"You Are Someone Very Precious"! - HOW TO SEE OURSELVES AS JEHOVAH SEES US

 Remember that Jehovah does not see you as the world does. (Read Samuel 16:7) He does not assess your worth based on your personal appearance, social status, or secular education. (Isaiah 55:8, 9) So instead of measuring our value according to the world's standards, evaluate your worth based on Jehovah's standards. You might read Bible accounts that show that Jehovah valued those who at times doubted their worth, such as Elijah, Naomi, and Hannah. You may also want to write down experiences you've had that confirm that Jehovah really loves and values you. Additionally, you can review information on the subject of self-worth found in our publications. 

Why Does Jehovah Value His People?

Jehovah created humans to be significantly different from the animals. He designed us to develop a meaningful relationship with him and become his friends. (Genesis 1:27; Psalm 8:5; 25:14; Isaiah 41:8) That fact alone gives us a basis to have a healthy measure of self-worth. However, we have an evcn greater basis if we seed to draw closer to Jehovah, dedicate ourselves to him. We then become truly precious to our God and Creator. - ISAIAH 49:15. 

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 Jesus invited Mary Magdalen to accompany him on his preaching tours. As a result, she continued to benefit when she heard him teaching others. Jesus also appeared to her on the very day he was resurrected. She was one of the first disciples he spoke to that day. Jesus even assigned her to inform his apostles that had been resurrected. What wonderful indications that she was truly precious to Jehovah! - JOHN 20:11-18. 

As may have been the case with Mary Magdalene, many today struggle with feelings of rejection. Lidia, a sister from Spain, says that before she was born, her mother was thinking of getting an abortion. Even as a toddler, Lidia remembers how her mother neglected her and verbally abused her. She says: "My goal in life was to be accepted and loved by others. I feared I would never deserve that love because my mother had convinced me that I was a bad person." 

After Lidia learned the truth, personal prayer and study as well as the kind words and actions of fellow Christians helped her to understand that she is precious in Jehovah's eyes. She says: "My husband often tells me how much he loves me. Time and again, he reminds me of my good qualities. Other dear friends have done the same." Can you think of someone who needs help to understand how precious he or she is in Jehovah's eyes? 

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  How did Maria receive help? When she became one Jehovah's Witnesses, fellow Christians comforted her and helped her to see herself as Jehovah does. She says: "There are not enough pages in my notebook to mention everyone who has helped me! I thank Jehovah with all my heart for giving me a wonderful spiritual family." Maria's spiritual brothers and sisters helped her to appreciate that she is precious in God's eyes.

Consider how Jesus helped another individual - Mary Magdalene. She was possessed by seven demons! (Luke 8:2) She probably acted in strange ways because of being under demonic influence and, as a result was avoided by others. During that wretched period of her life she must have felt rejected. insecure, and helpless. Jesus likely expelled the demons that afflicted her, and she became his devoted disciple. In what way did Jesus help Mary Magdalen to understand how precious she was to God? 

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 Jesus treated the woman with kindness and respect. He noticed that she was "frightened and trembling." (Mark 5:33) Mindful of her feelings, he spoke reassuringly to her. He even called her "daughter"-a term of endearment that was not merely polite but also kind and tender. (Read Mark 5:34.) The study note for this term states that this is "the only recorded instance in which Jesus directly addressed a woman as 'daughter,' perhaps because of her delicate condition and her 'trembling.' Imagine how relieved must have felt! Had Jesus not spoken reassuringly, she might have walked away physically cured but emotionally burdened with feelings of guilt. Instead, Jesus helped her to see herself as she truly was -a precious daughter of a loving heavenly Father. 

Today, too, some of God's servants are afflicted with health problems that affect them emotionally. Maria, a regular pioneer from Brazil, was born with physical defects that left her without lower limbs and her left hand. She explains: "I was constantly bullied at school because of my disability. I was given hurtful nicknames. I even faced prejudice from my own family." 

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 Jesus not only taught crowds of people but also gave attention to individuals. For example, during his Galilean ministry, Jesus met a woman who suffered from an abnormal flow of blood for 12 years. (Mark 5:25) Because he medical condition made her ceremonially unclean, anyone touching her would become unclean. This must have greatly limited her contact with people. Furthermore, she could not join others in the observances and celebrations of public worship. (Leviticus 15:19, 25) No doubt this woman suffered both physically and emotionally. - MARK 5:26.

This afflicted woman wanted Jesus to heal her. But she did not approach him directly. Why not? Perhaps she felt embarrassed or humiliated because of her condition. Or she might have feared that Jesus would reject her because she entered the crowd while being ceremonially unclean. So she merely touched his outer garment, convince that this jester alone would make her well. (Mark 5:27, 28) Her faith was rewarded-she was healed. Then Jesus asked who had touched him, and she confessed what she had done. How did Jesus treat her? 

