Be Considerate and Kind in Imitation of Jehovah - BE CONSIDERATE IN THE FAMILY

Husbands should take the lead in being considerate of others in the family. (Ephesians 5:25; 6:24)  For example, they are exhorted to dwell with their wives" according to knowledge"-an expression that could also be rendered "showing them consideration; understanding them." (1 Peter 3:7) Understanding and consideration go hand in hand. For instance, an understanding husband knows that his wife, as his complement, is different from him in man respects, but she is by no means inferior.  (Genesis 2:18)  He thus shows thoughtful regard for her feelings, treating her with dignity and honor.  A wife in Canada said of her husband: "He never belittles my feelings or says, 'you should not feel that way.'  He is also a good listener.  When he helps me to adjust my viewpoint on a matter, he does o with kindness."

A thoughtful husband also takes his wife's feelings into account when he interacts with other women.  Never does he flirt with them or show improper interest in them; nor does he show such interest when he uses social media or the Internet.  (Job 31:1)  Yes, he remains loyal to his wife, not just because of his love for her but also because of his love for God and his hatred for what is bad. -Read Psalm 19:14; 97:10. 


When a husband looks to his head, Jesus Christ, as a role model, he helps his wife to cultivate "deep respect" for him.  (Ephesians 5:22-25, 33) Her respect, in turn, will move her to be considerate of her husband.  Perhaps when he has to devote extra time to theocratic responsibilities or when problems weigh on his mind.  "On occasion, my wife will discern from a change in my demeanor that something is bothering me," says a husband in Britain.  "Then she will apply the principle found at Proverbs 20:5, even when this means waiting for the right time to 'draw out' my thoughts if it is a matter that I am free to discuss with her."  

When parents show consideration for each other, they set a fine example for their children.  Parents, of course, have the primary responsibility to teach their children  how to be considerate of others.  For example, parents can teach them not to run around in the Kingdom Hall. At a social gathering, parents might their children to let older ones go ahead of them when lining up for food. Of course, all in the congregation can support the parents.  For example, when a child performs  opening door-we should commend the child.  Doing so can have  a good effect on the young one, impressing on his heart that there is m ore happiness in giving than there is in receiving." -Acts 20:35. 

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