5.31.2015

Imitate Jesus' Humility and Tenderness


IMITATE JESUS' TENDERNESS

How can we imitate Jesus in showing tenderness? Our tender feelings.  Such emotions may not come naturally to us, but the Bible urges us to work  at cultivating them.  "The tender affections of compassion" are part of the new personality that all Christians are expected  to put on.  (Read Colossians 3:9, 10, 12)  How can you cultivate tender feelings for others? Open your heart wide. (2 Corinthians 6:11-13) Listen carefully where someone shares his feelings and concerns.  (James 1:19) Use your imagination and ask yourself: 'If I were in his situation, how would I feel?  What would I need? -1 Peter 3:8.

Our tender actions.  Tenderness move us to want to make a difference in the lives of others, especially those who may be like a bruised reed or a smoldering wick. How can we help them? "Weep with those who weep," says Romans 12:15.  Downhearted ones may need empathy more than answers. One sister who felt comforted  by fellow believers after the loss of her daughter says:  "I appreciated it when friends came over and just cried with me." We can also show tender affection by doing kind deeds. Do you know of a widow who needs help with  repairs on her home?  Is there an elderly Christian who needs transportation  to get to the meetings, or go out in the ministry, or go to the doctor? Even a small act of kindness can make a big diffference in the life of a fellow worshipper in need.  (1 John 3:17, 18) Above all, we can show tender concern for others by having a full share  in the ministry.  There is no greater way to make a difference  in the lives of honesthearted ones! 

Our tender words. Our tender affection for others moves us to "speak consolingly to those who are depressed." (1 Thessalonians 5:14) What can we say to encourage such ones?  We can lift their spirits by expressing our genuine care and concern for them. We can offer sincere commendation to help them see their positive qualities and abilities. We can remind them that Jehovah drew them to  his Son, so they must be precious in his eyes.  (John 6:44)  We can reassure them that Jehovah deeply cares for his servants who are "brokenhearted" or crushed in spirit." (Psalm 34:18)  Our tender words can have a healing effect  on those who need comfort. -Proverbs 16:24. 

Elders, Jehovah expects you to treat his sheep with tenderness.  (Acts 20:28, 29)  Remember, it is your responsibility to nourish, encourage, and refresh his sheep.  (Isaiah 32:1, 2; 1 Peter 5:2-4) Hence and elder who is tenderly compassionate does not try to control the sheep, making rules or using guilt to pressure them to do more  when their circumstances do not permit them to.  Rather, he endeavors  to bring joy to their hearts, trusting that their love for Jehovah will move them to serve him as fully as possible. -Matthew 22:37. 

As we reflect on Jesus' humility and tenderness, we are surely moved to keep on walking in his footsteps.  In the next article, we will discuss two more aspects of Jesus' appealing personality-courage and discernment. 

Next time: Imitate Jesus' Courage and Discernment 

From the Watchtower magazine, 2015

Imitate Jesus' Humility and Tenderness


JESUS IS TENDER

What is tenderness? The word "tender" is defined as "marked by responding to, or expressing the softer emotions."  Tenderness is a facet of love and is akin to such "softer emotions" as compassion and mercy. The  Scriptures refer to "tender compassion," "tender mercies," and "tender affection." (Luke 1:78; Corinthians 1:3; Philippians  1:8) Regarding the Scriptural call for compassion, one Bible reference work says:  "That call is more than an appeal for us to feel with and for the needy.  It is a call to care enough to become  involved and to help by taking some action that will set others' lives on a fresh, new course." Tenderness is a motivating force. A tender person is moved to make a difference in the lives of others. 

How did Jesus show tenderness?  "His tender feelings and actions.  Jesus felt tender compassion for others . When he saw his friend Mary and those with her weeping over the death of her brother Lazarus, Jesus openly "gave way to tears." (Read John 11:32-35) Then, likely stirred by heartfelt pity-just as when he raised a widow's son-he resurrected Lazarus.  (Luke 7:11-15; John 11:38-44)  By means of that tender act, Jesus may have put Lazarus  in line to receive life in heaven. On an earlier occasion, Jesus "felt tender affection" for a crowd that came to him. Impelled by his compassion, "he started to teach them many things." (Mark 6:34; Kingdom Interlinear) What a life-changing experience that was for any who responded to his teachings!  Note that Jesus' tenderness was more than a feeling; it moved him to take the initiative to help others. -Matthew 15:32-38; 20_29-34; Mark 1:40-42. 

His tender words.  Jesus' tender heart moved him to speak tenderly to others, especially to the downtrodden. The apostle Matthew applied to Jesus these words of Isaiah:  "No crushed reed will he break, and no smoldering wick will be extinguished." (Isaiah 42:3; Matthew 12:20)  Jesus spoke in a way that lifted the spirits of those  who were figuratively  like a bruised reed or the wick of an oil lamp about to go out. He preached a message of hope "to bind up the brokenhearted." (Isaiah 61:1) He invited those who were "toiling and loaded down" to come to him, reassuring them that they would "find refreshment"  for themselves (Matthew 11:28-30)  He assured his followers that God had tender  concern for each of His worshippers,including the "little ones"-those who may seem unimportant from the standpoint of the world. -Matthew 18:12-24; Luke 12:6, 7. 

Next time: Imitate Jesus' Humility and Tenderness -IMITATE JESUS' TENDERNESS

From the Watchtower magazine, 2015 

Imitate Jesus' Humility and Tenderness


IMITATE JESUS' HUMILITY

How can we imitate Jesus in demonstrating humility?    Our attitude. Humility restrains us from overstepping our authority. If we recognize that we are not authorized to sit in judgment, we will not be quick to criticize others for their faults  or question their motives. (Luke 6:37; James 4:12) Humility helps us to avoid being "overly righteous,"  looking down on those who may not have the abilities or privileges that we have.  (Ecclesiastes 7:16) Humble elders do not view themselves  as superior to fellow believers. Rather, such shepherds "consider others superior" and  conduct themselves as lesser ones. - Philippians 2:3; Luke 9:48. 

Consider W.J. Thorn, who served as a pilgrim, or traveling overseer, starting in 1894. After so many years in that work, he was called to Kingdom Farm in upstate New York and worked in the henhouse. He said:  "Whenever I get to thinking a great deal of myself, I take myself into the corner, so to speak, and say: "You little speck of dust.  What have you got to be proud of?' " (Read Isaiah 40:12-15) A humble attitude indeed!

