to pray fervently for God's help and work hard to overcome any attitude or practice that will prevent us from inheriting God's Kingdom.  (Galatians 5:19-21) We also need to ask, 'Do I continue to be made new in my dominant mental attitude?' (Ephesians 4:23,24)  Putting on and keeping on the new personality is an ongoing  process for all Christians until we are able to do so to the full.  Imagine how wonderful life will be when everyone we know is clothed to perfection with the new personality!

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How We Put On and Keep On the New Personality - "CLOTHE YOURSELVES WITH . . . MILDNESS . . . AND PATIENCE"

In today's world, people who are mild and patient are often considered weak.  How far such reasoning is from the truth!  These beautiful qualities originate from the most powerful Person in the universe.  Jehovah God is the best example of showing mildness and patience.  (2 Peter 3:9) Consider how he responded through his angelic representatives when Abraham and Lot questioned him.  (Genesis 18:22-33; 19:18-21) Also, for over 1,500 years, Jehovah put up with the wayward nation of Israel. -Ezekiel 33:11. 

Jesus was "mild-tempered." (Matthew 11:29) He showed great patience in putting up with the weakness of his followers.  Throughout his earthly ministry.  Jesus endured unjust criticism from religious opposers.  Yet, he was mild and patient right up to his wrongful execution.  While suffering agonizing pain on the torture stake, Jesus prayed that his Father forgive his executioners because, as he said, "they know not what they do." (Luke 23:34)  What an outstanding example of mildness and patience under painful stressful circumstances! -Read 1 Peter 2:21-23.  

How can we show mildness and patience?  Paul mentioned one way when he wrote to fellow believers:  "Continue putting up with one another and forgiving one another freely even if anyone has cause for complaint against another.  Just as Jehovah has freely forgiven you, you must do the same."  (Colossians 3:13)  Indeed, it takes mildness and patience on our part to obey this command.  But by being forgiving, we promote and preserve the unity in the congregation. 

Being clothes with mildness and patience is not optional for a Christian.  It is an essential requirement for our salvation.  (Matthew 5:5; James 1:21)  More important, by means of these qualities, we honor Jehovah and help others to heed Bible counsel. -Galatians 6:1; 2 Timothy 2:24, 25. 

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How We Put On and Keep On the New Personality-"CLOTHE YOURSELVES WITH . . . HUMILTY"

Our motive for clothing ourselves with the new personality must be to honor Jehovah, not to win praise from men.  Remember that even a once perfect spirit creature sinned because he allowed himself to become filled with pride.  (Compare Ezekiel 28:17)  How much more difficult it is for sinful humans to avoid improper pride and haughtiness!  Still, it is possible to clothes ourselves with humility.  What will help us to do so?

To remain humble, we need to set aside time to meditate daily on what we  read in God's Word.  (Deuteronomy 17:18-20)  In particular, we do well to reflect on Jesus' teachings and his wonderful example of humble service. (Matthew 20:28)  Jesus even washed the feet of his apostles.  (John 13:12-17)  We also need to pray frequently  for God's spirit to help us fight any tendency of feeling superior to others. -Galatians 6:3, 4; Philippians 2:3. 

Read Proverbs 22:4.  Humility is required of all true worshippers and brings great rewards.  Being humble will help us promote peace and unity in the congregation.  Developing and strengthening humility will also make us recipients of God's undeserved kindness.  The apostle Peter stated: "All of you clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because God opposes  the haughty ones, but he gives undeserved  kindness to the humble ones." -1 Peter 5:5. 

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How We Put On and Keep On the New Personality - Conclusion of "TENDER AFFECTIONS OF COMPASSION, KINDNESS"

When we share the Kingdom message with others, we have a fine opportunity to do "good toward all."  (Galatians 6:10)  Out of compassion for immigrants, many Witnesses endeavor to learn a new language.  (1 Corinthians 9:23)  This had led to rich blessings.  For example, a pioneer sister in Australia named Tiffany learned Swahili in order to be of help to a Swahili-language congregation in the city of Brisbane.  Though learning the language was a struggle for Tiffany, her life has  been enriched.  She says: "If you want an exciting ministry, serving in a foreign language congregation is for you. It's like traveling without leaving your city.  You get to experience our worldwide brotherhood and see its miraculous unity firsthand." 

