The Answer - Conclusion

 Modern-day critics may decry the conclusion to this test on M0unt Carmel. Some people may worry lest religious zealots use it to justify violent acts of religious intolerance. And sadly, there are many violent religious fanatics today. However, Elijah was no fanatic. He was acting on Jehovah's behalf in a just execution. Furthermore, genuine Christians know that they cannot follow Elijah's course in taking a sword to the wicked. Rather, they follow the standard for all disciple of Jesus as found in Christ's words to Peter: "Return your sword to its place, for all who take the sword will perish by the sword." (Matthew 26:52) Jehovah will use his Son to carry out divine justice in the future.

The responsibility of a true Christian is to lead a life of faith. (John 3:16) One way to do so is to imitate faithful men like Elijah. He worshipped Jehovah exclusively and urged others to do the same. He boldly exposed as fraudulent a religion that Satan uses to lure people away from Jehovah. And he trusted Jehovah to settle matters instead of relying on his own abilities and will. Elijah stood up for pure worship. May all of us imitate his faith!

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The Answer - Continue

Before Elijah's prayer, the crowds there might have wondered if Jehovah would turn out to be an empty lie, as Baal had proved to be. After the prayer, though, there was no time for wondering. The account says: "At that the fire of Jehovah came falling and went eating up the burnt offering and the pieces of wood and the stones and the dust, and the water that was in the trench was licked up." (1 Kings 18:38) What a spectacular answer! And how did the people respond?

"Jehovah is the true God! Jehovah is the true God!" they cried out, all of them. (1 Kings 18:39) At last they saw the truth. However, they had not as yet shown any faith. Frankly, to admit that Jehovah is the true God after seeing the fire fall from heaven in response to a prayer is not an impression demonstration of faith. So Elijah asked more of them to do what they should have done many years earlier-obey the Law of Jehovah. God's Law said that false prophets and idolaters should be put to death. (Deuteronomy 13:5-9) These Baal priests were committed enemies of Jehovah God, and they deliberately worked against his purposes. Did they deserve mercy? Well, what mercy had they ever granted to all those innocent children who were burned alive as sacrifices to Baal?  (Read Proverbs 21:13, Jeremiah 19:5) Those men were well beyond the reach of mercy! So Elijah ordered that they be executed, and executed they were. - 1 KINGS 18:40. 

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CHAPTER TEN/He Stood Up for Pure Worship - The Answer

 Late in the afternoon came Elijah's turn to offer a sacrifice. He repaired an altar to Jehovah that been torn down, no doubt by the enemies of pure worship. He used 12 stones, perhaps reminding many in the 10-tribe nation of Israel that the Law given to all 12 tribes was still binding on them. Then he laide out his sacrifice and had everything doused with water, possibly obtained from the Mediterranean Sea nearby. He even had a trench dug around the altar and filled it with water. Just as he had given the prophets of Baal every advantage, he gave Jehovah every disadvantage-such was his confidence in his God. -1 KINGS 18:30-35. 

When everything was ready, Elijah said a prayer. Eloquent in its simplicity, the prayer showed clearly where Elijah's priorities lay. First and foremost, he wanted it known Jehovah, not this Baal, was "God in Israel." Second, he wanted everyone to know that his own role was that of Jehovah's servant; all glory should go to God.  Finally, he showed that he still cared about his people, for he was eager to see Jehovah turn "their heart back." (1 Kings 18:36, 37) Despite all the misery that they had caused by their faithlessness, Elijah still loved them. In our own prayers to God, can we manifest similar humility, concern for God's name, and compassion for others who need help?  

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A Climatic Test -Conclusion

 The Baal prophets proceeded to set up their sacrifice and call on their god. "O Baal, answer us!" they cried again and again. They kept at it as the minutes and then the hours passed by. "But there was not voice, and there was no one answering," the Bible says. At noon Elijah began to mock them, that he was relieving himself in the privy, or that he was napping and someone needed to wake him up. "Call at the top of your voice," Elijah urged those charlatans. Clearly, he saw this Baal worship as ridiculous fakery, and he wanted God's people to see it for the fraud it was. -1 KINGS 18:26, 27. 

