How Do You Handle Differences?

DAILY we interact with a variety of personalities.  This often brings us joy and new perspectives. At times, it also gives rise to differences, some of which are serious while others are just minor scrapes in our day-to-day life. Whatever their nature, how we deal with our differences impacts on us mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. 

Doing what is within our power to resolve differences agreeably will contribute to our enjoying a healthier life and more peaceful relationships with others. An  ancient proverb says:  "A calm heart is the life of the fleshly organism." -Proverbs 14:30. 

In stark contrast stands the truism: "As a city broken through, without a wall, is the man that has no restraint on his spirit." (Proverbs 25:28)  Who of us would want to make ourselves vulnerable to the invasion of wrong thoughts that can cause us to act in improper ways-ways that can bring harm to others and  to us?  Uncontrolled, angry responses can do just that.  In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus recommended that we examine our attitude, which may influence how we handled any differences we may have with others.  (Matthew 7:3-5) Rather than our being critical of others, we should think about how we can cultivate and maintain friendships with those of adverse views and backgrounds. 

Next time: Our Attitude

From the Watchtower magazine, 2000