How to Be a Good Father - 3. Give Loving Discipline and Loving Commendation

Even when you feel frustrated or angry, the discipline you administer should be an expression of loving concern for the long-term welfare of your child.  It includes advice, correction, education and chastisement when needed.

Furthermore, discipline is much more effective when a father commends his children regularly.  And ancient proverb says: As apples of gold in silver carvings s  world spoken at the right time for it." (Proverbs 25:11)  Commendation enriches a child's character. Children blossom when they are acknowledged and appreciated.  A father who looks for opportunities to give commendation will help to build confidence in his children and motivate them not to give up trying to do what is right.

Bible Principle: "You fathers, do not exasperate your children, so that they do not become downhearted." -COLOSSIANS 3:21.

4. Love and Respect Your Wife

The way a father exercises his role as a husband is certain to affect children. One group of experts on child development explains:  "One of the best things a father can do  for his children is to respect their mother. . . . A father and mother who respect each other and let their children know  it provides a secure environment for them." - The Importance of Fathers in the Health Development of Children.

Bible Principle: "Husbands continue loving you wives . . . Let each one of you individually so love his wife as he does himself." - EPHESIANS 5:25, 33.

Next time: How to Be a Good Father - 5. Apply God's Practical Wisdom

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