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 During Jesus' third preaching tour in Galilee, people in one area after another flocked to him, listening and being cured of their infirmities. Jesus noted that "they were skinned and thrown about like sheep with a shepherd." (Matthew 9:36; see study notes.) Their religious leaders considered them as too ignorant to matter; even calling them "accursed people." (John 7:47-49; study note) But Jesus dignified them by taking the time to teach them and to cure them of their diseases. (Matthew 9:35) Furthermore, in order to help more individuals, he trained his apostles to share in the preaching work and gave them the authority to cure diseases and infirmities. - MATTHEW 10:5-8. 

By treating his listeners with dignity and consideration, Jesus showed that he and his Father view as precious those who are often looked down upon by society. If you are serving Jehovah but have doubts about your value, think about the attention Jesus showed to humble people who wanted to learn from him. Doing so can help you to see how precious you are in Jehovah's eyes.  

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"You Are Someone Very Precious"!

 "You are someone very precious." - DANIEL 9:23. 

AMONG Jehovah's precious servants there are some who have a low opinion of themselves. Perhaps someone had treated them as if they were little value. Has that been your experience? If so, how can you come to appreciate that you are precious in Jehovah's eyes?

You might find it helpful to consider Bible accounts that reveal how Jehovah wants people to be viewed and treated. His Son, Jesus, treated people with dignity and respect. By doing so, he showed that he and his Father highly value humble ones who feel that they are of little worth. (John 5:19; Hebrews 1:3) In this article, we will consider: (1) how Jesus helped people recognize their value and (2) how we can convince ourselves that we are truly precious in God's eyes. - HAGGAI 2:7. 

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Consider Our Sympathetic High Priest - Jesus -OUR HIGH PRIEST CAN HELP YOU - Conclusion

 Jesus also guides his people in their efforts to search for an assist those who have strayed from Jehovah's flock. (Matthew 18:12, 13) Note the experience of Stefano. After being removed from the congregation for 12 years, he decided to attend a meeting. "It was awkward, but I wanted to be a part of Jehovah's loving family again," he says. "The elders who met with me made me feel welcome. At times, feelings of worthlessness surfaced, and I wanted to give up.  But the brothers reminded me that Jehovah and Jesus wanted me to persevere. When I was reinstated, the entire congregation warmly received me and my family. My wife eventually accepted a Bible study, and today we serve Jehovah as a family." How pleased our loving High Priest must be to see repentant ones to get the help they need to return to the congregation! 

During his life on earth, Jesus gave help at the right time to countless people. Today, we can have complete confidence that he will help us whenever we need it. And in the new world soon to come, he will assist obedient humans in becoming completely free from all the effects of sin and imperfection. How grateful we are to our God, Jehovah, who was moved by great love and mercy to appoint his Son as our sympathetic High Priest! 

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Consider Our Sympathetic High Priest - Jesus - OUR HIGH PRIEST CAN HELP YOU

 As our fine shepherd Jesus gives attention to our individual spiritual needs. (John 10:14; Ephesians 4:97) At times, circumstances in life could make us feel like a smoldering wick or a bruised reed. We may become very discouraged because of a serious illness, a personal failure, or perhaps a damaged relationship with a fellow worshipper. We may struggle to look beyond the present plain and to focus on our hope for the future. Remember, though, that Jesus sees what you are going through and understands your innermost thoughts. Jesus' compassion moves him to act in your behalf. For example, he can use holy spirit to empower you when you are weak. (John 16;17; Titus3:6) Additionally, Jesus can use "gifts in men" and other fellow worshippers to encourage, support, and help you. -EPHESIANS 4:8. 

If you flame as faltered or your spirit is crushed, meditate on Jesus' role as our High Priest. Remember that Jehovah sent him to the earth not only to give his life as ransom but also to help him better understand the problems faced by imperfect humans. When we are discouraged because of our sins or weaknesses, Jesus is ready and willing to help "at the right time." - HEBREWS 4:15, 16.

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Consider Our Sympathetic High Priest - Jesus - IMITATING OUR HIGH PRIEST TODAY

 As Jesus' faithful followers, we strive to imitate him in showing love, fellow feeling, and compassion to others. (1 Peter 2:21; 3:8) While we cannot heal the deaf or the blind, we can certainly help such ones spiritually. For example, the Bible publications are now available in over 100 sign languages. And to benefit the visually impaired, braille publications are available in over 60 languages and audio descriptions for our videos are produced in over 100 languages. These provisions help the deaf and the blind to draw close to Jehovah and his Son. 

Jehovah's organization endeavors to help people of all backgrounds. Recall that after his resurrection, Jesus poured out holy spirit so that all those assembled for the festival of Pentecost could hear the good news, each in "his own language." (Read Acts 2:5-7, 33) Following his lead, the organization provides Bible-based publications in well over 1,000 languages, some of which are spoken by small numbers of people. For example, some Amerindian languages are spoken by relatively few people living in North and South America. Yet, publications have been made available in more than 160 of those languages to ensure that as many as possible can have access to the good news. Our publications are also available in over 20 Romany languages. Many thousands who speak such languages have responded to the truth. 

