WHOLESOME COMMUNICATON - A Key to a Good Marriage

In 1778, Robert Barron patented a double-acting , lever-tumbler lock that remains a basis of the modern key lock.  His design called for the use of a single key capable of raising the lock's two tumblers together.

Similarly, a successful marriage depends on a husband and wife working together in  unison. ( too bad, it isn't that way with most couples)  To unlock and experience the precious joys of a good marriage, one essential is wholesome communication.  (Not very much of that going on anymore, unfortunately) 

What Wholesome Communication Involves

What does wholesome communication involve?  One dictionary  defines communication as "the imparting or interchange of thoughts, opinions, or information by speech, writing, or signs."  (and ladies, this does not mean talk to the hand)   communication therefore involves a sharing of sentiments and ideas.  And wholesome communication entails things that are upbuilding, refreshing, virtuous, praiseworthy and consoling. -Ephesians 4:29-32; Philippians 4:8.

Wholesome communication is made possible by confidence, trust and mutual understanding.  These  qualities result when marriage is viewed as a lifelong relationship and there is genuine commitment to make it work.  (most couples  do not how, they give up too easily) Commenting on such a relationship, 18th -century essayist Joseph Addison wrote:  "Two persons who have chosen each other out of all species, with the design to be each other's mutual comfort and entertainment, have, in that action, bound themselves to be good-humored, affable, discreet, forgiving, patient and joyful, with respect to each other's frailties and perfections, to  the end of their lives."  How happy such a union is!  And these jewel like qualities can adorn your marriage, for they can be yours through wholesome communication.

Next time: Obstacles to Wholesome Communication

Watchtower, 2000