In response, the Baal priests became even more frenzied," calling at the top of their voice and cutting themselves according to their custom with daggers and with lances, until they caused blood to flow out upon them." All to no avail! There was no voice, and there was no one answering, and there was no one paying attention." (1 Kings 18:28, 29) Indeed there was no Baal. He was an invention designed by Satan to lure people away from Jehovah. The truth is, choosing any master other than Jehovah leads to disappointment, even shame. -Read PSALM 25:3; 115:4-8.

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CHAPTER TEN/He Stood Up for Pure Worship - A Climatic Test

 Elijah next purposed a test. It was simplicity itself. The Baal priests were to set up an altar and lay out a sacrifice on it; then they were to pray to their god to light the fire. Elijah would do the same. He said that the "God that answers by fire is the true God."  Elijah well knew who was the true God. So strong was his faith that he did not hesitate to give his opponents every advantage. He let those Baal prophets go first. So they chose their bull for sacrifice and approached Baal. - 1 KINGS 18:24, 25. 

We do not live in an age of miracles. However, Jehovah has not changed. We can be just as confident in him as Elijah was. For instance, when others disagree with the Bible teaches, we need to not to fear to let them go ahead and have their say. Like Eijah, we can look to the true God to settle the matter. We do that by relying, not on ourselves, but his inspired Word, which is designed "for setting things straight." - 2 TIMOTHY 3:16.

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CHAPTER TEN/ He Stood Up for Pure Worship - "Limping"-How?

 The heights of Mount Carmel commanded a sweeping view-from the torrent valley of Kishon below to the Great Sea (Mediterranean Sea) nearby and to the mountains of Lebanon on the far northern horizon. But as the sun rose on this climatic day, the vista was grim. A deathly pall hung over the onee fertile land that Jehovah had given to the children of Abraham. It was now a land baked hard by the merciless sun, ruined by the folly of God's own people! As those people thronged, Elijah approached and spoke: "How long will you be limping upon two different opinions? If Jehovah is the true God, go following him; but if Baal is, go following him." " - 1KINGS 18:21.

What did Elijah mean by the expression "limping upon two different opinions"? Well, those people did not realize that they had to choose between the worship of Jehovah and the worship of Baal. They thought that they could have it both ways-that they could appease Baal with their revolting rituals and still ask favors of Jehovah God. Perhaps they reasoned that Baal would bless their crops and herds, while "Jehovah of armies" would protect them in battle. (1 Samual 17:45) They had forgotten a basic truth-one that still eludes many today. Jehovah does not share his worship with anyone. He demands and is worthy of exclusive devotion. Any worship of him that is mixed with some other form of worship is unacceptable to him, even offensive! - Read EXODUS 29:5.

So those Israelites were "limping" along like a man trying to follow two pathways at once. Many people today make a similar mistake, allowing other "Baals" to creep into their life and push aside the worship of God. Heeding Elijah's clarion call to stop limping can help us reexamine our own priorities and worship.

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Long Struggle Reaches a Climax - Conclusion

 What made Baal worship so offensive? It seduced Israel into luring many away from the true God. It was also a disgusting and brutal religion. It involved male and female temple prostitution, sexual orgies, and even the sacrifice of children. Jehovah responded by sending Elijah to Ahab to announce a drought that would last until God's prophet proclaimed its end. (1 Kings 17:1) Several years passed before Elijah showed himself to Ahab and told him to gather the people and the Baal prophets to Mount Carmel.

What, though, does this struggle mean for us today? Some might assume that a story about Baal worship is irrelevant now, since we do not see temples and altars to Baal around us. But this account is not mere ancient history. (Romans 15:4) The word "Baal" means "owner" or "master." Jehovah told his people that they should choose him as their "baal," or husbandly owner. (Isaiah 54:5) Would you not agree that people still serve a variety of masters other than God Almighty? Whether people use their life in the service of money, career, recreation, sexual pleasure, or any other of the countless gods that are worshipped instead of Jehovah, they choose a master. (Matthew 6:24; Read Romans 6:16.) In a sense, the, potent elements that characterize Baal worship are thriving today. Reflecting on that ancient contest between Jehovah and Baal can help us make a wise choice about whom we serve. 

