CONSIDER WHAT JEHOVAH THINKS

 How can we be sure that our decision will please Jehovah? First of all, we need to get to know him well. "Knowledge of the Most Holy One is understanding," the Bible says. (Proverbs 9:10) Yes, true understanding comes from knowing Jehovah's qualities, his purpose, and what he loves or hates. Ask yourself, 'Knowing what I do about Jehovah, what decision can I make that will please him?' - Read EPHESIANS 5:17. 

In order to please Jehovah, we must at times disappoint those who close to us. For example, some well-meaning parents may insist that their daughter marry a man who is financially well-off-or one who can pay a large dowry-even though he is not spiritually strong. True, they want their daughter to be cared for materially, but who will help her progress as a spiritual person? How does Jehovah view the matter? We find the answer at Matthew 6:33. There Christians are urged to keep "seeking first the Kingdom." Although we honor our parents and respect the people in our community, our main concern is to make Jehovah happy.

Next time: WEIGH THE OPTIONS

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