Consider also the example of a family in Japan. Sakiko, the daughter relates: In the 1990's we  often met Brazilian immigrants when we were in the field  ministry. When we showed them scriptures from their Portuguese Bible, such as Revelation 21:3,4 or Psalm 37:10, 11, 29, they paid attention and sometimes even shed tears."  But the family's compassion did not stop there.  "When we saw their "spiritual  hunger," says Sakiko, "We began to study  Portuguese  as a  family."  Later, the family  helped to establish a Portuguese language  congregation.  Through the years, the family helped many immigrants to become servants  of Jehovah. "It took a lot of work to learn Portuguese," adds Sakiko, "but the blessings  far outweigh the efforts.  We are so thankful to Jehovah." - Read Acts 10:34, 35.

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How We Put On and Keep On the New Personality-TENDER AFFECTIONS OF COMPASSION, KINDESS"

Note: Please be patient with me. I haven't been on because my sickness came on too fast for me. I have been so sick and so dizzy that I could not  even walk, I think I am getting better very slowly,  but still a little dizzy;   so be patient until I can get back to where I was. I am so very sorry for not being on and being able to tell you. Again, I am so sorry.

Until Satan's world comes to an end, we will continue to experience trials.  We deal with unemployment, serious illnesses, persecution, natural disasters, loss of possessions because of crime, or other hardships.  To support one another in our suffering or adversity, we need to have genuine compassion.  Feeling tender compassion will move us to acts of kindness.  (Ephesians 4:32)   These aspects of the new personality will help us  to imitate God and be of comfort to others. -2 Corinthians 1:3, 4. 

How can we show even greater consideration toward foreigners or disadvantaged ones in our congregation?  We need to befriend such individuals and help them to see  that they are a valuable part of the congregation.  (1 Corinthians 12:22, 25)  Consider what happened to Dannykarl who moved  from the Philippines to Japan.  At his workplace, he was not treated as well as the local employees  Then he attended a meeting of Jehovah's Witnesses.  "Almost  all in attendance were Japanese," says Dunnykirl, "yet they gave me a warm welcome, as if they were my old acquaintances."   He continued to experience expression of kindness, which helped him to make spiritual progress.  He was baptized, and today  he serves as an elder.  His fellow view Dannykarl and his wife Jennifer, as  a blessing to the congregation.  The elders say about them, "They lead a very simple life as pioneers and set a fine example of seeking the Kingdom first." -Luke 12:31.

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How We Put On and Keep On the New Personality - "YOU ARE ALL ONE"

After exhorting us to put on the new personality, Paul goes on to describe impartiality as one striking characteristic of the new personality.  He stated: 
"There is neither Greek nor Jew, circumcision or uncircumcision, foreigner, Scythian, slave, or freeman." In the congregation, why should there be no distinction based on race, nationality, or social status?  Because the true followers of Christ are all one." -Colossians 3:11; Galatians 3:28.

Those clothed with the new personality treat fellow believers and outsiders with dignity, regardless of  their social or racial background.  (Romans 2:11) This can be a challenge in some parts of the world. For example, in South Africa most Witnesses still live in areas that were set apart for their race-be it affluent suburbs, black townships, or areas where people of mixed race once had to live. Hence, to encourage our brothers to "widen out," In October 2013 the Governing Body approved a special arrangement to help  the brothers to get to k now one another better. (2 Corinthians 6:13)  What did it involve? 

Arrangements were made for two congregations of different language or race to be together on some weekends. Brothers and sisters from both congregations shared in the preaching work, attended meetings together, and enjoyed hospitality at the homes of one another.  Hundreds of congregations took part, and the branch office received many good reports about this arrangement, even from outsiders.  For example, one religious minister was move to say, "I a not a Witness, but I will say that you have an outstandingly organized preaching work, and you have racial unity."  How did the arrangement affect the Witnesses? 