Our speech.  If we are truly lowly in heart, our words will reflect humility.  (Luke 6:45)  In conversations with others, we will avoid focusing on our own achievements and privileges.  (Proverbs 27:2) Instead, we will look for the good in our brothers and sisters and commend them for their positive qualities, abilities, and accomplishments.  (Proverbs 15:23)   Our actions. Humble Christians are not interested  in seeking prominence in this system.  They would rather lead a simple life, even doing what the world might consider menial work so that they can serve Jehovah  to the fullest extent possible.  (1 Timothy 6:6, 8) Above all, we can show humility by our obedience. It takes lowliness of mind to "be obedient to those who are taking the lead" in the congregation and to accept and follow the direction  we receive from Jehovah's organization. -Hebrews 13:17. 

Next time: Imitate Jesus' Humility and Tenderness - JESUS IS TENDER

From the Watchtower magazine, 2015

5.30.2015

Imitate Jesus' Humility and Tenderness


JESUS IS HUMBLE

What is humility? In this proud world, some may think that humility  suggest weakness or lack of confidence. Often, though, just the opposite is true. Showing humility calls for strength and courage. Humility has been defined as  "the attitude opposite of pride and arrogance."  In the Christian Greek Scriptures, the word translated  "humility" may be rendered  "lowliness of mind." (Philippians 2:3) Humility begins with the way we think about ourselves.  "Humility is to know how lowly  we really are before God, we will also refrain from estimating ourselves to be above our fellow humans. (Romans 12:3) It is not easy for imperfect humans to cultivate humility. But we can learn to be humble if we reflect on our standing before God and follow in the footsteps of his Son. 

How did Jesus demonstrate humility?  God's Son has a long record of humility, showing it both as a powerful spirit creature in heaven and as  a perfect man on earth. Consider a few examples.

His attitude.  The Bible writer Jude recorded an example from Jesus' prehuman existence.  (Read Jude 9) As Michael the archangel, Jesus  "had a difference with the Devil" and "was disputing" with the wicked one.  The  issue involve "Moses' body." Recall that after Moses died, Jehovah buried the body in an unknown location.   (Deuteronomy 34:5, 6) Perhaps the Devil wanted to use Moses'  remains to promote false worship. Whatever evil purposed the Devil had in mind, Michael took  a courageous stand. One reference work notes that the Greek terms rendered  "had a difference" and "disputing" are "also used in relation to a legal dispute" and may suggest "that Michael 'challenged the Devil's right' to take Moses' body."  Yet, the Chief Angel recognized that it was not his place to bring judgment.Rather, he referred the case to the Supreme Judge, Jehovah. Michael thus refrained from overstepping his authority, even under provocation.  What a humble attitude!

During his earthly ministry, Jesus spoke and acted in ways that revealed genuine humility.  His speech. He never called undue attention to himself. Instead, he directed all glory to his Father.  (Mark 10:17, 18; John 7:16)  He never talked down to his disciples or made them feel inferior. Rather, he dignified them, praising them for the good he saw in them and expressing his confidence in them.  (Luke 22:31, 32; John 1:47) His actions.  Jesus chose to live in humble circumstances unencumbered by many material things.  (Matthew 8:20) He willing performed the most menial of tasks.  (John 13:3-15) He outstandingly  showed humility  by his obedience.  (Read Philippians 2:5-8) Unlike arrogant individuals who disdain obedience, Jesus humbly submitted to God's will for him, becoming  "obedient to the point of death." Is it not clear that Jesus, the Son of man, was "lowly in heart"? -Matthew 11:29. 

Next time: Imitate Jesus'  Humility and Tenderness -IMITATE JESUS' HUMILITY

From the Watchtower magazine, 2015

Imitate Jesus' Humility and Tenderness


"Christ suffered for you, leaving a model for you to follow his steps closely." -1 PETER 2:21

WE TEND to imitate those whose personality and ways we admire. Of all the humans who have walked the earth, no one is more worthy than Jesus Christ.  Why is that? Jesus himself once said:  "Whoever has seen me has seen the Father  also." (John 14:9) Jesus reflects his Father's personality so perfectly that observing the Son is like seeing the Father. Therefore, as we imitate Jesus, we draw closer to Jehovah, the greatest Personage in the universe.  What  a reward for imitating the qualities and way of his Son!

How, though, can we know what Jesus is like? Thankfully, we have an inspired written portrait of Jesus, Jehovah provided that record, as found in the Christian Greek Scriptures,because he wants us to become acquainted with his Son so that we can imitate him. (Read 1 Peter 2:21) In the Bible, the example Jesus  left is compared to "steps," or footprints.  In effect, Jehovah is telling us to walk behind Jesus and match our steps to his. 

Of course, Jesus left a perfect example for us, and we are far from perfect.  But Jehovah does not expect  us to follow Jesus; steps perfectly. Rather, the Father expects us to imitate his Son to the best of our ability as imperfect humans. 

Let us, then, consider some of Jesus' appealing qualities.  In this article , we will discuss his humility and tenderness, in the next, we will examine his courage and discernment. Regarding each quality, we will answer three questions. What does it mean? How did Jesus exemplify it?  How can we imitate him?

Next time: Imitate Jesus' Humility and Tenderness -JESUS IS HUMBLE

From the Watchtower magazine, 2015 

WISDOM THAT PROTECTS


"Riches are the ransom for a man's life, but the poor are not even threatened." -PROVERBS 13:8.

WHILE being rich may have certain advantages, wealth is a mixed blessing, especially in our perilous times.  (2 Timothy 3:1-5)  In some lands, the wealthy, including tourists who look affluent, have become targets of thieves and kidnappers seeking a ransom.

Concerning one developing country, a news report stated:  "Violent robberies,, fraud, and kidnappings pit the haves and the have-nots.  Restaurants post armed guards; the homes of the wealthy have walls with razor-wire, floodlights, cameras and security guards."  A similar situation exists in many other lands.

Yet, "the poor," the Bible says,  "are not even threatened."   How can you benefit from that gem of wisdom?  If you live in an area known for crime and violence or if you have to travel to such a place, do not attract attention to yourself by appearing to be affluent. Think carefully about what you wear and carry in public, especially if your possessions would be noticed.  "The shrewd one  sees the danger," says Proverbs 22:3, "but the inexperienced keep right on going and suffer the consequences." 