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CHAPTER TEN/He Stood Up for Pure Worship -A Long Struggle Reaches a Climax

 For much of his life, Elijah had helplessly watched as the best thing about his homeland and his people were pushed aside and trampled underfoot. You see, Israel was in the grip of a long struggle, a war between pure religion and false, between the worship of Jehovah God and idolatry of the surrounding nations. In Elijah's day, the struggle had taken an especially ugly turn. 

King Ahab had deeply offended Jehovah. He married Jezebel, the daughter of the king Sidon, Jezebel was determined to spread Baal worship in the land of Israel and to eradicate the worship of Jehovah.  Ahab quickly fell under her influence. He built a temple and an altar to Baal and took the lead in bowing down to this pagan god. - 1 KINGS 16:30-33. 

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CHAPTER TEN/He Stood Up for Pure Worship -A Long Struggle Reaches a Climax

 Ahead of that solitary prophet lay a day like no other in his life. As Elijah watched, the stage was being set for one of the most dramatic confrontations between good and evil that the world has ever seen. How did he feel as that day dawned? He was not impervious to fear, being "a man with feelings like ours." (Read James 5:17.) We can be sure, at least of this much: Surrounded by faithless people, their apostate king, and those murderous priests, Elijah keenly felt that he was all alone. - 1 KINGS 18:22.

What, though, had brought Israel to this crisis? And what does this account have to do with you? Consider Elijah's example of faith and how practical it can be for us today.

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CHAPTER TEN/He Stood Up for Pure Worship

 ELIJAH looked out over the crowd as they trudged up the slopes of Mount Carmel. Even in the dim light of early morning, the poverty and want afflicting these people were plain to see. The drought, three and a half years long, had left its mark on them. 

Among them strutted the 450 prophets of Baal, full of pride and burning hatred for Elijah, Jehovah's prophet. Queen Jezebel had executed many servants of Jehovah, but this man stood firm against Baal worship. Ah, for how long? Perhaps those priests reasoned that a lone man could never prevail against all of them. (1 Kings 18:4, 19, 20) King Ahab had also come, riding in his royal chariot. He too bore no love for Elijah. 

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She Acted With Discretion - "Here Is Your Slave Girl" -

Besides the release of a bad marriage, Abigail had another blessing in store. When he learned of the death of Nabal, David sent messengers to propose marriage. "Here is your slave girl," she responded, "as a maidservant to wash the feet of the servants of my lord." Clearly, she was not changed by the prospect of becoming David's wife, she even offered to be a servant to his servants! Then we read again of her hastening, this time to ready herself to go to David. - 1 SAMUEL 25:39-42.

This was no fairy-tale ending: Abigail's life with David would always be easy. David was already married to Ahinoam, and though God permitted polygamy, it surely presents special challenges to faithful women back then. And David was not yet king; there would be obstacles and hardships to surmount before he served Jehovah in that way. But as Abigail helped and supported Davide along life's road, eventually bearing him a son, she learned that she had a husband who valued her and protected her. On one occasion he even rescued her from kidnappers! (1 Samuel 30:1-19) David thus imitated Jehovah God, who loves and values such discreet, courageous, and faithful women. 

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She Acted With Discretion -"Here Is Your Slave Girl"

 After she took her leave, Abigail could not help thinking about that meeting; nor could have failed to notice the contrast between that faithful, kind man and the brute to who she was married. But she did not dwell on such thoughts. We read: "Later Abigail came into Nabal." Yes, she returned to her husband as determined as ever to carry out her role as his wife to the best of her ability. She had to tell him of the gift she had given to David and his men.  He had a right to know. She also had to tell him-before he learned of it elsewhere, to his even greater shame-about the danger that had been averted. She could not tell him though. He was feasting like a king and was as drunk as could be. - 1 Samuel 25:36. 

Again showing both courage and discretion, she waited until the next morning when the influence of the wine had ebbed. He would be sober enough to understand her, yet possibly more dangerous in his temper as well. Still, she approached and told him the whole story. No doubt she expected him to explode in fury, perhaps violence. Instead, he just sat there, not moving. - 1 SAMUEL 25:37.  

