WHAT IS THE BEST GIFT OF ALL? -The Quest for the Best Gift

Coming up with what might be considered the ideal for someone is not any easy task .  After all, the value of the gift will be determined by the receiver.  And what one recipient considers best might not be so for another.

For instance, a teenager may feel that the latest electronic gadget would be a perfect gift.  And adult, on the other hand, my deeply treasure receiving a gift of sentimental value, such as a family heirloom. In some cultures, the preferred gift for young and old  alike is money, allowing the receiver to use it for whatever he or she wants. 

Despite the challenge, many thoughtful individuals continue their quests for a gift most suitable for someone special.  While finding such a gift may not always be possible, keeping mind certain factors would likely increase the chances for success.  Let us consider four that can contribute to satisfaction on the part of the receiver. 

The recipient's desires.  A man in Belfast, Northern Ireland, called a racing bike he received when he was 10 or 11 years old the best present ever. Why?  "Because I really wanted it," he explained.  That remark reveals that a person's desire has much to do with whether he will cherish a gift or not.  So think  about the person to whom you intend to give a gift.  Try to identify what he may value, because a person's values often influence his desires.  For example, grandparents often value spending time with family.  They may desire to see their children and grandchildren as frequently as possible.  A family vacation including the grandparents would likely be more appreciated than any other gift for them.

A key to being aware of a person' desires is to be  a good listener.  The Bible encourages us to "be quick to listen, slow to speak."  (James 1:19) As you engage in everyday conversation with your friends or relatives, listen closely for clues that indicate their likes and dislikes.  Then you may be in a better position to give a gift that they will enjoy. 

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