The wisdom recorded in the Bible reflects  our Creator's care for us.  He wants us to be safe. Such  "wisdom is a protection," says Ecclesiastes 7:12, for it "preserves the life of its owner." 

Next time: Imitate Jesus' Humility and Tenderness

From the AWAKE! magazine, 2015

5.29.2015

TAILOR MADE AND TIMELESS VALUES


LOVE

BIBLE PRINCIPLE: "Clothe yourselves with love, for it is a perfect bond of union." -Colossians 3:14.

THE BENEFITS: The love predominately mentioned in the Bible is not the romantic or sexual kind. Rather, it is a principled love characterized by such qualities as compassion, forgiveness, humility, loyalty, kindness, mildness, patience.  (Micah 6:8; Colossians 3:12, 13)  Unlike romantic infatuation, which usually fades with time, love can keep growing indefinitely.

Brenda, who has been married for nearly 30 years, says:  "The love newlyweds have for each other is nothing compared with the love you have as a marriage grows through time." 

Sam, a husband by over 12 years, observed:  "My wife and I have always been delighted-even surprised-at how effective Bible counsel is, and how simple!  You apply it, and things go smoothly. However, as much as I want to say that I always apply it, on occasion I haven't, such as when I was feeling overly sensitive, a bit selfish,or tired. At those times, I ask Jehovah to help me dispel any negative feelings. Then I give my wife a hug, and before long, it's like nothing unpleasant happened!"

Jesus Christ said that "wisdom is vindicated by its results." (Matthew 11:19) In the light of that truth, the Bible has all the hallmarks of genuine wisdom. Its teachings and values work. They are timeless. They transcend culture and nationality. And they reflect such deep insight into human nature that they point to a higher Source-Our Creator, Jehovah God. The proof, of course, is in the application. Hence, the Bible invites us to "taste and see that Jehovah is good." (Psalm 34:8) Will you accept that invitation? 

Next time: WISDOM THAT PROTECTS - "Riches are the ransom for a man's life, but the poor are not even threatened." -PROVERBS 13:8.

From the AWAKE! magazine, 2015

TAILOR MADE AND TIMELESS VALUES


FIDELITY

BIBLE PRINCIPLES: "Let marriage be honorable among all, and let the marriage bed be without defilement." -Hebrews 13:4. 

THE BENEFITS:  Some people consider those words antiquated. But they are wrong-dead wrong! Unfaithfulness hurts as deeply today as it did when the Bible was penned> -Proverbs 6:34, 35. 

Jessie, who is both a husband and a father, wrote: "Marital faithfulness had contributed greatly to my strong relationship with my wife and to our happiness.  Indeed trust  is very important  in a marriage. Infidelity destroys that trust"-not to mention the further effects it has on children! 

Ligaya put her marriage in jeopardy. "I  began to associate with bad people," she says. "This led to cheating on my husband." Did this way of life make her happy?  She and her husband constantly argued, and she was miserable. She adds:  "When I reflected on the embarrassing mess I had got myself into, I realized just how right my parents were when they used to say, 'Bad associations corrupt good morals.' " -1 Corinthians 15:33. 

Ligaya continues:  "Before things got worse, I decided to stop my bad ways and study the Bible-this time applying its teachings." The results?  She saved her  marriage,m and her husband began to treat her more kindly and respectfully.  "The Bible changed my life," she says,  "and i have no regrets about leaving my old ways and so-called friends." 

Next time: TAILOR MADE AND TIMELESS VALUES -LOVE

From the AWAKE! magazine, 2015

TAILOR MADE AND TIMELESS VALUES


SELF-CONTROL

BIBLE PRINCIPLE: "A stupid person gives vent to all his feelings, but the wise one calmly keeps them in check." -Proverbs 29:11.

THE BENEFITS: If you were to list all the benefits  of self-control, you would need reams of paper! At the very least, this quality protects our physical health.  "A calm heart gives life [or, "health,"] to the body," the Bible says.  It also states that "a joyful heart is good medicine." (Proverbs 14:30; 17:22) Conversely, studies show that people who are prone to anger and hostility increase their  risk of ill health, especially cardiovascular disease. Of course, the benefits of self-control go far beyond physical health.

Cassius, now in his 30's, recalls:  "I was quarrelsome and hot-tempered, and I often picked fights. I had very little self-respect.  But all that changed when I began to apply Bible principles.  I learned to control my temper and to cultivate humility and a forgiving spirit. Otherwise I might have ended up in prison. Indeed, I feel as though I have been raised from the dead!"

Next time: TAILOR MADE AND TIMELESS VALUES - FIDELITY

From the AWAKE! magazine, 2015

5.28.2015

TAILOR MADE AND TIMELESS VALUES-HONESTY


BIBLE PRINCIPLE:  "Who may be a guest in [God's] tent? . . .The one who is walking faultlessly, practicing what is right and speaking the truth in his heart." -Psalm 15:1,2. 

THE BENEFITS: Most people value honesty and integrity. But what if an opportunity arises for a person to profit from dishonest-and get away with it?  Now the spotlight is on the heart, the inner person. 

Raquel, whose work involved purchasing supplies, said:  "Certain sales agents offered me kickbacks.  They promised that if I bought from them, they would pass some of the 'discount on to me instead of my company.  But I recalled the Bible's counsel on honesty and said no.  My boss heard about this, and her confidence in me grew." 

Had Raquel been seduced by the offer, she might have profited financially in the short term.  But what if her employer found out?  Would Raquel have kept her job?  And what about her future job prospects?  More important to Raquel were her conscience and self-respect.  "A good name is to be chosen rather than great wealth; to be respected  is better than silver and gold," says Proverbs 22:1.

Jessie too was honest and reliable, thus earning a good name with his employer.  The benefits?  Not only was he given a managerial position, but he was also entrusted with more flexibility in his work schedule. As a result, he was able to spend more time with his wife and children and in spiritual activities.  

When looking for prospective employees, some employers have gone to groups that are known for their honesty. For example, a company manager in the Philippines wrote to the local office of Jehovah's Witnesses inviting Witnesses to apply for work.  They are "hardworking, honest, and dedicated," he said.  The credit for this, however, goes to Jehovah God, who teaches us to "hate what is bad?" and "to love what is good." -Amos 5:15. 


Next time: TAILOR MADE AND TIMELESS VALUES - SELF-CONTROL

From the AWAKE!  magazine, 2015

IS THE BIBLE RELEVANT TODAY?