At first, a Xhosa-speaking sister named Noma had reservations about inviting white brothers from an English-language congregation to her modest home.  But after sharing in the preaching work with the white Witnesses and enjoying hospitality in their homes, she exclaimed.  "They are normal people just like us!"  So when it was the turn of the Xhosa-language congregation to extend  hospitality to the English-language congregation, she prepared a meal and invited some visitors. Among her guests was a white elder.  Noma said, I was impressed that he was willing to sit close to the floor on a plastic crate."  As a result of this ongoing arrangement, many brothers and sisters made new friends and are determined to continue to widen out in their associations. 

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How We Put On and Keep On The New Personality

"THE new personality."  That expression occurs twice in the New World Translation of the Holy Scriptures.  (Ephesians 4:24; Colossians 3:10) It refers to a personality that is "created according to God's will."  Developing such a new personality is within our reach. Why?  Because Jehovah created humans in his image and thus made it possible to reflect his beautiful qualities. -Genesis 1:26, 27; Ephesians 5:1. 

True, because of  the imperfection we inherited from our first parents, we are affected by wrong desires .  We may also have been deeply influenced by our environment.  Yet, with Jehovah's merciful help, we can succeed in becoming the sort of person he wants us to be. To strengthen our desire to r each that goal, we will consider several aspects of the new personality that the apostle Paul was  inspired to write about.  (Read Collossians 3:10-14) We will also consider how we can demonstrate these aspects in our ministry.

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How We Strip Off and Keep Off the Old Personality - HOW THEY GAINED THE VICTORY

Stripping off the old personality traits cannot be done in one's own strength.  The individuals mentioned in this article-Sakura, Ribeiro, Stephen, and Hans-had to fight hard to put away their bad practices.  They gained the victory by opening their mind and heart to the power of God's Word and his holy spirit.  (Luke 11:13; Hebrews 4:12)  To benefit from that power, we must read the Bible daily, meditate on it, and pray constantly  for the wisdom and strength to apply Bible counsel.  (Joshua 1:8; Psalm 119:97; 1 Thessalonians 5:17) We also benefit from God's Word and his holy spirit when we prepare for an attend congregation meetings.  (Hebrews 10:24, 25)  In addition, we want to make good use of the various means by which spiritual food is now made available to God's people worldwide. -Luke 12:42.


We have considered a number of bad practices that Christians must strip off and keep off.  But is that all that is required to gain God's approval? No.  We must also clothe ourselves with the new personality.  In the following article, we will consider several aspects of the new personality that we need to make a permanent part of our figurative clothing.


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Conclusion of PUT AWAY ANGER, ABUSIVE SPEECH, AND LYING

Consider the example of Hans, who serves as an elder in a congregation in Austria.  "He is one of the meekest brothers you could ever want to meet," says the coordinator of the body of elders in the congregation to which Hans belongs.  But Hans was not always meek.  While in his teens, he began to abuse alcohol and, as a result, turned aggressive.  In an alcohol-induced rage,he killed his girlfriend, for which he received a 20-year sentence.  At first, life in prison did not change Hans' aggressive personality.  In time, his mother arranged for an elder to contact her son in prison, and Hans began to study the Bible.  He explains:  "It was a struggle for me to strip off my old personality.  Bible texts that encouraged me were Isaiah 55:7, which says:  "Let the wicked man leave his way,' and 1 Corinthians 6:11, which says about those who abandoned sinful ways: 'And yet that is what some of you were.'  For many years, Jehovah patiently helped me by means of his holy spirit to put on the new personality."  After having served 17 1/2 years of his sentence, Hans was released from prison as a baptized Christian.  He states:  "I am grateful for Jehovah's overwhelming mercy and forgiveness."

