Our Attitude

A first step toward resolving a perceived or real difference is to recognize that we are susceptible to wrong thoughts and attitudes.  The Scriptures remind us that we all sin "and fall short of the glory of God." (Romans 3:23)  Additionally, discernment may reveal that the source of our problem is not the other person.  In this connection, let us consider the experience of  Jonah. 

Under instruction from Jehovah, Jonah had made his way to the city of Nineveh to preach about God's impending judgment upon its inhabitants. The happy result was that the entire  city of Nineveh repented and put faith in the true God. (Jonah 3:5-10) Jehovah felt that their repentant attitude  merited forgiveness, so he spared them.  "To Jonah, though, it was highly displeasing and he got to be hot with anger." (Jonah 4:1)  Jonah's response to Jehovah's mercy was surprising.  Why should Jonah be angry with Jehovah? Apparently, Jonah had become preoccupied with his own feelings, thinking that he had lost face in the community. He failed to appreciate Jehovah's mercy.  Kindly, Jehovah led Jonah through an object lesson that helped him change his attitude and see the excelling value of God's mercy.  (Jonah 4:7-11) It is clear that Jonah's attitude, not Jehovah's, needed altering. 

Could we at times likewise need to change our own attitude toward a matter?  The apostle Paul admonishes us:  "In showing honor to one another take the lead." ( Romans 12:10) What did he mean? In one respect, he is encouraging us to be reasonable and to treat other Christians with deep respect and dignity.  This involves recognizing that each individual has the privilege of free choice. Paul also reminds us:   "Each one will carry his own load." (Galatians 6:5) Hence, before differences cause a rift, how wise it would be to consider whether our own attitude needs to be readjusted!  We must work hard to reflect the thinking of Jehovah and preserve peace with others who truly love God. -Isaiah 55:8, 9.

Next time: Our Approach

From the Watchtower magazine, 2000