'For the first time in my life, I found happiness.'

HILTON loved boxing. At the age of seven, he was getting into fights-both in and out of the ring! When in high school, he would roam about with friends, looking for someone to beat up. "I stole, gambled, watched pornography, harassed women, and swore at my parents," he says.  "My behavior was such that my parents considered me beyond reform. After I finished high school, I left home."

When Hilton returned 12 years later, his parents could hardly believe this was their son!  he was calm, controlled, and respectful. What led to this astonishing transformation? While he was away, he began to reflect seriously on where his life was headed. He also examined the Bible to see if it could help him change his ways.  "I applied what I read in the Bible," said Hilton, "which meant getting rid of my old personality and obeying the command at Ephesians 6:2, 3 to honor my parents. For the first time in my life, I found genuine happiness, and I brought joy to my father and mother, not more heartache!"  

Hilton's story underscores both the relevance and the transforming power of  Bible values.  (Hebrews 4:12)  Let us consider some of those values-namely, honesty, self-control, fidelity, and love-and how they can greatly enrich lives. 

Next time: TAILOR MADE AND TIMELESS VALUES -HONESTY

From the AWAKE! magazine, 2015

Why Commemorate the Death of Jesus?


THE RANSOM-GOD'S GREATEST GIFT

Megan: There's  another detail in this verse that I would like to draw to your attention.

Shirley: What's that?

Megan: Notice that the verse says:  "The gift God gives is everlasting life by Christ Jesus our Lord."  Now, if Jesus is the one who suffered and died for us, giving up his life in our behalf, why does the verse speak of the ransom as "the gift God gives"? Why not,  "the gift Jesus gives"?

Shirley: Hmm, I don't know.

Megan: Well,m God created Adam and Eve,m and he was the one they sinned against when they disobeyed in the garden of Eden. He must have been deeply hurt when his first two human children rebelled against him. But Jehovah immediately stated a solution.  He purposed that one of his spirit creatures  come to the earth, live as a perfect human, and ultimately offer his life as a ransom sacrifice. So really, the entire provision of the ransom  was a gift from God. There's another way too in which the ransom was God's gift. Have you ever thought of what God mush have felt when Jesus was put to death? 

Shirley: No, I guess I haven't.

Megan: I see some toys here in the front yard. You must have children.

Shirley: Yes, I have two-a boy and a girl. 

Megan: As  a parent, stop and think about how Jesus' heavenly Father, Jehovah God, must have felt on the day that Jesus died. I mean, how did he feel watching from heaven as his dear Son was arrested, ridiculed, and struck with fists? And how did the Father feel as his Son was nailed to a wooden stake and left there to die a slow, agonizing death,

Shirley: He must have felt terrible. I never thought of that before? 

Megan: Of course, it's impossible for us to say exactly how God felt on that day. But we do know that he has feelings, and we also know why he allowed all of that to happen. Its explained beautifully for us in a famous scripture, John 3:16. Would you please read that?

Shirley: Yes. It says: "For God so loved the world so much that he gave his only-begotten Son, so that everyone exercising faith in him might not be destroyed but have everlasting life."

Megan: Thank you. Look again at the beginning of that verse. It says:  "God so loved the world."  That's the key-love. Love moved God to sen his Son to earth to die in our behalf. Really, the ransom sacrifice is the greatest expression of love ever. And that's what Jehovah's Witnesses gathered to remember each year on the anniversary of the death of Jesus. Has this review been helpful? 

Shirley: Yes, it has. Thank you for taking the time to go over this with me.  


Next time: IS THE BIBLE RELEVANT TODAY? 

From the Watchtower magazine, 2015

5.27.2015

Conclusion of WHY WAS A RANSOM NEEDED?


Megan: That's right. And when they did-when Adam and Eve chose to disobey God-they sinned. In effect, they chose to become imperfect, to become sinners. That choice would have disastrous consequences not just for Adam and Eve but also for their offspring. 

Shirley: What do you mean? 

Megan: Well, maybe I could use an illustration. Let me ask you, do you like to bake? 

Shirley: Yes! I love to. 

Megan: Let's say that you have a nice new pan for baking bread. Before you have an opportunity to use it even once, though, it falls on the floor and gets a big dent. Now, what will happen to any loaves of bread you bake in that pan? Won't they too have a dent in them? 

Shirley: Yes, of course.

Megan: In a similar way, when Adam and Eve chose to disobey God, they became "dented," or blemished, by sin and imperfection. And because they became sinners before they had any children, all their children would be born with the same "dent."  They would be born in sinful  condition. In the Bible, the word "sin" refers not only to an act but also to the condition that we have inherited.  The end result is that even though you and I hadn't done anything wrong-we hadn't even been born when Adam and Eve sinned-they doomed us and all  their future offspring and ours to a life of imperfection and sin that would end in death. As we read Romans 6:23, the penalty for sin is death.

Shirley That doesn't seem fair. Why should all humans suffer forever because of the sin of Adam and Eve? 

Megan: You're right-it doesn't seem fair. But there is more to it than that. In his perfect justice, God determined that Adam and Eve  should die for their sins, but we as their offspring were not left without hope. God made a way for us to get out of this predicament. That is where the ransom sacrifice of Jesus comes in. Look again at Romans 6:23, after mentioning that "the wages sins pays is death," the verse says;  "But the gift God gives is everlasting life by Christ Jesus our Lord."  So it's the death of Jesus that opens the way for us to escape from sin and death." 

Next time: Why Commemorate the Death of Jesus - THE RANSOM-GOD'S GREATEST GIFT

From the Watchtower magazine, 2015

A CONVERSATION WITH A NEIGHBOR


Why Commemorate the Death of Jesus? 

WHY WAS A RANSOM NEEDED?

Shirley: I've heard people say that Jesus died so that we could have life. But to be honest, I've never really understood how that works.

Megan: You're not alone, Shirley. The subject of Jesus' ransom sacrifice is a deep one.  But it's also one of the most beautiful truths in God's Word.  By the way, how are you doing on time? 

Shirley: I have a few more minutes. 

Megan Good, I've just been reading up on the topic of the ransom, and I will try to explain it in a simple way.

Shirley: OK.

Megan: In order to understand the ransom, we first need to grasp the situation that Adam and Eve created when they sinned in the garden of Eden. To help us comprehend the issue involved, lets read together Romans 6:23. Would you please read that verse? 