What was wrong with the man? "His heart came to be dead inside of him, and he himself became as a stone." Perhaps he had suffered a stroke. However, about ten days later, his end came and not strictly for medical reasons. The account tells us: "Jehovah struck Nabal, so that he died." (1 Samuel 25:38) With that righteous execution, Abigail's long nightmare of a marriage was over. While Jehovah does not step in with miraculous executions today, this account is a fitting reminder that no case of domestic tyranny or abuse escapes his notice. In his own time, he will always bring about justice. - Read LUKE 8:17.

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She Acted With Discretion - "Blessed Be Your Sensibleness" - Conclusion

 She too responsibility for the problem and asked David to forgive her personally. She realistically acknowledged that her husband was senseless as his name implied, perhaps suggesting that it would be beneath David's dignity to chastise such a man. She expressed her trust in David as Jehovah's representative, recognizing that he was fighting "the wars of Jehovah." She also indicated that she knew of Jehovah's promise regarding David and the kingship, for she said: "Jehovah . . . will certainly commission you as leader over Israel." Further, she urged David not to take any action that might bring bloodguilt upon him or that might "might become "a cause for staggering"-evidently referring to a troubled conscience. (Read 1 Samuel 25:24-31.) Kind, moving words! 

And how did David respond? He accepted what Abigail had brought and said: "Blessed be Jehovah the God of Israel, who has sent you this day to meet me! And blessed be your sensibleness and blessed be you who have restrained me this day from entering into bloodguilt." David praised her for bravely hastening to meet him, and he acknowledged that he had restrained him from incurring bloodguilt. "Go up in peace to your house," he told her, and humbly added: "I have listened to your voice." - 1 SAMUEL 25:32-35. 

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She Acted With Discretion - "Blessed Be Your Sensibleness"

 Abigail thought and acted quickly. "At once Abigail hastened," we read. Four times in this one account we find the same verb, "to hasten," used regarding this woman. She prepared a generous gift for David and his men. It included wine, sheep, roasted grain, cakes of raisins, and cakes of figs. Clearly, Abigail knew well what she had was thoroughly in charge of her household responsibilities, much like the capable wife later described the book of Proverbs. (Proverbs 31:10-31) She sent provisions ahead with some of her servants, then followed alone. "But, we read, "to her husband she told nothing." - 1 SAMUEL 25:18, 19. 

Does this mean that Abigail was rebelling against her husband's rightful headship? No; keep in mind that Nabal had acted wickedly against an anointed servant of Jehovah, an action that could well result in death for many innocent members of Nabal's household. If Abigail failed to act, might she become a sharer on her husband's guilt? In this case, she had to put submission to her God ahead of submission to her husband. 

Before long, Abigail met up with David and his men. Again, she hastened, this time to descend from her donkey and humble herself before David. (1 Samuel 25:20, 23) Then she poured out her heart at length, making a powerful plea for mercy in behalf of her husband and her household. What made her words effective? 

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"He Screamed Rebukes at Them" - Conclusion

 He was outraged! "He screamed rebukes at them" is how the  young man mentioned at the outset described the scene to Abigail. Miserly Nabal complained loudly about his precious bread, water, and slaughtered meat. He ridiculed David as inconsequential and compared him to a runaway servant. Nabal's view may have been similar to that of Saul, who hated David. Neither man had Jehovah's view. God loved David and saw him, not as a rebellious slave, but as the future king of Israel. -  1 SAMUEL 25:10, 11, 14.

When the emissaries reported back to David, he became furious. "Gird on everyone his sword!" he commanded. Arming himself, David led 400 men to attack. He vowed to wipe out every male in Nabal's household. (1 Samuel 25:12, 13, 21, 22) David's ire was understandable, but his way of expressing it was wrong. The Bible says: "Man's wrath does not work out God's righteousness. (James 1:20) How, though, could Abigail save her household?

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She Acted With Discretion -"He Screamed Rebukes at Them" - Continue

 How did those hardworking soldiers treat the shepherds? It would have been easy for them to help themselves to a sheep now and then, but they did nothing of the kind. On the contrary, they were like a protective wall around Nabal's flocks and servants. (Read 1 Samuel 25:15,16.) Sheep and shepherds faced plenty of dangers. Predators abounded, and Israel's southern border was so close that bands of foreign maraude4rs and thieves frequently attacked. 