Besides abusive speech, the practice of lying is also a trait of the old personality.  For example, it is common for people to lie on tax returns or to lie to avoid taking responsibility for their sins.  By contrast, Jehovah is "the God of truth."  (Psalms 31:5)  Therefore, he requires that "each one of his worshipers "speak truth with his neighbor" and "not lie." (Ephesians 4:25; Colossians 3:9) Thus, we must tell the truth even if it may be embarrassing or inconvenient. -Proverbs 6:16-19. 

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PUT AWAY ANGER, ABUSIVE SPEECH, AND LYING

People who are quick-tempered often express their anger with abusive speech.  Obviously, such conduct cannot contribute to a happy life.  Relates Stephen, a father from Australia:  "I used to swear a lot and would regularly fly into a rage over trivial things.  My wife and I were separated three times and were in the process of getting divorced."  Then, the Witnesses began to study the Bible with the couple.  What was the outcome when Stephen began to follow the Bible's advice?  He says: "Our family life improved dramatically.  With Jehovah help, I now have an overriding sense of peace and calm, whereas before I was a time bomb of bitterness and rage, ready to explode at the slightest annoyance." Today, Stephen serves as a ministerial servant, and his wife has been a regular pioneer for several years.  The elders of the congregation that Stephen attends note: "Stephen is a quiet, hardworking brother, and he has a humble attitude."  They cannot recall ever seeing him angry.  Does  Stephen accept the credit for this?  He states:  "None of these beautiful blessings would be part of my life if I hadn't accepted Jehovah's help  to give my personality a complete makeover."


For good reason, the Bible warns against anger, abusive speech, and screaming. (Ephesians 4:31) Sadly, such conduct often escalates into violence.  The world may view angry behavior  as normal, but it dishonors our Creator. Many had to strip off these harmful ways before being able to clothe themselves with the new personality. -Read Psalm 37:8-11.


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How We Strip Off and Keep Off the Old Personality - OVERCOMING UNCLEAN PRACTICES

Uncleanness. The original Bible Word translated "uncleanness" is a broad form that includes much more than sexual sins.  It can refer to the harmful practice of smoking or the telling of obscene jokes.  (2 Corinthians 7:1; Ephesians 5:3, 4) It also applies to unclean activities practiced by an individual in private, such as reading sexually stimulating books or viewing pornography, which may lead to the unclean habit of masturbation. -Colossians 3:5.

Those who habitually view pornography nurture "uncontrolled sexual passion," which may result in their becoming addicted to sex. Research indicates that individuals  who admitted to having an irresistible urge to watch pornography show the same signs as addiction as do alcoholics and drug addicts.   No wonder the practice of viewing pornography has harmful results-such as deep feelings of shame, low productivity in the workplace, unhappy family life, divorce, and suicide. On celebrating a year of being free of his addiction to pornography, one man wrote:  "I have restored a sense of personal integrity that was missing.  

For many, staying free from pornograhy is an ongoing  battle. Yet, as shown by what happened to Ribeiro from Brazil, this battle can be won. Ribeiro left hom when he was in his teens and in time began working in a paper-recycling plant, where  he was exposed to pornographic materials.  He relates:  "Slowly, I became addicted. It got so bad that I could not wait for women I was living with to leave the house so that I could watch pornographic videos." Then, one day at work, Ribeiro looked at pile of books that were to be recycled, and he noticed a book with the title The Secret of Family Happiness.  He picked it up from the pile and read it.  What he learned moved him to study the Bible with Jehovah's Witnesses, but it took him a long time to break his bad habit. What helped him eventually?  He explains:  "Through prayer, Bible study, and meditation on what I learned, my appreciation of God's qualities increased until my love for Jehovah became stronger than my desire for pornography." Helped by the power of God's Word and his holy spirit, Ribeiro stripped off  his  old personality. got baptized, and now serves as a congregation elder.

Notice that Ribeiro had to do more than simply study the Bible to succeed in his struggle.  He had to take time to allow the Bible's message to touch his heart. By prayer and meditation, his love for God overpowered the craving for pornography.  Developing a strong love for Jehovah and a hatred for what is bad is the best way to stay free from pornography. -Read Psalm 97:10. 