Besides supervising such efforts to spread the good news, Jehovah's organization provides relief to victims of natural disasters. To that end, thousands of volunteers make themselves available to help their brothers and sister in need.  The organization also helps provide modest places of worship where people can gather together to learn more about God's love for them.

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Consider Our Sympathetic High Priest - Jesus - JESUS SHOWS FELLOW FEELING FOR PEOPLE - Conclusion

 In Jesus' day, many Jews believed that those who suffered afflictions were being punished for their own sins of their parents. (John 9:2) As a result for the wrong belief, afflicted ones were made to feel worthless. In fulfillment of Isaiah's prophecy, Jesus physically healed suffering ones and rekindled their hope in God. What confidence does this give us? 

Read Hebrews 4:15, 16. We can be sure that Jesus will always be sympathetic towards us. What does that mean? A sympathetic person is one who is moved by the sufferings and emotions of another person. The Greek word rendered "sympathize" means to share the experience and feelings of another person. (See also Hebrews 10:34, where Paul uses the same Greek verb.) The accounts of Jesus' miracles reveal just how deeply Jesus was affected by the suffering of others.  He did not cure people out of mere sense of duty. He truly cared about them and wanted to help them. For example, when he cured the leper, he could have performed the miracle from a distance but instead he was moved to touch the man-perhaps the first human touch the leper had experienced in many years! Jesus considerately took the deaf man away from the noise of the crowd and healed him in private. And when a Pharisee  looked on the repentant woman who had washed Jesus' feet with her tears and dried them off with her hair, Jesus strongly defended her. (Matthew 8:3; Mark 7:33; Luke 7:44) Jesus did not shun those who suffered from infirmities or those who had seriously sinned. On the contrary, he welcomed and compassionately reassured such people. We can trust that he is just as sympathetic toward us. 

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Consider Our Sympathetic High Priest - Jesus - JESUS SHOWS FELLOW FEELING FOR PEOPLE

 Throughout his ministry, Jesus showed great empathy toward the weak and disadvantaged. In doing so, he fulfilled prophecy. In the Hebrew Scriptures, prosperous and strong people are sometimes likened to a fertile garden or to large, stately trees. (Psalm 92:12; Isaiah 61:3; Jeremiah 31:12) But the poor and downtrodden are compared to a crushed reed and to the smoldering wick of a lamp, both of which are of little use to anyone. (Read Isaiah 42:3; Matthew 12:20) Under inspiration, the prophet Isaiah used these word pictures to foretell he love and compassion that Jesus would show to the common people who were viewed as worthless by others.

The Gospel writer Matthew applied to Jesus these words of Isaiah: "No crushed reed will break, and no smoldering wick will he extinguish."  Some of Jesus' miracles benefited downtrodden ones who must have felt like a crushed reed or hopeless ones who felt like a smoldering wick, soon to be extinguished. Among others, there was a man who was full of leprosy. What hope did he have of being cured and enjoying the company of his family and friends? (Luke 5:12, 13) Then there was the man who was deaf and had a speech impediment. Think how he felt as he saw others engaging i animated conversations that he could not follow. (Mark 7:32, 33) But that is not all.

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Consider Our Sympathetic High Priest - Jesus - GOD'S BELOVED SON COME TO EARTH

 Many of us have experienced a change in circumstances, such as moving away from a cherished home and leaving behind family and friends. Such changes can be challenging. But no human has dealt with changes like those Jesus experienced. In heaven, he was the most prominent of Jehovah's spirit sons. He basked in Jehovah's love and was always joyful as he served at God's "right hand." (Psalm 16:11; Proverbs 8:30) Yet, Philippians 2:7 says that he willingly "emptied himself," giving up his exalted position to live among imperfect humans on earth. 

Consider, too, the circumstances surrounding Jesus' birth and earth life as a human. Jesus was born into a poor family, as shown by the humble sacrifice his parents offered after he was born. (Leviticus 12:8; Luke 2:24) Learning of Jesus' birth, wicked King Herod tried to kill Jesus. To get away from Herod's clutches, the family became refugees in Egypt for a time. (Matthew 2:13, 15) What a change from Jesus' prehuman existence!

While one earth, Jesus saw suffering all around him. He undoubtedly experienced the loss of loved ones, apparently his adoptive father, Joseph. During his ministry, Jesus came in contact with lepers, blind people, paralytics, and bereaved parents, and he felt compassion for them. (Matthew 9:2, 6; 15:30; 20:34; Mark 1:40, 41; Luke 7:13) True, he had seen suffering from his exalted heavenly position. But now, as a man on earth, he observed mankind's pain from a new perspective.  (Isaiah 53:4) Jesus' experiences on earth helped him to understand the feelings, frustrations, and pains of mankind. He personally experienced feelings, frustrations, and emotions common to humans, including anguish, weariness, and grief. 

