Be reasonable. The next time you are offended by something that your spouse said or did, ask yourself: 'Is it the situation really that important? Do I need an apology, or can I just overlook what happened and move on.? -Bible principle 1 PETER 4:8.
If necessary, discuss the matter. Calmly explain what offended you and why you feel that way. Do not impute bad motives or make dogmatic statements, since there will only put your spouse on the defensive. Instead, simply relate how your spouse's actions affected you.
WHEN YOU NEED TO APOLOGIZE
If you have hurt your spouse in some way, sincerely apologize. Even if you do not agree with your spouse's point of the matter, you can ask forgiveness for what you have done that resulted in hurt feelings. If you work hard to avoid repeating the same mistake, you will give your spouse's confidence that your apology was genuine.
Next time: HELP FOR THE FAMILY/MARRIAGE - How to Let Go of Resentment
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