12 Secrets of Successful Families -Conclusion of 4. Forgiveness

WHAT YOU CAN DO

TEST YOURSELF

The next time you are hurt by something your spouse has said or done, ask yourself: 

* 'Am I only sensitive?

* 'Is the offense so serious that I need an apology, or can I just overlook it?'

DISCUSS WITH YOUR SPOUSE

* How long does it usually take for us to forgive each other?

* What can we do to get to the point of forgiveness quicker?

TIPS

* When you are offended, not not attribute bad motives to your spouse.

* Try to excuse your spouse's behavior, remembering that "we all stumble many times." - JAMES  3:2.

"Its easy to forgive when we're both at fault, but it's more difficult when the offense seems one-sided.  Accepting an apology and forgiving takes true humility." -Kimberly.

BIBLE PRINCIPLE:  "Be quick to settle matters." - MATTHEW 5:25. 

Next time:  12 Secrets of Successful Families - 5. Communication

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