Shirley: Sure. It says:  "The wages sin pays is death, but the gift God gives is everlasting life by Christ Jesus our Lord." 

Megan: Thank you. Let's analyze those words. First, notice how the verse begins:  "The wages sin pays is death." This is a simple rule that God set out at the  outset of human history-the wage, or penalty, for sin is death. Of course, in the beginning, no one was a sinner. Adam and Eve were created perfect. so there would have been no reason for anyone to die. Adam and Eve and all their offspring had the prospect of eternal life in happiness. But as we know,m things didn't work out that way, did they?

Shirley: No Adam and Eve ate of the forbidden fruit.  

Next time: Conclusion of WHY WAS A RANSOM NEEDED

From the Watchtower magazine, 2015

A CONVERSATION WITH A NEIGHBOR


Why Commemorate the Death of Jesus?

The following is  a conversation that one of Jehovah's Witnesses might have with a neighbor.  Let us imagine that a Witness named Megan has called at the home of a woman named Shirley. 

"KEEP DOING THIS IN REMEMBRANCE OF ME"

Megan: Hi, Shirley. It was so good to see you at the Memorial of the death of Jesus Christ last week.  What did you think of the meeting? 

Shirley:  I enjoyed being there, but I must admit that I didn't fully understand everything that was said. I've heard of people celebrating the birth of Jesus Christ at Christmas and his resurrection at Easter, but I've never hard of anyone commemorating his death.

Megan: It's true, Christmas and Easter are popular celebrations around the world, but Jehovah's Witnesses feel that it's important to memorialize the death of Jesus. If you have a few minutes, I would be glad to review the reasons for this. 

Shirley: Sure, I have some time. 

Megan: Basically, Jehovah's Witnesses commemorate the death of Jesus because he instructed his followers to do so. Consider what happened on the night before Jesus died.  Do you recall hearing about a special meal that he shared with his faithful followers? 

Shirley: You mean the Last Supper?

Megan: Exactly.  It's also called the Lord's Evening Meal. During that meal, Jesus gave his followers clear instructions. Would you please read his words recorded here at Luke 22:19? 

Shirley: OK.  "Also, he took a loaf, gave thanks, broke it, and gave it to them, saying:  "This means my body, which is to be given in your behalf. Keep doing this in remembrance of me.' " 

Megan: Thank you. Notice Jesus; instructions in the final sentence of that verse:  "Keep doing this in remembrance of me." And right before instructing his followers to remember him, Jesus made it clear what they were to remember about him. He said that his life would be given in behalf of his followers. Jesus expressed this thought in similar terms, as recorded at Matthew 20:18, That verse reads:  "The Son of man came, not to be ministered to, but to minister and to give his life as a ransom in exchange for many."  In a nutshell, that is why Jehovah's Witnesses gather each year on the anniversary of the death of Jesus-to remember the ransom sacrifice that Jesus offered.  His death can mean life for all obedient humans. 

Next time: A CONVERSATION WITH A NEIGHBOR -Why Commemorate the Death  of Jesus? -WHY WAS A RANSOM NEEDED? 

From the Watchtower magazine, 2015

5.26.2015

Rescuing an Ancient Gem From the Trash


Conclusion of WHAT THE RYLANDS FRAGMENT REVEALS

What were the advantages of the codex over the scroll?  Well, the early Christians were evangelizers.  (Matthew 24:14; 28:19, 20) They spread the Bible's message wherever they could find people-in homes, in marketplaces, and on the street.  (Acts 5:42; 17:17; 20:20) So having access to the Scriptures in a compact format was much more practical. 

The codex also made it easier for congregations and individuals to make their own copies of the Scriptures.  Thus,the Gospels were copied over and over again, and this no doubt contributed to the rapid growth of Christianity.  

A second reason why the Rylands fragment is important to us today is that it reveals how reliably the original Bible text was transmitted. Though the fragment contains just a few verses from John's Gospel, its contents agree almost exactly with what we read to day in our own copies of the Bible.  The Rylands fragment thus shows that the Bible  has not been altered despite being copied and recopied over time.

Of course, the Rylands fragment of John's Gospel is but one piece of evidence among the thousands of fragments and manuscripts that confirm the reliable transmission of the original Bible text. In his book, The Bible as History, Werner Keller concluded;  "These old [manuscripts] are the most convincing answer to all doubts as to the genuineness and reliability of the text that we have in our Bibles today. 

True Christians do not base their faith on archaeological finds.  They believe that "all Scripture is inspired of God." (2 Timothy 3:16) Nonetheless, how reassuring it is when priceless gems from the past confirm what the Bible has said all along:  "The saying of Jehovah endures forever"! - 1 Peter 1:25. 

Next time: A CONVERSATION WITH A NEIGHBOR- Why Commemorate the Death of Jesus?

From the Watchtower magazine, 2015

Rescuing an Ancient Gem From the Trash


DETERMINING ITS AGE

Roberts suspected that this papyrus scrap was very old.  But how old? To find out, he compared the handwriting on it with other dated ancient manuscripts-a discipline called paleography.   By applying this method, he was able to assign an approximate age. But he wanted to be sure. So he photographed the fragment, sent copies of it to three papyrologists, and  asked them to determine its age.  What did these experts conclude? 

By studying the style of the script and the strokes, all three of the expert scholars agreed that the fragment had been written in the first half of the second century C.E.-just  a few decades after the apostle John's death!  Paleography, however, is not a foolproof method of dating manuscripts, and another scholar  believes that the text could have been written anytime during the second century. Yet, this tiny scrap of papyrus was-and still is-the oldest existing manuscript fragment of the Christian Greek Scriptures that has ever been found. 

WHAT THE RYLANDS FRAGMENT REVEALS

Why is this fragment of John's Gospel so important to lovers of the Bible today?  For at least two reasons. First of all, the format of the fragment gives us some insight into how the early Christians valued the Scriptures.  In the second century C.E.,written text came in two formats-the scroll and the codex. Scrolls were pieces of papyrus or parchment that were pasted or stitched together to form one long sheet. This sheet could then be rolled up and unrolled whenever needed. In most cases, only one side of the scroll was used for writing. 

However, the tiny fragment that Roberts discovered has handwriting on both sides.  This suggests that  it came from a codex rather than a scroll. A codex was made from sheets of parchment or papyrus that were sewn together and folded in a format resembling a book. 

