12 Secrets for Successful Families-6.Discipline

WHAT IT MEANS 

The word discipline can mean to guide or to teach.  At times, that includes correcting a child's misbehavior.  Often, though, it involves imparting moral training that helps a child learn to make good choices in the first place.

WHY IT MATTERS

In recent decades, discipline has all but disappeared from some  households, as parents fear that correction might lower a child's self-esteem.   However, wise parents set reasonable rules and train their children to abide by them.

"Children need boundaries to help them grow into well-rounded adults.Without disciple, children are like a rudderless ship-which will eventually go off course or even capsize." -Pamela.

WHAT YOU CAN DO

Be consistent.  If your child does not adhere to your rules, enforce consequences.  On the other hand, readily command your child when he or shie complies.

"I frequently commend my children for being obedient in a world where obedience is so rare.  Commendation makes it easier for them to accept correction when it is needed." -Christine. 

Next time: 12 Secrets for Successful Families - Conclusion of 6. Discipline

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