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 "We do not have a high priest who cannot sympathized with our sicknesses." - HEBREWS 4:15.

Some 2,000 years ago, Jehovah God sent his most precious Son to the earth. Why? Among other things, it was to redeem the human race from the curse of sin and death and to undo the damage caused by Satan. (John 3:16; 1 John 3:8) Jehovah also knew that Jesus' experience as a human would further prepare him to become a sympathetic, empathetic, and compassionate High Priest for us. Jesus began serving in that role after his baptism in 29 C.E.

In this article, we will discuss how Jesus's experiences on earth helped him to become more qualified to serve as a sympathetic High Priest. As we deepen our understanding of how Jesus was "made perfect" for his role, we will find easier to approach Jehovah, even if we are discouraged by our sins or weaknesses. - Read HEBREWS 5:7-9. 

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Maintain Your Joy as a Caregiver - HOW OTHERS CAN HELP - Conclusion

 Commend caregivers and pray for them. Elders do well to shepherd caregivers regularly. (Proverbs 27:23) And no matter what our circumstances are, all the congregation can generously and regularly commend caregivers. We can also ask Jehovah to continue to strengthen them to maintain their joy. - 2 CORINTHIANS 1:11.

Soon, Jehovah will wipe away the tears of pain from all the faces. Sickness and death will be no more. (Revelation21:3, 4) "The lame will leap like a deer." (Isaiah 35:5, 6) The sad effects of old age and the pain of caring for a loved one who is sick and will part of "the former things [that] will not be called to mind." (Isaiah 65:17) Even now, while we await the fulfillment of the wonderful hope, Jehovah will not abandon us. If we continue to rely on him for strength, he will help us to "endure more fully with patience and joy." - COLOSSIANS 1:11. 

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Maintain Your Joy as a Caregiver - HOW OTHERS CAN HELP

 Help caregivers get some time for themselves. Those of us in the congregation can help by offering to assist the caregiver's loved one. As a result, we give caregivers a mental break and allow them time to care for personal matters. (Galatians 6:2) Some publishers have created a weekly schedule for this purpose. A sister named Natalya, who cares for her paralyzed husband, says: "A brother in the congregation comes over one or twice a week to spend time with my husband. They share in the ministry together, they talk together, and they even watch movies together. These moments are very precious for my husband and give me time to care for my personal needs, such as going out for a walk." In some cases, you might even to offer to stay with a caregiver's loved one overnight so the caregiver can get a good night's sleep. 

Help caregivers during congregation meetings. Caregivers may get little out of congregation meetings, circuit assemblies, and regional conventions because they are busy caring for their loved one. Those in the congregation can offer to help by sitting with the caregiver's love done during some of these meetings or a portion of them. If the person is housebound, you could offer to go to his home and tie in a meeting with him so the caregiver can attend the meeting in person. 

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Maintain Your Joy as a Caregiver - HOW TO REMAIN JOYFUL - Conclusion

 Talk to a trusted friend. Despite your beset efforts, you will still feel overwhelmed occasionally. At such times, you may find it helpful to share your feelings with a good friend-one who will not judge you or overreact. (Proverbs 17:17) His or her listening ear and reassuring words may be just what you need to maintain your joy. - PROVERBS 12:25. 

Imagine your life in Paradise together. Try to remember that your role as a caregiver is temporary, and it is not a work that Jehovah originally intended for humans. (2 Corinthians 4:16-18) "The real life" is yet to come. (1 Timothy 6:19) You will likely find great joy in talking with your loved one about what you will do together in Paradise. (Isaiah 33:24; 65:21) A sister named Heather says: "I often tell the ones that I assist that soon we will sew together, run together, and ride bikes together. We will bake bread and cook meals for our loved ones who are resurrected. Together, we thank Jehovah for our hope.

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 Make time to care for your physical health. Busy people - such as caregivers-may find it a challenge to maintain a healthy diet because they have little time to shop for fresh foods and prepare nutritious meals. A good diet and a good exercise program are essential for you physical and mental health. So try to make good use of your limited time by eating healthy food and exercise regularly. (Ephesians 5:15, 16) Additionally, try to get sufficient sleep. (Ecclesiastes 4:6) Studies indicate that sleep can help remove toxins from our brain. The article "How Sleep Can Affect Stress," issued by Banner Health, states that adequate sleep also reduces anxiety and equip us to handle stress. You will also need to make some for recreation. (Ecclesiastes 8:15) One caregiver shared what helps her to remain joyful. She says: "When the weather is nice, I try to get outside and enjoy the sunshine. At least one a month, I also schedule a fun day with a friend. 

Maintain a sense of humor. (Read Proverbs 17:22; Ecclesiastes3:1, 4) Laughter is good for your physical and mental health. When you are caring for someone, rarely, if ever, does everything go exactly as planned. But if you find humor in frustrating situations, you will likely find them easier to bear. And laughing with the person you care for can strengthen your bond.

