What Is the Golden Rule?

Is the Golden Rule simply a matter of give-and-take?

No. The emphasis of the Golden Rule is on giving. When Jesus gave the Golden Rule, he was speaking about how to treat people in general  but even one's enemies.  (Luke 6:27-31, 35)  Thus the Golden Rule encourages people to do good to all.

How can you apply the Golden Rule?

1. Be observant.  Pay close attention to those around you.  For instance, you may see someone struggling to carry groceries, hear of a neighbor who is hospitalized, or notice that a workmate  is discouraged. When you "look out . . . for the interests of others," you will likely find opportunities to say or do something helpful. - Philiippians 2:4. 

2. Be empathetic.  Imagine yourself in the other person's place.  How would you feel if youy were in the same situation? (Romans 12:15)  When you try to understand the feeling of others, you may feel moved to help them. 

3. Be flexible.  Keep in mind that everyone is different.  What others would  like to have done for them may not be the same as what you would want to have done for you. So, out of the many things you could do, try to choose what they  will appreciate most. - 1 CORINTHIANS 10:24. 

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