It must have been quite an undertaking to keep all those men fed in the wilderness. So one day David sent ten messengers to Nabal to ask for help. Chose the moment wisely. It was the festive time of sheepshearing, when generosity and feasting were customary. David also chose his words with care, using polite forms of address. He even referred to himself as "your son David," perhaps a respectful acknowledgement of Nabal's greater age. How did Nabal respond? - 1 SAMUEL 25:5-8.

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She Acted With Discretion - "He Screamed Rebukes at Them"

 Nabal had just made Abigail's situation harder than ever.  The man he had insulted was none other than David. This was the faithful servant of Jehovah whom Samuel the prophet had anointed, revealing David as God's choice to succeed Saul as king. (1 Samuel 16:1, 211-13) On the run from the jealous and murderous Kind Saul, David was dwelling in the wilderness with his 600 loyal warriors.

Nabal live in Mao but worked and likely owned land in nearby Carmel. Those towns lay amidst grassy uplands suitable for raising sheep, of which Nabal owned 3,000. All around, though, was wild country. To the south lay the vast wilderness of Paran. To the east, the approach to the Salt Sea through desolate wastelands riddled with ravines and caves. In these regions David and his men struggled to survive, no doubt hunting for their food and enduring many hardships. They often encountered the young men who worked as shepherds for the wealthy Nabal. 

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She Acted With Discretion- "Good in Discretion and Beautiful in Form"

 Some today might wonder why such an intelligent young woman married such a good-for-nothing man. Remember, many marriages in Bible times were arranged. If not, parental consent was still of great importance. Did Abigail's parents favor this marriage, even arrange it, because they were impressed with Nabal's wealth and prominence? Did they feel pressured by poverty? At any rate, Nabal's money did not make him a fit husband.

Wise parents carefully teach their children a wholesome view of marriage. They neither urge their children to marry for money nor pressure them to begin dating when still too young to take on adult roles and responsibilities. (1 Corinthians 7:6) However, it was too late for Abigail to think about such things. For whatever reason, she was married to Nabal, and she was determined to make the beset of a difficult situation.

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She Acted With Discretion -"Good in Discretion and Beautiful in Form"

 Abigail and Nabal were not a good match. Nabal could hardly have chosen a better spouse, whereas Abigail found herself married to one who could hardly have been worse. Granted, the man had money. He thus saw himself as very important, but how did others view him? It would be difficult to find a Bible character who is spoken of in more than contemptuous terms. His very name means "Senseless," or "Stupid." Did his parents give him such a name at birth, or was it an epithet that stuck to him later? In either case, he lived up to his name. Nabal was "harsh and bad in his practices." A bully and a drunkard, he was widely feared and disliked. - 1 SAMUEL 25:2, 3, 17, 21,25.

Abigail was altogether different from Nabal.  Her name means "My Father Has Made Himself Joyful." Many a father is proud to have a beautiful daughter, but a wise father is far happier to discern inner beauty in his child. All too often, a person blessed with outward beauty fails to see the need to develop such qualities as discretion, wisdom, courage, or faith. No so with Abigail. The Bible praises her for her discretion as well as for her beauty. -Read 1 SAMUEL 25:3. 

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She Acted With Discretion

 ABIGAIL saw the panic in the young man's eyes. He was terrified-and for good reason. Grave danger loomed. Right at that moment, some 400 warriors were on the way, determined to kill off every male in the household of Nabal, Abigail's husband. Why?

It had all started with Nabal. He had acted cruelly and insolently, as usual. This time, though, he had insulted the wrong man-the beloved commander of a loyal well-trained band of warriors. Now, one of Nabal's young workmen, perhaps a shepherd, came to Abigail, trusting that she would come up with a plan to save them. But what could one woman do against an army? 

First, let us lean a little more about this remarkable woman. Who was Abigail? How had this crisis arisen? And what can we learn from her example?

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Where Can You Find Reliable Guidance Today?

 In our rapidly changing world, how can you be certain that the choices you make will result in good? How can you be sure that what is considered right today won't be considered wrong tomorrow?

The Bible can help you make choices that you will never regret. How is that possible? The Bible is from our Creator, and he know what will make us truly happy and secure.

"He has told you . . .what is good." -MICAH 6:8.

We can trust the practical wisdom found in the Bible. It is "always reliable, now and forever." - PSALM 111:8.

Why not examine for yourself how the Bible can help you in this ever-changing world?