Next time: Conclusion of WHAT THE RYLANDS FRAGMENT REVEALS

From the Watchtower magazine, 2015

Rescuing and Ancient Gem From the Trash


 WHAT comes to your mind when you think of a rubbish heap?  You likely associate such a sight with refuse and an unpleasant smell. So you would hardly expect to find anything of value there, much less a priceless gem. 

Yet a century ago a treasure of sorts was found in just a place-the trash. The treasure was, not a literal gem, but something of great value.  What kind of treasure was uncovered? Why is its discovery important to us today?

AN UNEXPECTED FIND

At the turn of the 20th century, Bernard P. Grenfell and Arthur S. Hunt, scholars at the University of Oxford, visited Egypt.  There, among the garbage heaps close to the Nile Valley, they discovered a number of papyrus fragments. Later, in 1920, while the two colleagues were busy cataloging the collection, Grenfell acquired some additional fragments that had been dug up in Egypt. He acquired these on behalf of The John Rylands Library in Manchester, England. However, both men died before the catalog was finished. 

Colin H. Roberts, another scholar at Oxford University, completed the task.  While he was sorting the fragments, he spotted a papyrus scrap measuring 3.5    by  2.4 inches (9 x 6 cm) To his amazement, the Greek handwriting contained words that were familiar to him. On one side were words taken from John 18:31-33.  The other side contained parts of verses 37 and 38. Roberts realized  that he had stumbled upon a priceless gem. 

Next time: Rescuing an Ancient Gem From the Trash - DETERMINING ITS AGE

From the Watchtower magazine, 2015

5.25.2015

THE BIBLE CHANGES LIVES


HOW I HAVE BENEFITED:

When I finally received satisfying answers to my questions, I wanted to share them with everyone.  (Matthew 12:35) At first, my family  opposed my new beliefs. In time, though, they softened their attitude. Near the end of my mother's life, she began to study the Bible. Although she did not live long enough to be baptized, I am sure that she had decided to serve Jehovah. 

In 1978, I married a Witness named Elias Kazan. In 1981, Elias and I were invited  to become members of the United States Bethel family. Sadly, after we had served there for just four years, Elias passed away. Though widowed, I remained in my Bethel assignment, which gave me something to focus on and brought me a measure of comfort.

In 2006, I married Richard Eldred, a fellow member of the Bethel family. Richard and I continue to enjoy the privilege of serving at Bethel. Knowing the truth about God, I truly feel that I have found not only the answers I was searching for but also a real purpose in life-and it all started with three questions from a young girl. 

Next time: Rescuing an Ancient Gem From the Trash

From the Watchtower magazine, 2015

THE BIBLE CHANGES LIVES


HOW THE BIBLE CHANGED MY LIFE: 

One summer, I toured Europe with some fellow teachers. We went to Westminster Abbey, Notre-Dame de Paris, and the Vatican, as well as to many smaller churches. Everywhere I went, I asked my questions. After returning home to Sloatsburg New York, I visited a number of churches. But no one could give me satisfying answers.  

One day a 12-year-0ld student approached me and asked me three questions. First, she asked if I knew that she was one of Jehovah's Witnesses.  I said yes. Second, She asked if I would like to know more about Jehovah's Witnesses. Again, I said yes. Third, she asked where I lived. When I told her my address, we learned that I lived around the corner from her family.  Little did I  know that those three questions from a young girl would change my life forever. 

Soon thereafter, she rode her bicycle to my home and started a Bible study with me. I asked her the questions that I had asked many religious leaders. Unlike them, she showed me clear and satisfying answers from  my own Bible-answers that I had never seen before! 

What I learned from the Bible filled me with joy and contentment. I was moved  when I read 1 John 5:19:  "The whole world is lying in the power of the wicked one."  I was relieved to learn that it is, not God, but Satan who causes all the sorrow we see around us-and that God will remedy the situation.  (Revelation 21:3, 4) I discovered  that the Bible makes sense when it is explained clearly. Although the Witness who was studying with me was only 12 years old, I reasoned that the truth is the truth no matter who speaks it. 

Even so, I wanted to see if the Witnesses practiced what they preached. For instance, the young girl emphasized that true Christians display such qualities as patience and kindness.  (Galatians 5:22,23)   I decided to test her to see if she showed those qualities herself. One day, I intentionally arrived late for my study. I wondered: "Will she be waiting for me? And if so, will she be angry that I was late?"  As I pulled into my driveway, I saw her waiting on the front steps of my home.  She ran to my car and said:  "I was about to call home and tell my mother that we need to call the hospitals and the police to see if you're OK because you are never late for your study. I was worried about you!" 

On another occasion, I asked a question that I thought would be too difficult for a 12-year-old girl to answer. I wanted to see if she would just make up an answer.  When I asked the question, she looked at me very seriously and said: "That is a hard question. I am going to write it down and ask my parents." Sure enough, the next time she arrived for our study, she brought an issue of the Watchtower that contained the answer to my question.  This is what drew me to the Witnesses-their publications provided Bible-based answers to all my questions. I continued studying with that young girl, and one year later I was baptized as one of Jehovah's Witnesses." 

Next time: THE BIBLE CHANGES LIVES -HOW I HAVE BENEFITED

From the Watchtower magazine, 2015

THE BIBLE CHANGES LIVES


Three questions changed my life AS TOLD BY DORIS ELDRED

YEAR BORN: 1949

COUNTRY OF ORIGIN: UNITED STATES 

HISTORY: SEARCHING FOR MEANING IN LIFE

MY PAST;  I grew up in Ancram,  a small town in upstate New York, U.S.A. The town consisted of mostly dairy farms. In fact, the town had more cows then people.  

My family attended the only church in town. On Sunday mornings, Grandpa would polish my shoes, and then I would head off to Sunday school with the little white Bible  my grandmother had given me. My siblings and I were taught to work hard, respect and help our neighbors, and be thankful for our blessings.  

When I grew up, I moved away and became a school teacher. I had many questions about God and life. Some of my students were quite gifted. Others were not a gifted but worked very hard.  Some had physical disabilities, while others excelled physically. I felt that the situation was unfair. Sometimes the parents of my less-fortunate students would say things such as,  "This is the way God wants my child to be." I wondered why God would allow some babies to be born  with disabilities. After all, the baby hadn't done anything wrong. 

I also wondered, 'What meaningful thing am I suppose to do with my life?' I felt that  my life was passing quickly. I had grown up in a nice family, I went to good schools, and now I was working at a job that I loved.  But the remainder of  my life seemed empty. At best, I could hope to get married, have a nice home and some children, continue working until I retired, and eventually move into a nursing home. I wondered if there was more to life. 

