HELP FOR THE FAMILY/MARRIAGE - How to Let Go of Resentment Continue

 Take responsibility for your resentment. Granted, it is easy to blame your spouse. But remember resentment is a choice. So is forgiveness. You can choose to follow the Bible's admonition: "Do not let the sun set while you are angry." (Ephesians 4:26) A spirit of forgiveness gives you an opportunity to approach your marriage problems with a better mind set. -Bible principle: COLOSSIANS 3:13. 

Examine yourself honestly. The Bible acknowledges that some people are "prone to anger" and "disposed to rage." (Proverbs 29:22) Does that describe you? Ask yourself: 'Am I inclined toward bitterness? How easily am I offended? Do I tend to make issues over minor matters?'  The Bible says that "the one who keeps harping on the matter separates close friends." (Proverbs 17:9; Ecclesiastes 7:9) That can happen in a marriage as well. So you have a tendency toward resentment, ask yourself, 'I could I be more patient with my spouse?" - Bible principle: 1 PETER 4:8. 

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