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Maintain Your Joy as a Caregiver - HOW TO REMAIN JOYFUL

 Be modest. (Proverbs 11:2) We all have limited time and energy. So you will have to set boundaries as to what you can and cannot do and occasionally say no. And that is OK! You are being modest. If others offer to assist you, gladly accept their help. A brother named Jay says: "We can only do so much at one time. Understanding your limits and not going beyond them will help you maintain your joy." 

Be discerning. (Read Proverbs 19:11.) When you are discerning, you are more likely to remain calm when provoked. A discerning person tries to understand why someone is acting a certain way. Understandably, some chronic diseases can cause a person to behave irrationally. (Ecclesiastes 7:7) For example, a person who is normally kind and thoughtful might become argumentative or combative. Or he might become demanding, critical, or hard to please. If you assist someone who has a serious illness, you may find it helpful to learn about his disease. The more you understand his illness the more likely you are to discern that his behavior is because of his condition, not because of who he is as a person. - PROVERBS 14:29. 

Make time to strengthen your friendship with Jehovah. At times, you need to put aside some activities to care for other matters that are "more important." (Philippians 1:10) One of these more important matters is strengthening your relationship with Jehovah. King David made Jehovah's worship a priority. (Read Psalm 132:4, 5.) Similarly, it is important for you to prioritize some time each day to read a portion of the Bible and to pray. A sister name Elisha says: "I am able to maintain my joy by praying and by meditating on comforting psalms. Prayer has been a lifeline for me. I find myself praying to Jehovah throughout the day to stay calm." 

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Maintain Your Joy as a Caregiver - HOW CAREGIVING CAN AFFECT YOUR JOY - Conclusion

 Caregivers may bottle intense feelings of guilt. A sister named Jessica says: "I struggle with my own limitations. Taking some time to care for myself makes me feel guilty and selfish." Some caregivers feel guilty because at times they resent their situation. Others worry that they are not doing enough to help their loved one. Still others feel guilty because in a moment of frustration, they said something hurtful to the person they were assisting. (James 3:2) Some grieve the loss of the vibrant healthy person they once knew. A sister named Barbara says: "One of the biggest challenges for me is watching the person I love deteriorate a little more each day." 

Some caregivers feel taken for granted. Why? Because they are rarely thanked or commended for their hard work and sacrifices. A few words of appreciation can go a long way. (1 Thessalonians 5:18) A sister named Melissas says: "At times, I have shed tears of frustration. But when I those I care for tell me thank you for everything you do for me,' It lifts my spirits! Those comments help me to wake up the next day read and eager to take care of them again." A brother named Ahmadu explains how receiving expression of gratitude affects him. He and his wife care for their young niece who lives with them; she suffers from epileptic seizures. He says: "Even though she may not fully understand the magnitude of the sacrifices we make to care for her, joy wells up in my heart when she expresses appreciation for us or when she scribbles down the words 'I love you."'

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Maintain Your Joy as a Caregiver - HOW CAREGIVING CAN AFFECT YOUR JOY

 If caregivers lose their joy, they could easily tire out. (Proverbs 24:10) And when they are tired, they may become less kind and helpful than they want to be. What challenged can cause caregivers to lose their joy?

Caregivers may experience burnout. A sister named Leah says: "Caregiving is emotionally draining even on a good day. At the end of the day, I often feel that I have nothing left to give. Sometimes I don't even have the emotional energy to respond to a text message." Others find it difficult to get enough rest or to take a much-needed break. A sister named Ines says: "I struggle to get enough sleep. At night, I often wake up every two hours to care for my mother-in-law. And my husband and I have not been able to take a vacation in years." Some caregivers have to decline social invitations and even theocratic assignments because their loved one needs full-time care. As a result, they may feel lonely and trapped by their circumstances. 

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Maintain Your Joy as a Caregiver - Conclusion

 The Bible contains many accounts of men and women who were caregivers. Consider the example of Abraham and Sarah. Whey they left Ur, their father, Terah, was about 200 years old. Yet, he went along with them. They traveled some 960 kilometers (600 mi) to Haran. (Genesis 11:31, 32) No doubt Abraham and Sarah loved Terah, but imagine how challenging it might have been to care for him, especially while traveling. They likely traveled on camels or donkeys, which may have been extremely difficult for aged Terah. It would have been only natural for them to feel very tired at times, perhaps even exhausted. Whatever the case, Jehovah surely gave them the strength that they needed. Just as Jehovah sustained Abraham and Sarah, he will sustain and strengthen you. - PSALM 55:22. 

Joy can help you persevere as a caregiver. (Proverbs 15:13) A joyful person can remain happy despite his circumstances. (James 1:2, 3) How can you develop such joy? One way is by relying on Jehovah in prayer and asking him to help you keep a positive attitude. In this article, we will discuss additional things caregivers can do to remain joyful. We will also consider how others can assist them. First, let us discuss why caregivers need to maintain their joy and what challenges could rob them of it.  

