What Is the Best Gift of All? -Continue with The Quest for the Best Gift

The recipient's desires.  A man in Belfast Northern Island, called a racing bike he received when he was 10 or 11 years old the best present ever.  Why?  "Because I really wanted it, he explained.  That remark reveals that it is a person's desire has much to do with whether he will cherish a gift or not.  So think about the person to whom you intend to give a gift.  Try to identify what he may value, because a person's values often influence his desires.  For example, grandparents as frequently as possible.  A family vacation including the grandparents would likely be more appreciated than any other gift for them.

A key to being aware of a person's desires is to be a good listener. The Bible encourages us to "be quick to listen, slow to speak."  (James 1:19)  As you engage in everyday conversation with your friends or relatives, listen closely for clues that indicate their likes and dislikes.  Then you may be in a better position to give a gift that they will enjoy.

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