The Benefits of Self-Control- Continue with HOW TO TEACH SELF-CONTROL

 Help your children to understand consequences, both good and bad.

BIBLE PRINCIPLE: "Whatever a person is sowing, this he will also reap." - GALATIANS 6:7. 

Your child needs to understand that actions have consequences and that a lack of self-control will therefore have undesirable results.  For example, if your son typically loses his temper when he gets upset, others may tend to avoid him.  On the other hand, if he develops the ability  to restrain himself when provoked- or wait  patiently rather than interrupt-people will be drawn to him. Help your child understand that he is more likely to have good outcomes when he practices self-restraint.

Teach your child to prioritize.

BIBLE PRINCIPLE:  "Make sure of the more important things." - PHILIPPIANS 1:10.

Self-control is not just a matter of holding back from doing wrong; it includes doing what is necessary, even when this is not particularly exciting or fun, it is important for your child to learn how to establish priorities and stick to them. Have your child to the important things first. For example, he should put homework before recreation. 

Be a good role model.

BIBLE PRINCIPLE: "I set the pattern for you, that just as I did to you, you should also do." - JOHN 13:15.

Your child will see how you respond to unpleasant or frustrating situations.  Demonstrate by your example that self-control leads to better outcomes.  For example, when your child tests your patience, do you react with anger or do you remain calm? 

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