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Maintain Joy as a Caregiver

 "Those sowing seed with tears will reap a joyful shout." - PSALM 126:5. 

MY WIFE and I have been married for over 32 years," says a brother from Korea named Jin-yeol. "For the past five years, I have been her caregiver. She suffers from Parkinson disease and hardly move. I love and cherish my wife, and I enjoy caring for her. Each night, she sleeps in a hospital bed. I sleep next to her, and we hold hands while we sleep. 

Are you a caregiver for someone you love, such as your parent,  mate, child, or friend? If so, you likely appreciate the unique privilege of helping him or her in such a personal way. And by caring for your loved one, you should your devotion to Jehovah. (1 Timothy 5:4, 8; James 1:27) Still, you face challenges that often go unnoticed by others. At times, you may even feel that you are the only one suffering. You may outwardly smile, but when you by yourself, you cannot hold back your tears. (Psalm 6:6) While others may not be aware of your struggles, Jehovah always is. (Compare Exodus 3:7) Your tears and sacrifices are precious to him. (Psalm 56:8; 126:5) He notices everything you do to help your loved one. He considers himself to be indebted to you and promises  to repay you. - Read PROVERBS 29:17. 

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Maintain Your Joy at Old Age - HOW OTHERS CAN HELP; - Conclusion

 Accompany them to medical appointments. In addition to providing transportation for older ones, you may be able to ensure that the medical staff are treating them well and giving them the attention they need. (Isaiah 1:17) You may be able to help the older one by taking notes about what the doctor says. An older sister named Ruth says: "Often when I go to a medical appointment, the doctor does not take me seriously. Doctors may say things as, 'Your problem is psychological; its in your head.' But I when I am accompanied by someone, it makes all the difference in how the doctor deals with me. I thank my brothers and sisters who take the time to accompany me." 

Work with them in the ministry. Some older ones may not have the physical strength to preach from door to door. Could you, for example, invite an older sister to join you for cart witnessing? You might even provide a chair for her so that she can sit near the cart. Or could you take an older brother on a Bible study, perhaps even conducting the study at his home? Elders can consider arranging meetings for field service at the home of older ones so that they can participate more easily. Anything we do to honor older ones is worth the effort. - PROVERBS 3:27; ROMANS 12:10. 

We have been reminded that Jehovah loves and values older ones. And so do the rest of us in the congregation. Growing old is difficult, but with Jehovah's help, you can maintain your joy. (Psalm 37:25) How encouraging it is to know that your best days are ahead of you, not behind you! What about those of us who are caregivers for an older family member, a child, or a friend who is ill? How can you maintain your joy? We will discuss the answer to that question in the following study article. 

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Maintain Your Joy at Old Age - HOW OTHERS CAN HELP

 Visit and call older brother and sisters regularly. (Hebrews 13:16) Older ones can feel isolated. A housebound brother named Camille says: "I have to stay indoors from morning to evening. So I get really bored. Sometimes, I feel like old lion in a cage. I get nervous and frustrated." When we visit older ones, we reassure them that they are important to us and that we love them. Likely, we all can recall a time when we intended to call or visit an older person in our congregation but we did not follow through. We all lead busy lives. So, what can help us to "make sure of the more important things," including visiting older ones? (Philippians 1:10) You may find it helpful to make notes on your calendar to remind you to send a text message to older ones in your congregation or to call them. You can also schedule time to visit them; do not leave it to chance. 

If you are a younger person, you may wonder what you can talk about or what activities you can engage in with older ones. But try not to overthink it. Just be a good friend. (Proverbs 17:17) Stop and talk with older ones before or after the congregation meetings. Perhaps you could ask them to share their favorite scripture or a funny childhood memory. You could also invite them to watch a JWBroadcasting program with you. You may also be able to help older ones in practical ways. For example, you can help them keep their devices up-to-date or download the latest study publications. A sister named Carol says: "Offer to do things with older ones that you enjoy doing. Though I am older, I still want to enjoy life. I like shopping, eating out, and getting out in creation." And a sister named Maira says: "One of my friends is 90 years old.  We have a 57-year-old age gap. But I often forget about that because we laugh together and watch movies together. And when we face problems, we look to each other for advice." 

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Maintain Your Joy at Old Age - HOW TO REMAIN JOYFUL -Conclusion

 Remind yourself that your situation is temporary. When we remember that a difficult situation is temporary, we can endure it more easily. And the Bible assures us that old age and poor health are temporary. (Job33:25; Isaiah 33:24) So you can find joy in knowing that your best days are ahead of you, not behind you. (Read 2 Corinthians 4:16-18) But what can others do to help? 

