A Proper View of Mistakes - PRINCIPLES THAT CAN HELP REDUCE MISTAKES

Mistakes arise from "faulty judgment, inadequate knowledge, or inattention," explains one dictionary.  We have to admit that at one time, or another, every person displays one of more of those traits. Nevertheless, mistakes will be fewer if we consider some fundamental principles in the Scriptures.

One such principle is found in at Proverbs 18:13, which reads:  "When anyone replies to a matter before he hears the facts, it is foolish and humiliating."  Yes, taking a few extra moments or hear things out and consider your response will surely  help to prevent you from speaking rashly or reacting impulsively .  The knowledge gained by paying close attention is invaluable in averting faulty judgment-and avoiding a mistake.

Another Bible principle says:  "If possible, as far as it depends on you, be peaceable with all men."  (Romans 12:18)  Do your best to promote a spirit of peace and cooperation.  When working with others, be considerate and respectful and endeavor to commend and encourage them.  In such an atmosphere, thoughtless words and actions can easily be forgotten or overlooked, and more serious offenses can be amiably resolved or remedied.

Learn to turn a mistake itself into a positive experience.  Rather that looking for some excuse for what you said or did, see this an opportunity to develop positive qualities in yourself.  Do you perhaps need to show more patience, kindness, or self-control?  What about mildness, peace, and love?  (Galatians 5:22, 23) At the very least, you can learn what not to do the  next time. Without  being responsible, try not to take yourself too seriously.  A sense of of humor can surely help to diffuse tension. 

Next time: A Proper View of Mistakes - BENEFITING FROM A PROPER VIEW

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