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How We Strip Off and Keep Off the Old Personality -"DEADEN" ANY DESIRES "AS RESPECTS SEXUAL IMMORALITY"

What would you do if your clothing became dirty, perhaps even having a foul odor? You would strip off the soiled garment as soon as possible.  Similarly, we need to act with urgency in obeying the command to strip off habits that are contrary to God's personality.  We want to heed Paul's clear instruction to Christians in his day: "You must put them all away from you."   Let us consider two of the sinful practices listed by Paul-sexual immorality and uncleanness. -Read Colossians 3:5-9.


Sexual immorality. The meaning of the original Bible word translated "sexual immorality" includes  sexual relations between individuals who are not legally married to each other and homosexuality.  Paul told fellow Christians to "deaden" their "body members"-that is to eliminate any desires-"as respects sexual immorality."  Paul's descriptive language clearly shows that strong measures are needed to wipe out such wrong desires.  Yet, the fight against sinful desires can be won. 


Note: They sure can, if you love Jehovah God and want to please him, you will take a vow of celibacy and keep it. I did it and have continued to do so for many years now. It really isn't as difficult as you think. 


Consider  what happened to Sakura from Japan.  Growing up, she struggled with loneliness and a feeling of emptiness. From the age of 15, she began to have sexual relations with different partners in order to relieve her loneliness.  "As a result," she confesses with shame, "I had three abortions." She explains:  "At first, I got a sense of security when have immoral relations, thinking that I was needed and loved.  But the more  I had sexual relations, the more insecure I felt.  This way of life continued until Sakura was 23 years old.  Then she began to study the Bible with the Witnesses. Sakura loved what she learned, and with Jehovah's help she was able to overcome deep feelings of guilt and shame and to put away sexual immorality.  Sakura now serves as a regular pioneer and no longer feels lonely.  Instead, as she puts it, "I am really happy to be basking in Jehovah's love day in and day out."

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Conclusion of How We Strip Off and Keep Off the Old Personality

Such comments by non-Witnesses show that our international brotherhood is truly unique.  (1 Peter 5:9)  What, though, makes us so different from any other organization? With the help of God's Word and his holy spirit, we work hard to "strip off the old personality."  In its place, we "clothe [ourselves] with the new personality." -Colossians 3:9, 10. 

It is one thing to strip off the old personality, yet quite another to keep it off.  In this article, we will consider  how we can strip off the old personality, why doing so is urgent, and why change is possible no matter how deeply involved one may be in wrong practices.  We will also examine what those who have been in the truth for many years can do to keep off the old personality.  Why are such reminders needed?  Sadly, some who once served Jehovah have lowered their guard and have slipped back into their old ways.  Thus, we all need to heed the warning:  "Let the one who thinks he is standing beware that he does not fall." -1 Corinthians 10:12. 

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How We Strip Off and Keep Off the Old Personality

"Strip off the old personality with its practices." -Colossians 3:9


OBSERVERS have commented on the outstanding qualities seen among Jehovah's people.  For example, regarding our brothers and sisters in Nazi Germany, author Anton Gill wrote:  "Jehovah's Witnesses attracted the especial enmity of the Nazis. . . . By 1939 there were 6,000 of them in the [concentration camps]." Even so, despite the bitter persecution they endured, adds the author, the Witnesses showed "dependability and equanimity [calmness under stress]" as well as "integrity and solidarity."


More recently, observers in South Africa noticed similar attractive qualities among God's people.  At one time, Witnesses of different skin color in that country could not freely associate with one another. However, on Sunday, December 18, 2011, it was a wonderful sight to see over 78,000 of our brothers of different races from South Africa and neighboring countries packed into the largest stadium in the city of Johannesburg to enjoy a spiritual program.  In commenting on those gathered, one of the managers of the stadium said: "This is the best-behaved crowd I have ever seen in this stadium. All are neatly dressed. And you people have cleaned the stadium so nicely. But most of all, you are truly multiracial."


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