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 Strive to help others. When you focus your time and energy on others, you will feel less likely to focus on your own problems. An African proverb likens older ones to a library filled with books containing a wealth of wisdom. But books that are left on the shelf do not teach or tell or tell stories. So as "a living library," take the initiative to share your knowledge and experience with younger ones. Ask them questions and then listen. Teach them why living by Jehovah's standards is always best and will make them happy. No doubt you will feel joyful when you comfort and strengthen your younger friends. - PSALM 71:18. 

Pray to Jehovah for strength.  Though you may feel physically or emotionally exhausted, Jehovah "never tires out or grows weary." (Isaiah 40:28) How does Jehovah use his limitless energy? On way is by strengthening old ones. (Isaiah 40:29-31) In fact, he promises to help them. (Isaiah 46:4.) And Jehovah always keep his promises. (Joshua 23:14; Isaiah 55:10, 11) When you pray and then feel Jehovah's love and support for you personally, you cannot help but feel joyful.

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Maintain Your Joy in Old Age-HOW TO REMAIN JOYFUL

 Accept help from others. (Galatians 6:2) At first, you may find it difficult. A sister named Gretl says: "Sometimes I find it challenging to accept help because I feel that I will be burden. It has taken time for me to change my thinking and humbly admit that I need help." When you accept help from others, you allow them to feel the joy that comes from giving. (Acts 20:35) And you will no doubt be pleased to see just how much others love you and care about you. 

Show gratitude. (Colossians 3:15; 1 Thessalonians 5:18) When others do good things for us, we feel gratitude but we may forget to show it. However, if we smile and say thank you, we make our friends feel valued and appreciated. Leah, who is a caregiver for old ones at Bethel, says: "One of the sisters I care for leaves me little thank you notes. They're not long messages, but they're so sweet. I really love getting them, and it makes me happy to know that she appreciates my help." 

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Maintain Joy in Your Old Age - HOW OLD AGE COULD AFFECT YOUR JOY- Conclusion

 Perhaps you are saddened by the possibility that the end of this system will not come in your lifetime. If you feel that way, what can help? Try to remember that Jehovah is patiently waiting to bring an end to this wicked world. (Isaiah 30:18) But is his patience is not without purpose. His patience is allowing millions of people the time and he opportunity to come to know him and serve him. (2 Peter 3:9) So when you feel discouraged, try to think about how many people will benefit from Jehovah's patience before the end comes. Might some of them be members of your own family?

No matter our age, when we are not feeling well, we are more likely to say or do things that we regret. (Ecclesiastes 7:7; James 3:2) For example, when the faithful man Job was suffering, his words became "wild talk." (Job 6:1-3) Additionally, a medical condition may cause older ones to do or say things that are out of character for them. Of course, none of us would intentionally use our age or health as an excuse to be unkind or demanding. And if we realize that we have said something unloving to someone, we should not hesitate to apologize. - MATTHEW 5:23, 24.

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Maintain Joy in Your Old Age - HOW OLD AGE COULD AFFECT YOUR JOY

 What might cause you to get discouraged? Perhaps you feel disheartened because you cannot do what you once did. You may long for the days when you were younger and in better health. (Ecclesiastes 7:10) For example, a sister named Ruby says: "Putting on clothing is difficult because of my aches and pains as well as my lack of mobility. Something as simple as lifting my feet to put socks on is hard. My hands are numb and full of arthritis, which makes it challenging to accomplish even small tasks." And Harold who served at Bethel, says: "I don't recognize the man I've become, and I get frustrated at times. I used to be very athletic. Playing baseball was my favorite pastime. Others would say: 'Give the ball to Harold because he never misses.' But now, I don't think I could throw the ball." 

You may feel discouraged because you are losing a measure of your independence. This is especially true if you need the help of a caregiver or if you have to move in with one of your children. Or perhaps you are deeply disappointed because your health or your eyesight has deteriorated to the point that you can no longer go places by yourself or drive a vehicle. How distressing! But it may help to remember that our value to Jehovah and others do not depend on whether we can care for ourselves, live alone, or drive a car. And we can we assured that Jehovah understands our feelings. What matters to him is who we are on the inside-someone whose heart is full of love and appreciation for him and for fellow worshippers. - 1 SAMUEL 16:7.

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Maintain Your Joy in Your Old Age - Conclusion

 A person's advanced age does not decrease his value to Jehovah. In fact, Jehovah often uses older ones to accomplish his purpose. For example, Sarah was advanced in age when Jehovah announced that she would become the mother of a mighty nation and an ancestress of the Messiah. (Genesis 17:15-19) Moses was up in years when Jehovah commissioned him to lead the Israelites out of Egypt. (Exodus 7:6, 7) And the apostle John was elderly when Jehovah inspired him to write five Bible books. 

Older ones face many challenges that come with advancing years. One sister humorously said, "Getting old is not for wimps." But having joy can help older ones to endure the trials that come with being up in years. (Read Proverbs 15:15) In this article, we will discuss practical things that older ones can do to remain joyful. We will also consider how others can help older brothers and sisters in their congregation. First, let us discuss why it can be a challenge to maintain our joy as we age. 