Next time: THE BIBLE CHANGES LIVES- HOW THE BIBLE CHANGED MY  LIFE

From the Watchtower magazine, 2015

5.24.2015

WOULD YOU LIKE TO STUDY THE BIBLE?


ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS FREQUENTLY ASKED ABOUT OUR BIBLE STUDY PROGRAM


What is the format of the study course?

We take various Bible topics and examine Bible verses that relate to those subjects.  For example, the Bible answers such question as these: Who is God? What is he like? Does he have a name? Where does he live?  Can we draw close to him?  The challenge is knowing where to look in the Bible for the answers.

To help people find the answers, we normally use the 224-page book What Does the Bible Really Teach?  This book was specially designed to help people understand the basic teachings of the Bible.  It includes  lessons on God, Jesus Christ, human suffering, the resurrection, prayer, and many more subjects.  

When and where can the study be held? 

The study can be held at a time and place convenient for you.  

How long are the study sessions? 

Many people set aside an hour or so each week to study the Bible.  But the length of the study is flexible. We will adapt to fit your schedule. Some study for just 10 to 15 minutes each week. 

How much does the course cost?

The course and study materials are free.  This is in line with Jesus' direction to his disciples:  "You receive free, give free." -Matthew 10:8. 

How long does the course last?

The length of the study course depends on you.  The book What Does the Bible Really Teach? contains 19 lessons. You can cover any or all of the lessons at a pace that suits you. 

Do I have to become one of Jehovah's Witnesses?

No, we respectfully recognize that each person has the right to choose what he or she will believe. People who gain knowledge of the Bible, however, can make an  informal choice. 

Where can I get more information?

The Web site jw.org provides accurate information about the beliefs and activities of Jehovah's Witnesses. 

How can I request a Bible study?  

* Submit a request online at  www.jw.org. 

*  Write to the nearest address listed on page two of this magazine.

*  Contact Jehovah's Witnesses near you. You can look for "Jehovah's  Witnesses" in a listing of local telephone numbers. 

Next time: THE BIBLE CHANGES LIVES - Three questions changed my life

From the Watchtower magazine, 2015


WOULD YOU LIKE TO STUDY THE BIBLE?



A BIBLE STUDY PROGRAM FOR ALL

Jehovah's Witnesses are well-known for their public preaching. But did you know that we also conduct a global Bible study program? 

In 2014, over 8,000,000 Witnesses in 240 lands conducted nearly 9,500,000 Bible studies each month.  Indeed, the number of people studying the Bible with us exceeds the individual population of some 140 countries! 

To carry out this educational work, Jehovah's Witnesses publish nearly one and a half billion Bibles, books, magazines, and other Bible study aids each year-in some 700 languages!  this unequaled publishing effort allows people to study the Bible in the language of their choice. 

Next time: WOULD YOU LIKE TO STUDY THE BIBLE? - ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS FREQUENTLY ASKED ABOUT OUR BIBLE STUDY PROGRAM 

From the Watchtower magazine, 2015


WOULD YOU LIKE TO STUDY THE BIBLE?


Conclusion of Why Study the Bible?

"I was curious about the condition of the dead. I believed that the dead could harm the living, but I wanted to  know what the Bible said. So I started studying the Bible with a friend who was a Witness." -Jose', Brazil.

"I tried reading the Bible but could not understand it. Then Jehovah's Witnesses called on me and clearly explained several Bible prophesies. I wanted to see what else I could learn." -Dennize, Mexico. 

 "I wondered if God truly cared about me. So I decided to pray to God of the Bible.  The next day the Witnesses knocked on my door, and I accepted a Bible study." -Anju, Nepal.

Those experiences remind us of Jesus' words:  "Happy are those  conscious of their spiritual need." (Matthew 5:3) Yes, humans have an innate spiritual need. Only God can fill that need, and he does so through his Word, the Bible. 
So what does a Bible study involve?  How can it benefit you? These questions will be answered in the following article.

Next time: A BIBLE STUDY PROGRAM FOR ALL

From the Watchtower magazine, 2015

5.23.2015

WOULD YOU LIKE TO STUDY THE BIBLE?



Why Study the Bible?

What is the purpose of life? 
Why do people suffer and die?
What does the future hold?
Does God care about me?

Have you ever asked yourself questions like those? If so, you are not alone. People around the world are pondering life's big questions. Can you find the answers? 

Millions of people would say, "Yes!" Why? Because they have found satisfying answers  to their questions in the Bible.  Would you like to know what the Bible says?  Then you may wish to benefit from a free Bible study program offered by Jehovah's Witnesses." 

True, when it comes to looking into the Bible, some people say: I'm too busy." "Its too hard." "I'm wary of commitment."  But others take a different view.  They welcome the opportunity to learn what the Bible teaches. Consider just a few example:  

"I attended Catholic and Protestant churches, a Sikh temple, and a Buddhist monastery, and I studied theology at a university. Yet many of my spiritual  questions went unanswered.  Then one of Jehovah's Witnesses called at my home. Impressed by her Bible-based answers,m I agreed to a Bible study." -Gill, England.  

"I had many questions about life, but my church pastor's responses did not satisfy me. However, one of Jehovah's Witnesses answered my questions using the Bible.  When he asked me if I wanted to learn more, I gladly accepted." -Koffi,  Benin.

Next time: WOULD YOU LIKE TO STUDY THE BIBLE? -Conclusion of Why Study the Bible?

From the Watchtower magazine, 2015

THE BIBLE'S VIEWPOINT/VIOLENCE


Will violence ever end?

WHAT PEOPLE SAY  Violence has always been with us and always will be.

WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS  "Just a little while longer, and the wicked will be no more . . .But the meek will possess the earth, and they will find exquisite delight in the abundance of peace." (Psalm 37:10, 11) Yes, in order to save the meek and peaceable, God will do to lovers of violence what he did to ancient Nineveh. Thereafter, violence will never again mar the earth! -Psalm 72:7. 

Now, therefore, is the time to seek God's favor by cultivating a peaceful disposition. Says 2 Peter 3:9:  "Jehovah . . .is patient with you because he doe snot desire anyone to be destroyed but desires all to attain repentance." 

Next time: WOULD YOU LIKE TO STUDY THE BIBLE? - Why Study the Bible?

