Build a Strong and Happy Marriage

One of the crucial building blocks of an enduring marriage is forgiveness.  The marital union is strengthened when husbands and wives "continue putting up with one another and forgiving one another freely." (Colossians 3:13) On the other hand, the marriage relationship is undermined when a couple keep a mental record of old grudges and often use them as ammunition for fresh attacks. Just as cracks can weaken a building, grievances and resentment can develop in our heart, making it increasingly difficult to be forgiving.  By contrast, strong marriage bonds are forged when husband and wife treat each other in a forgiving way, as Jehovah treats them. -Micah 7:18, 19. 

True love "does not keep account of wrongs."  In fact,  "love covers a multitude of sins." (1 Corinthians 13:4, 5; Read  1 Peter 4:8) In other words, love does not put a limit on the number of sins that we can forgive. When the apostle Peter asked how may times he should forgive someone, Jesus replied:  "Up to 77 times." (Matthew 18:21, 22) He was showing that there is virtually no limit to the number of times a Christian should forgive others. -Proverbs 10:12. 

"If a couple do not want to be forgiving," says Annette, "resentment and mistrust grow, and that is poison to a marriage.  Being forgiving strengthens the bonds of marriage and draws you closer together."  To counteract a tendency to be unforgiving, work on having a thankful and appreciative disposition. Make a practice of giving your spouse sincere commendation.  (Colossians 3:15) Experience the peace of mind, unity, and divine blessings that come to those who have a forgiving disposition. -Romans 14:19. 

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From the Watchtower magazine, 2015