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Maintain Joy in Your Old Age

  

"In old age they will . . . be thriving." - PSALM 92:14.

People around the world react differently to getting old. For example, imagine this scenario: Do you remember when you noticed your first gray hair? You may be tempted to pull it out before anyone saw it. But you realize that pulling out gray hairs was not going to stop more of them from appearing.  This example illustrates how hard many individuals resist getting older. 

Note: Those who are not Christians, have to dye their hair, get plastic surgery and whatever else they think they need, to stay young. Why can't they just old gracefully? It is inevitable because that is what Adam and Eve, our first parents left us.  we all get gray hair, wrinkles, sagging skin, paunches etc. Get over yourself! and your fear of getting old, your body changing.  that is way it supposed to do at our age. You cannot stop it!

However, our heavenly Father has a different view of his servants who are aging. (Proverbs 16:31) He likens them to thriving trees. (Read Psalm 92:12-14) Why is that comparison fitting? Trees that are laden with leaves and fragrant flowers are often many decades old. One of the most striking trees is the Japanese flowering cherry. Some of the most beautiful trees are over a thousand years old. Much like these mature trees, faithful ones who are up in years are beautiful, especially in God's eyes. Jehovah sees the person behind the gray hair. And He appreciates the beautiful qualities of old ones-their endurance and loyalty-as well as their many years of faithful service to Him. 

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Should I Stop Driving? -How Others Can Help

 Family members are often in the best position to talk with older relatives about their driving. Or perhaps you are a friend of the driver and hear others express concern about his driving. Take their comments seriously. You might even ask to ride with the driver yourself. If needed, talk with him about his driving. When you, put yourself in his shoes. Be kind but honest. Do not be preoccupied with his age-you are there to talk about his driving skills. Choose such phrases as "I am concerned for your safety when you drive" rather than "You are no longer a safe driver." Appeal to his love for the Bible principles mentioned in this article.

All of us can be empathetic when an older person has to give up driving. He may feel that has lost his freedom and independence. How can you help? (Proverbs 17:17) Do not wait for him to ask you for a ride, as he may feel that he is burdening you. Perhaps you offer to arrange a schedule for him to important activities, such as meetings, field service, shopping, and medical appointments. Assure him that you want to provide this service and to spend time with him. - ROMANS 1:11, 12. 

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Should I Stop Driving? - BE GUIDED BY BIBLE PRINCIPLES - Conclusion

 Avoid bloodguilt. (Deuteronomy 22:8) A car is a dangerous weapon when it is not operated safely. A person who keeps driving even though his skills have diminished could risk his own life and that of others. And if he were responsible for a fatal accident, he could incur bloodguilt. 

If you are faced with the difficult decision of whether to stop driving, avoid thinking that you might lose your dignity or value as a person. Jehovah loves you for your beautiful qualities, including your modesty, humility, and concern for the welfare of others. And he promises to sustain you and comfort you. (Isaiah 46:4) He will never abandon you. So ask him to help you use practical wisdom and spiritual discernment as you decide whether you should stop driving. 

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Should I Stop Driving? - BE GUIDED BY BIBLE PRICIPLES

     We may not recognize that our driving skills are diminishing. And the subject of whether we should stop driving can be a sensitive matter. So, what Bible principles can help you see your situation objectively and make a wise decision? Consider two.

Remain modest. (Proverbs 11:2) As we get older, our eyesight, hearing, muscles, and reflexes deteriorate. For example, most people stop playing certain sports as they age because they realize that as they get older, it is easier for them to get hurt. Similar principle applies to driving. At some point, a person may modestly decide to stop driving out of regard for his own safety. (Proverbs 22:3) And if others were to express their concerns, a modest person would be receptive and listen. -Compare 2 SAMUEL 21:15-17. 

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Should I Stop Driving? - EVALUATE YOUR DRIVING

 As suggested by the National Institute of Aging (NIA) website in the United States, you could start by asking yourself the following questions:

. Do I have difficulty reading road signs or seeing at night? 

. Am I losing my flexibility, making it difficult for me to turn my head to check my mirrors and blind spots?

. Do I find it challenging to react quickly, such as when moving my foot from the accelerator to the brake pedal? 

. Do I drive so slowly that I interfere with the flow of traffic?

. Have I had a number of near misses, or does my vehicle have dents and scratches because of running into stationary objects? 

. Have I been pulled over by the police officer because of my driving? 

. Have I ever dozed off while driving? 

. Do I take any medications that could affect my driving? 

. Havc my family members or friends expressed concerns about my driving?

If you answered yes to one or two of these questions, you may want to consider making some adjustments. For example, you might limit how much you drive, especially at night. Regularly reassess your driving. You might also consider taking a safe-driving course. However, if you answered yes to several of the questions above, if may be in your best interest to stop driving.

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