12 Secrets of Successful Families - 5. Communications

WHAT IT MEANS

Genuine communication takes place when you and your  children share a two-way exchange of thoughts and feelings.

WHY IT MATTERS

Communication can become especially challenging with teenagers.  Perhaps not long ago,  "it was like you had a backstage pass to your children's lives," says the book Breaking the Code.  "Now the best you can hope for is a seat out in the audience, and it probably won't even be a very good seat."  Contrary to appearances, when this happens children need communication the most!

WHAT YOU CAN DO

Adapt your children's timetable.  Do so even if that means late-night conversations. "You might feel like saying, 'Now you want to talk?  I was with you all day!'  But how can we complain if our children want to open up to us?  Isn't that what every parent hopes for?" -Lisa.

"I like my sleep, but some of the best conversations  I've had with my teenagers have been after midnight." -Herbert.

 Next time: 12 Secrets of Successful Families - Conclusion of 5. Communication

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