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Right and Wrong: Guidance That Works - Conclusion

 BIBLE GUIDANCE WORKS: A woman in Australia named Kylie says: "As a single person, I thought if I had sex, I would then feel loved and secure. But the opposite happened. I felt insecure and heartbroken."

Later, Kylie learned and applied what the Bible teaches about sex. "I can see that God's standards are there to prevent pain and hurt," she says. "I can now feel secure and loved because of doing things in the way Jehovah wants us to. Applying the Bible's guidance has saved me from so much heartache!" 

For more information, read the article "What Does the Bible Say About Living A Together Without Marriage?" on jw.org.

Our Creator helps us to know what is right and wrong. Although sticking to moral guidelines is not always easy, it worth the effort. We can trust that it will always result in our long-term happiness. 

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4. Sex

People have a wide variety of opinions on what is sexually acceptable. 

THE BIBLE SAYS: "Abstain from sexual immorality. Each one of you should know how to control his own body in holiness and honor, not with greedy, uncontrolled sexual passion like the nations have that do not know God." - 1 THESSALONIANS 4:3-5.

Meaning: The Bible limits how we are to express our sexual desires. The term "sexual immorality" includes adultery, prostitution, homosexuality, and bestiality. (1 Corinthians 6:9, 10) Sexual relations are a gift from God that he intended exclusively for a man and woman who are married to each other. - PROVERBS 5:18, 19.  

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 BIBLE GUIDANCE WORKS: Cardo, a man in Indonesia, focused on acquiring wealth. "I enjoyed what most people dream of," he said. "I was ablet to travel and to buy luxury goods, cars, and houses." Such prosperity did not last. "I was defrauded, and the money I had worked so hard for all those years was gone in the blink of an eye," says Cardo. "I had spent my life pursuing wealth, but in the end, all I got were feelings of emptiness, worthlessness, and disappointment." 

Cardo began to apply the Bible's advice on money. He no longer focuses on his energy on building wealth but chooses to lead a simpler life. "The true and lasting treasure is of a spiritual natural," he says. "I can sleep every night, and I am truly happy."

For more information on the Bible's view of money, read the article "Can Education and Money Guarantee a Secure Future?" In the Watchtower no. 3 2021, on jw.org. 

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 3. Money

Many people pursue wealth in order to be happy and have a better future. 

THE BIBLE SAYS: "Wisdom is a protection just as money is a protection, but the advantage of knowledge is this: Wisdom preserves the life of its owner. - ECCLESIASTES 7:12.

Meaning: We need money, but it cannot guarantee our happiness or our future. (Proverbs 18:11; 23:4, 5) Instead, genuine happiness and a secure future depend on applying wisdom from God as found in the Bible. - 1 TIMOTHY 6:17-19. 

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BIBLE GUIDANCE WORKS:  Daniel was taught to view people from Asia as a threat to his country. He came to hate anyone from an Asian background and would often insult them in public. "I justified my behavior as 'patriotism,"' says Daniel. "I didn't even consider that the way I thought or acted was wrong."

Daniel eventually learned what the Bible teaches. "I had to change my thinking totally," says Daniel. "I had to see people the way God does-that we are all the same no matter when we come from." Daniel describes how he feels now when he meets people. He says: "I often don't even think about where they are from. I love people of all sorts now and have close friends from all over the world." 

For more information, read Awake! No. 3 2020 entitled "Is There a Cure for Prejudice?" on jw.org. 

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 2. How to Treat Others

People often mistreat others because of their race, nationality, appearance, religion, or sexual orientation.

THE BIBLE SAYS: "Honor men of all sorts." - 1 PETER 2:17. 

Meaning: The Bible does not condone racism, homophobia, or xenophobia. Instead, it encourages us to be respectful of all people, regardless of their race, nationality, or social standing. (Acts 10:34) Even if we disagree with what others believe or how they act, we can still treat them with kindness and respect. - MATTHEW 7:12.

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 Meaning: Marriage is an arrangement between man and woman that God originated, so that he knows what is needed for a couple to be happy. (Mark 10:6, 9) Happiness results when marriage mates focus, not on what each one gets, but on each one can strengthen their marriage.  A husband loves who loves his wife will show it by the way he treats her and cares for her.  And a wife who respects her husband will show it by the way she speaks and acts.

