WEIGH THE OPTIONS - Conclusion

 Discernment also moves us to consider how our decision might affect other people so that we can avoid "stumbling others." (Philippians 1:10) This is important when we make personal decisions in such areas as dress and grooming. For example, we may prefer a particular style of clothing or grooming. What if others inside or outside the congregation would be offended by it? Discernment will help us to respect their feelings. Love will motivate us to see the advantage of "the other person" and to be modest. (1 Corinthians 10:23, 24, 32; 1 Timothy 2:9, 10) We will then make a decision that reflects our love and respect for others.

If you are making a major decision, think about what it would take to implement it. Jesus taught us to "calculate the expense." (Luke 14:28) So consider the amount of time, resources, and effort that you would need to invest to make the decision work. In some cases, you might consult your family to determine what each member would need to support the decision. Why is this kind planning valuable? It may reveal that your decision needs some adjustments or that a different option is more practical. And when you involve your family member and listen to their input, they will more readily work with you to make a decision succeed.  - PROVERBS 25:22.

Next time: MAKE A DECISION THAT WILL SUCCEED

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