From the AWAKE! magazine, 2015

THE BIBLE'S VIEWPOINT/VIOLENCE


CAN VIOLENT PEOPLE CHANGE?

WHAT PEOPLE SAY  Violence is simply a reflection of human nature, which does not change. 

WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS  "Put away "wrath, anger, badness, abusive speech, and obscene talk." It also says:  "Strip off the old personality with its practices, and clothe yourselves with the new personality."  ( Colossians 3:8, 10) Is God asking too much of us? No. People can change? How? 

The first step is gaining an accurate knowledge of God.  (Colossians 3:10)  When a person with a receptive heart learns about our Creator's appealing qualities and standards, he is drawn to God in love and wants to please him. -1 John 5:3. 

The second step is related to our choice  of associates.  "Do not keep company with a hot-tempered man or get involved with one disposed to rage, so that you never learn his ways and ensnare yourself." -Proverbs 22:24, 25. 

The third step involves insight. See the inclination toward violence for what it is-a serious weakness that reflects  a lack of self-control. The peaceable, by comparison, have inner strength.  "The one slow to anger is better than a mighty man," says Proverbs 16:32. 

Next time: THE BIBLE'S VIEWPOINT/VIOLENCE - Will violence ever end? 

From the AWAKE! magazine, 2015

5.22.2015

THE BIBLE'S VIEWPOINT / VIOLENCE


                                                                       VIOLENCE

Human history is filled with violence. Will this tragic record continue indefinitely? 

How does God view violence?

WHAT PEOPLE SAY Many, including religious people, feel that violence is a justifiable response to provocation. And millions consider media violence to be  an acceptable form of entertainment. 

WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS Near the city of Mosul, in northern Iraq, lie the ruins of a once great city-Nineveh, the capital of the ancient Assyrian Empire.  While the city was still a thriving metropolis, the Bible foretold that God would "make Nineveh desolate." (Zephaniah 2:13)  "I will make a spectacle of you," God said.   The reason?  Nineveh was a "city of bloodshed." (Nahum 1:1; 3:1, 6) And "Jehovah detests violence l. . .people," states  Psalm 5:6. As Nineveh's ruins testify, God ached on his words. 

Violence originated with the archenemy of both God and man-Satan the Devil, whom Jesus Christ  called "a murderer." (John 8:44) Moreover, because  "the whole world is lying in the power of the wicked one," his traits are reflected in popular attitudes toward violence, including the world's infatuation with media violence. ( 1 John 5:19)  To please God, we must cultivate  a hatred  for violence and a love for what God loves. Is that possible? 

Next time: THE BIBLE'S VIEWPOINT/ VIOLENCE - Can violent people change? 

From the AWAKE! magazine, 2015

FAMILY HELP/ PARENTING -Teaching Children to Obey


WHAT  YOU CAN DO

Take the lead.  Your child will not accept your role as leader unless he sees you taking the lead.So, in a balanced way, you need to assert your authority.  In recent decades, some so-called experts have made the word "authority" sound harsh. One even calls parental authority "unethical" and "immoral."
 But the alternative -permissiveness-can leave children feeling confused, indulged, and entitled.  It does little to prepare them for  responsible adulthood. -Bible principle: Proverbs 29:15. 


Employ discipline.  One dictionary defines discipline as "training which produces obedience or self-control, often in the form of rules and punishments if these are broken."  Of course, discipline should never be unreasonable or abusive. (Note: A spank or two on the butt, is not abusive; it is only when you do not stop and you hit them harder. Some people do not know the difference. I was spanked and I respect my mother for doing so and I knew why she spanked me, I was misbehaving and being bad, you have to start when they young)  On the other hand, it should not be vague or inconsequential, leaving the child with no incentive to change. -Bible principle: Proverbs 23:13.

Be Clear.  Some parents merely ask for their children's obedience.  ("I would like you to clean up your room-OK?") Perhaps they feel that this shows good manners.  That tactic, however, can put the parent in a submissive role and leave the child free  to weigh the pros and cons of the request and then decide whether  to comply. Rather than abdicate your authority, give clear direction  in the form of statements. -Bible principle: 1 Corinthians 14:9. 

Note: If you don't discipline them right, they will walk all over you and then will never listen to anything you have to say) 

Be decisive.   If you say no, stick to that, and present a united front with your spouse. If you have decided  on a consequence for disobedience, follow through. Do not get embroiled in negotiations or endlessly discuss why you made a decision. It will be  much easier for your child-and for you-if you just "let your 'Yes' mean yes and your 'No,' no." -James 5:12. 

Be loving.  The family is neither a democracy nor a dictatorship. Rather,m it is a God-given arrangement in which children can be lovingly guided toward responsible adulthood. As part of that process, discipline will teach your child to obey and help them feel secure in your love. 

Next time: THE BIBLE'S VIEWPOINT/ VIOLENCE - How Does God View Violence?

From the AWAKE! magazine, 1015

HELP FOR THE FAMILY/ PARENTING


Teaching Children to Obey

THE CHALLENGE

You and your four-year-old keep getting locked in  a battle of wills, and you child always seems to win. 

* When you tell him to do something he does not want to do, he ignores you.

*  When you tell him not to do something he wants to do, he throws a tantrum. 

'Is this only a phase?' you wonder. 'Should I just hope that he grows out of it?

You can teach your child to obey. But before we discuss how, consider one possible reason for his misbehavior. 

WHY IT HAPPENS 

When your child was a newborn, your primary role was that of caregiver. You were at your child's beck and call. All he had to do was whimper, and you came running, anxious to cater to his every need. Of course, such a response was proper and necessary. A newborn or infant needs a parent's constant attention. 

After many months of that treatment, however, it is only natural that a child will act as if he were the master of the house and his parents the servants who are there to do his bidding.  Then, usually by two years of age, the child becomes aware of a harsh reality: his little "autocracy" has crumbled. His parents no longer follow his orders: they expect  him to follow theirs.  This is a rude awakening for children!  Some respond by throwing tantrums. Others test their parents' authority by refusing to obey.  

At that critical time, a parent needs to assume a new role-that of an authority figure who gives clear direction as to what is expected of the child. But what if the child ignores  or rejects  that direction, as depicted in the opening scenario? 

Next time: HELP FOR THE FAMILY / PARENTING - Teaching Children to  Obey/WHAT YOU CAN DO

From the AWAKE! magazine, 2015