"Weep With Those Who Weep" - Conclusion of THE CONGREGATION IS A SOURCE OF GREAT COMFORT

It can be difficult to know what to say to someone who is grieving. But the Bible says that "the tongue of the wise is a healing."  (Proverbs 12:18)  Many have found comforting words to share in the brochure When Someone You Love Dies."  Often, though, the most helpful thing you can do  is to "weep with those who weep."  (Romans 12:15)  Gaby, whose husband died, says that sometimes the only way for her to express her feelings is by crying.  She add:  "That is why I get some comfort when friends cry with me. At that moment, I don't feel quite so alone in my grief."  

If you find it difficult to say something comforting in person, it may easier to send a card, an e-mail,  a text message, or a letter.  You could simply quote a comforting scripture, mention a special quality that you remember about the person who died, or share a happy memory that you cherish.  "Receiving a short encouraging message or an invitation to spend time with a  fellow Christian helps me more than I can say," says Junia.   "Those expressions make me feel loved and cared for." 

Our prayers can help our grieving brothers and sisters.  We can pray for them or even pray with them.  Even though it may seem difficult to do because you feel that you may cry, your heartfelt  payer can be a powerful comfort.  "Sometimes when sisters have to come to comfort me," recalls Dalene,  "I have asked them if they are willing to say a prayer.  They start praying and they say the most heartfelt prayer.  Their strong faith, their love, and their concern have been very faith-strengthening." 

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