How to Age Gracefully

BE FRIENDLY: 

"Whoever isolates himself pursues his own selfish desires; he rejects all practical wisdom." (Proverbs 18:1) While there are times when you may want to be alone, avoid becoming isolated and withdrawn. Innocent, 72, in Nigeria, enjoys the company of friends.  "I joyfully associate  with people of all ages." Borje, 85, in Sweden, says:  "I strive  to be around young people.  Their vitality makes me feel young again-at least on the inside."  Take the initiative to invite friends over occasionally. Han-sik, 72, in South Korea, says:  "My wife and I like to invite friends of all ages-elderly ones and teenagers-for a get together or dinner." 

Friendly people are communicative. But since communication is a two-way street, you need to make it a point to be good company. Show personal interest in others. Helena, 71, in Mozambique, says:  "I am friendly and treat others with dignity. I listen to what the have to say in order to find out what they think and what they like."  Jose',73, in Brazil, says:  "People enjoy being around good listeners-those who show empathy and interest in others, who give a word of commendation at the right time, and who have a sense of humor." 

When expressing your thoughts, take care to 'season your words with salt.' (Colossians 4:6) Be thoughtful and encouraging.

Next time: How to Age Gracefully - BE THANKFUL

From the Watchtower magazine, 2015