BIBLE GUIDANCE THAT WORKS: Quang and Thi, from Vietnam, felt trapped in their unhappy marriage. Quang was often unkind. He says: "I didn't care about Thi's feelings and often humiliated her." Thi wanted a divorce. She said: "I felt I could no longer trust or respect my husband."

Eventually, Quang and Thi learned what the Bible teaches and how to apply Ephesians 5:33 in their marriage.  "This verse helped me to see the need to be kind," says Quang, "and to make Thi feel loved and cared for materially, physically, and emotionally. When I act that way, I gain her love and respect." And Thi says: "The more I apply Ephesians 5:33 and show my husband respect, the more he makes me feel loved, protected, and at peace." 

For more information on marriage, read Awake! No. 2 2018, entitled "12 Secrets of Successful Families" on jw.org. 

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Right and Wrong: Guidance That Works

 Consider four areas of life in which millions have learned that the Bible's guidance works and can be trusted.

1. Marriage

People have different views about marriage and about what it takes to have a happy marriage.

THE BIBLE SAYS: 

"Each one of you must live his wife as he does himself; on the other hand, the wife should have deep respect for her husband." -EPHESIANS 5:33. 

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Right and Wrong: THE BIBLE'S TIMELESS WISDOM

 Although the Bible was completed almost 2,000 years ago, it continues to be relevant today. Basic human nature has not changed-we still seek fulfillment and happiness in life.  (Ecclesiastes 1:9) The Bible's timeless wisdom can help us to reach that goal.

Honesty

. "We wish to conduct ourselves honestly in al things." - HEBREWS 13:18. 

. "Let the one who steals steal no more; rather, rather let him do hard work." - EPHESIANS 4:28. 

Relationships

. "Let each one keep seeking, not his own advantage, but that of the other person." -1 CORINTHIANS 10:24.

. "Continue putting up with one another and forgiving one another freely." - COLOSSIANS 3:13. 

Making Decisions

. "The naive person believes every word, but the shrewd one ponders each step." - PROVERBS. - 14:15.

. "The shrewd one sees the danger and conceals himself, but inexperienced keep right on going and suffer the consequences." - PROVERBS 22:3. 

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right and Wrong: HOW THE BIBLE REVEALS GOD'S GUIDANCE

 The Bible is an accurate record of Jehovah's dealings with humankind. What it contains helps us to discern what God views as right and wrong, beneficial and harmful. (Psalm 19:7, 11) We learn timeless principles that help us to make moral choices in our daily lives.

For example, consider the advice found at Proverbs 13:20: "The one walking with the wise, will become wise, but the one who has dealings with the stupid fair badly." That principle is just as applicable in our modern world as it was in ancient times. The Bible is full of such practical and valuable principles. - See the box "The Bible's Timeless Wisdom."

But you may wonder, 'How can I be sure that the Bible's moral guidance works today?' The next article will consider some real-life examples.

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Right and Wrong: WHY SOME PEOPLE DISMISS THE BIBLE - Conclusion

 Objection: "The Bible promotes an intolerant view of others."

Fact: The Bible encourages treating other people with respect. It does not condone. . .

. considering oneself to be superior to others. - PHILIPPIANS 2:3. 

. disrespecting people who have different values or beliefs. - 1 PETER 2:17. 

. forcing others to adopt one's views. - MATTHEW 10:14. 

The Bible always shows that God always treats people kindly and fairly and that God wants us to do the same. ROMANS 9:14,

For more information, read the article "Tolerance-How the Bible Can Help" on jw.org. 

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Right and Wrong: WHY SOME PEPOPLE DISMISS THE BIBLE -Continue

 Objection:  "People who claim to follow the Bible do bad things, so it must not be a good moral guide."

Fact: The Bible is not to blame for the bad conduct of those who do not apply its teachings. It foretold that many people-including religious leaders-who claim to follow the Bible would act contrary to what it says. It also says that as a result, Bible teachings would be "spoken of abusively." - 2 PETER 2:1, 2.

For one example of the ways many religious leaders have strayed from what the Bible really teaches, read the article "Is Religion Just Another Big Business?" on jw.org. 

