Conclusion of "A Time To Embrace And A Time To Keep Away From Embracing

Some Christians "keep away from embracing" by choosing to remain single for the sake of the good news. (Ecclesiastes 3:5) Others postpone marriage until they feel that they are spiritually qualified to attract a fitting mate. But let us also remember those single Christians who yearn for the intimacies and benefits of marriage and yet fail to find a partner. We can be sure that Jehovah rejoices over their refusal to compromise divine principles in their pursuit of marriage. We also do well to appreciate their loyalty and to offer them the appropriate support that they deserve.

Should even married couples occasionally "keep away from embracing"? "This I say, brothers, the time left is reduced. Henceforth let those who have wives be as though they had none." (1 Corinthians 7:29) Accordingly,the joys and blessings of marriage must at times take a backseat to theocratic responsibilities., A balanced view of this matter will not weaken a marriage but strengthen it because it helps to remind both partners that Jehovah must always be the central stabilizing figure in their relationship. -Ecclesiastes 4:12.

Additionally, some married couples have refrained from having children in order to be freer to carry on their service to God. This has meant sacrifice on their part, and Jehovah will reward them accordingly. Incidentally, whereas the Bible encourages singleness for the sake of the good news, it makes not direct comment on remaining childless for the same reason. (Matthew 19:10-12; 1 Corinthians 7:38; compare Matthew 24:19 and Luke 23:28-30.) Thus, married couples must make their own decision on the basis of personal circumstances and their own conscientious feelings. Whatever that decision may be, married couples are not to be criticized.

Yes, "for everything there is an appointed time, even a time for every affair under the heavens." There is even "a time for war and a time for peace." (Ecclesiastes 3:1-8) The next article will explain why it is important for us to determine for which of the two it is now the time.

Next time: "A Time For Peace" Is At Hand!

Watchtower, 1999