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After about an hour, Justice Mollen said that the case would be first on the docket the next morning. As we were leaving his chambers, Justice Mollen said that the hospital's attorney  had a heavy burden tomorrow." This meant that the attorney would be hard-pressed to defend his position.  I felt that  was reassuring me that our case was strong.  I was humbled to think  that Jehovah was using us to accomplish his will.

We worked into the night preparing our argument for the next morning. The courthouse is just a few blocks from Brooklyn Bethel, so most of those from our small Legal Office walked there.  After the four-justice panel heard our arguments, the canceled the transfusion.  The high court ruled in Sister Nicoleau's favor and established that the common practice of obtaining an order or a hearing without notice was a violation of fundamental constitutional rights.

New York's highest court ultimately affirmed Sister Nicoleau's right to be treated without blood. It was the first of four blood-related decisions by high state courts that I hgave had the  privilege to share in.  I have also joined other attorneys at Bethel in cases involving child custody, divorce, real estate, and zoning. 

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I Have Done What I Ought to Have Done - By Don Ridley - DEFENDING THE RIGHTS FOR BLOODLESS MEDICAL TREATMENT

In the 1980's,  it was not uncommon for doctors and hospitals to override the request of an adult Witnesses to be treated without blood products.  Pregnant women faced greater obstacles because judges often felt that the women had no legal right to turn down a transfusion.  Judges reasoned that if a transfusion was not administered, the infant might be left without a mother. 

On December 29, 1988, Sister Denise Nicoleau suffered severe hemorrhaging after giving birth to her son. Her hemoglobin dropped below 5.0, and her physician asked her for her consent to transfuse blood.  Sister Nicoleau refused.  The next morning the hospital sought to obtain a court order authorizing the hospital staff a hearing or even informing Sister Nicoleau or her husband, the judge authorized the hospital to administer the transfusions. 

On Friday, December 30, the hospital staff transfused Sister Nicoleau despite the objections of her husband and other family members who were at her bedside.  That evening, several family members and one of two elders were arrested for allegedly forming a human wall around Sister Nicoleau's bed to prevent the transfusions.  On Saturday morning, December 31, the New York City and Long Island news outlets were reporting the arrests. 

On Monday morning, I spoke with the presiding justice, Milton Mollen. I described the facts of the case, stressing that the trial  judge had signed the transfusion order without a hearing. Justice Mollen asked me to come to his office later that afternoon to discuss the facts and relevant law.  My overseer Philip Brumley accompanied me to Justice Mollen's chambers that evening. The judge also invited the hospital's attorney to join us. Our discussion was heated. At one point, Brother Brumley made a not on his legal pad telling me that I should  "tone it down."  In hindsight, that was good counsel because I was getting very worked up in refuting the attorney's  arguments.

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I Have Done What I Ought to Have Done By Don Ridley - Conclusion of LEARNING THE TRUTH

After  completing some employment obligation, I started my Bethel service in Brooklyn, New York, in 1984.  I was assigned to the Legal Office.  For me, the timing could not have been better. 

The Stanley Theater in Jersey City, New Jersey, was purchased in November 1983.  The brothers applied for permits to renovate the building's electrical and plumbing systems.  When they met with the local officials, the brothers explained that they had intended to use the Stanley Theater as a convention hall for Jehovah's Witnesses. That posed a problem.  The city's zoning ordinance restricted houses of worship to residential neighborhoods. The Stanley Theater was in the downtown business district, so the city officials refused to issue the permits. The brothers appealed the decision, but the appeal was denied.

During my first week at Bethel, the organization filed a lawsuit in the federal district court, challenging the denial of the permits. Because I had just finished my two-year clerkship in the federal district court in St. Paul, Minnesota, I was very familiar with the arguments presented. One of our attorneys argued that the Stanley Theater had been used for various public events, from movies to rock concerts.  Why, then, should it be illegal to have a religious event?  The federal district court considered the matter and ruled that Jersey City had violated our religious liberty.  The court ordered the city the needed permits, and I started to see how Jehovah blessed his organization's use of illegal means to advance his work. I was so happy to have had a share in it.