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Right and Wrong: WHY SOME DISMISS THE BIBLE

 Some people claim that the Bible cannot be a good source for moral guidance. They may raise the following questions.

Objection: "The Bible contradicts itself." 

Fact: The relatively few passages that may appear contradictory can be resolve by taking into account the context, historical facts and customs, the writer's viewpoint, and other factors. 

Note: The writers in the Bible are God's apostles, prophets that take down God's Word.  Each one may say the same thing in a different manner, but sound contradictory, but it isn't, it is the writer putting in the Bible in his words that mean the same and as well as the above. Either way they were all Christians who did God's bidding, not strangers and make sure there are no mistakes in the Bible. 

To see some specific examples, read the article "Are There Contradictions in the Bible?" on jw.org. 

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Right and Wrong: A BOOK FOR ALL PEOPLE

 We would expect a wise and loving Creator to make his moral guidance available to everyone. Consider these facts about the Bible:

. 3,500+The number of languages in which at least a portion of the Bible is available, making it the most widely translated book ever.

. 5,000,000,000+The number of copies of the Bible that have been produced, making it the most widely distributed book in history. 

The Bible does not exalt one race, nation or tribe, or culture over another. It truly is a book for all people. 

Read the Bible online (available in over 250 languages) on jw.org 

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Right and Wrong: THE GUIDANCE WE NEED -Continue

 Jehovah gave the first man and woman, Adam and Eve, everything they needed to be truly happy. (Genesis 1:28, 29; 2:8, 15) He also gave them simple instructions that he expected them to obey. However, he let them choose for themselves whether they would follow those instructions or not. (Genesis 2:9, 16, 17) Sadly Adam and Eve chose to live by their own standards rather than God's standards. (Genesis 3:6) What has been the result. Is the human family better off deciding for themselves what is right and wrong? No. History proves that ignoring God's standards does not bring everlasting peace and happiness.

The Bible provides the guidance we need in order to make wise moral choices, regardless of our background. (2 Timothy 3:16, 17; see the box "A book for All People.") Consider how the Bible does this. 

Learn more about why the Bible can rightly be called "the word of God." - 1 THESSALONIANS 2:13. Watch the video "Who Is the Author of the Bible?

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Right and Wrong: The Bible-A Reliable Guide

 We cannot be sure that our moral choices will turn out well if we base them only on how we are other people feel. The Bible reveals why, but it also does more. It contains reliable moral guidance- the key to enjoying a happy and fulfilling life. 

GUIDANCE WE NEED

In the Bible, Jehovah God explains that he intended for humans to look to him for guidance, not to guide, or direct themselves. (Jeremiah 10:23) That is why he has provided the moral guidelines found in the Bible. He loves the human family and wants to spare us from experiencing the harmful consequences and frustration of making important life decisions based on trial and error. (Deuteronomy 5:29; 1 John 4:8) More than that, as our Creator, he has the wisdom and knowledge needed to give us the best possible moral advice. (Psalm 100:3; 104:24) Yet, God never forces people to live by his standards. 

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Right and Wrong: IS THERE A BETTER WAY?

 When we decide between right and wrong, our feelings and the feelings of others play a double role. But that guidance alone does not always lead to a good outcome. We can become victims of our own shortsightedness, failing to see the harm that our choices may cause us or to others. (Proverbs 14:12) And there is no guarantee that our values or the values of those around us are truly good for us and will not need to change. After all, certain behavior once viewed as wrong is ow commonly accepted, while conduct previously thought of as acceptable is now viewed as improper. 

Is there a better guide for deciding what is right and what is wrong? Is there a moral standard we can follow today that will not leave us disappointed years from now?

Thankfully, there is a source for consistent and reliable moral guidance that works for everyone everywhere. The next article will discuss where we can find the most reliable guide for determining right and wrong.

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Right and Wrong: HOW OTHER PEOPLE FEEL - Continue

 In addition to our own feelings, we often guided by how others will view our decisions. That can allow us to benefit from their experience and wisdom. We win the respect of our family, friends, and community when we do what they think is right.

Is how other people feel always a reliable guide? As a young woman, Priscilla did was popular among her peers and freely engaged in premarital sex. She found, though, that doing what others view is right did not make her happier. She said: "Doing what everyone else was doing didn't make me feel good. It led me to take unwise and careless risks."

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