The brothers launched a massive renovation project, and the graduation of the 79th class of Gilead was held in the New Jersey Assembly Hall on September 98, 1985, less than a year after the renovation started. I felt privileged to be able to advance Kingdom interests as part of the legal team, and the satisfaction I felt far surpassed any feeling that I had experienced in connection with a legal endeavor prior to my coming to Bethel. Little did I know that Jehovah had many more such privileges in store for me.

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I Have Done What I Ought to Have Done -By Don Ridley - LEARNING THE TRUTH

During my first year at William Mitchell College of Law, Jehovah's Witnesses called at my home.  I was busy doing mt laundry, and the couple graciously agreed to return.  When they did, I had two questions waiting for them:  "Why don't good people get ahead in the world?" and "What does it take to be happy? I accepted the book The Truth That Leads to Eternal Life. and the New World Translation of the Holy Scriptures, with its eye-catching green cover.  I also agreed to a Bible study.  This really opened my eyes. I was impressed with the idea that God's Kingdom is a much-needed government that will administer mankind's affairs on earth.  I could see the human self-rule had been a complete failure and that it left a world full of pain, suffering, injustice, and tragedy.  

I dedicated myself to Jehovah in early 1982 and got baptized later that year at  the "Kingdom Truth" Convention help at St. Paul Civic Center.  I returned to the civic center the following week to take the Minnesota exam . In early October, I learned thaqt I had passed the exam, which qualified me to practice law.

 At that "Kingdom Truth" Convention, I met Mike Richardson, a Brooklyn Bethelite, who explained that a legal office had been established at headquarters. I remembered the words of the Ethiopian eunuch at Acts 8:36 and asked myself, "What prevents me from asking to work at the legal office?  So I applied for Bethel service.

My parents were not happy that I had become one of Jehovah's Witnesses.  My dad asked me what working for Watchtower would do for my legal career. I explained that I would be doing a volunteer work. I told him I would be given $75 a month, which was the monthy reimbursement for Bethelites. 

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Life Story: I Have Done What I Ought to Have Done as told by Don Ridley

FOR over three decades, Donald Ridley represented the legal interest of Jehovah's Witnesses.  He was instrumental in defining  the rights of patients to refuse blood products.  His work led to several state supreme court victories.  Known to his friends as Don, he was intelligent, humble, and self-sacrificing. 

In 2019, Don was diagnosed with a rare neurological disease for which there is not cure.  The disease progressed rapidly, and he died on August 16, 2019.  This is his story. 

I was born in St. Paul Minnesota, U.S.A., in 1954 to a middle-class, Roman Catholic family.  I am the second oldest of five children.  I attended a Catholic elementary school, and I was an altar boy.  Still, I had very little Bible knowledge. Although I believed that there must be a God who created everything, I lost all faith in the church.

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Keep Walking in the Truth - HELP ONE ANOTHER TO REMAIN IN THE TRUTH

To help our brothers and sisters to remain in the truth, we must show compassion. (1 John 3:10, 11, 16-18)  We need to love one another not only when things are going well but also when  problems arise.  For example, do you know someone who has lost a loved one death and needs to be comforted or helped in practical ways?  Or have you heard that fellow believers suffered loss from a nautical disaster and need help to rebuild their Kingdom Halls or homes?  We show the depth of our love and compassion for our brothers and sisters not only by what we say but, more important, by what we do.

We imitate our loving heavenly Father when we show love for one another.  (Read 1 John 4:7, 8.) An important  way that we show love is by forgiving one another.  For example, someone might hurt us but then apologize.  We  show love by forgiving him and putting his error behind us.  (Colossians 3:13)  A brother named Aldo faced this test when he heard a brother whom he respected make a hurtful comment about his ethnic background. Aldo says, "I constantly prayed to Jehovah to help me not have negative feelings toward this  brother."  But Aldo did something else. He decided to ask the brother to go out in services with him.  As they worked together, Aldo explained  how he was affected by the remark.  "When the brother heard how I felt about his hurtful comment," says Aldo, "he apologized.  From the tone of his voice, I could sense how much he regretted what he had said.  We parted as friends and put the problem behind us." 

The apostle John felt a deep, loving concern for the spiritual welfare of his brothers, and that feeling is clearly reflected in the counsel he gave in his three inspired letters.  How encouraging it is to know that men and women, like him, are anointed to be co-rulers with Christ! - 1 JOHN 2:27. 

We may take to heart the counsel we  have discussed.  Let us be determined to walk in the truth, obeying Jehovah in all respects of our life.  Study his Word, and put your trust in it. Build strong faith in Jesus.  Reject human philosophies and apostate teachings.  Resist the pressure to live in a double life and to give in to sin. Live by Jehovah's high moral standards. And let us help our brothers remain strong by forgiving those who hurt us and helping those in need.  Then, despite the struggles we face, we will keep walking in the truth. 

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Keep Walking in the Truth - Conclusion of WHAT OBSTACLES DO WE FACE?

We acknowledge that Jehovah has the right to define what is sinful conduct.  And we do our best not to commit a sin.  But when we do sin, we confess our wrongdoing to Jehovah in prayer. (Read 1 John 1:9.) And if we commit a serious sin, we seek the help of the elders, whom Jehovah has appointed to care for us.  (James 5:14-16)However, we should not be consumed by feelings of guilt over past mistakes.  Why not? Because our loving Father provided the ransom sacrifice of his Son so that our sins can forgiven.  When Jehovah says that he will forgive repentant sinners, he means what he says.  So there is nothing to stop us from serving Jehovah with a clean conscience.  - 1 JOHN 2:1, 2, 12; 3:19, 20.

We must reject apostate teachings.  Since the beginning of the Christian congregation,the Devil has been  using many deceivers to plant doubts in the minds of God's faithful servants. As a result, we need to know how to discern the difference between facts and lies.  Our enemies may use the Internet or social media to try to undermine our trust in Jehovah and our love for our brothers.  Remember who is behind such propaganda, and reject it! - 1 JOHN 4:1; Revelation 12:9. 

To resist Satan's attacks, we need to deepen our trust in Jesus and in the role he plays in God's purpose. We also need to trust in the only channel that Jehovah is using today.  (Matthew 24:45-47) We deepen our trust by regularly studying God's Word.  Then our faith will be like a tree that has roots that go deep into the ground. Paul made a similar point when writing to the Colossian congregation.  He said: "Just as you have accepted Christ Jesus the Lord, go on walking in union with him, being rooted and built up in him and being stabilized in the faith." (Colossians 2:6. 7) There is nothing Satan or those influenced by him can do that will destabilize a Christian who has strengthened his own faith. - 2 JOHN 8:9.

We must expect to be hated by the world.  (1 John 3:13)  John reminds us that "the whole world is lying in the power of the wicked one." (1 John 5:19) As this system draws to an end, Satan's anger grows hotter. (Revelation 12:12) He uses  more than subtle forms of attack, such as the lure of immorality or the lies of apostates.  He will also use brute force.  Satan knows that he has only a short period of time to try to stop our preaching work or to break our faith. It is no surprise, then,  that our work is restricted or banned in a number of countries. Even so, our brothers and sisters in those  lands are enduring.  They are proving that no matter what the wicked one throws at us, we can be victorious!

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Keep Walking in the Truth - WHAT OBSTACLES DO WE FACE?

All Christians must be on guard against being misled by human philosophy. (1 John 2:26)  Young Christians in particular need to beware of this trap. Alexia, a 25-year-old French sister says: "When I was younger, I was troubled by the world's  reasonings, such the theory of evolution and human philosophy. At times, those teachings appealed to me. But I felt that I could not just listen to what I was being taught in school and not give Jehovah a chance to speak. Alexia studied the book Life-How Did it Get Here? By Evolution or by Creation?  Within a few weeks, her doubts vanished. Alexia says: "I proved to myself that the Bible contains the truth. And I realized that  living by its standards would give me joy and peace.

All Christians, young and old, must resist the pressure to live a double life.  John pointed out that we cannot be walking in the truth and at the same time be living an immoral life.  (1 John 1:6)  If we are to have God's approval now and in the future, we need to behave as if everything we do were under a spotlight.  In a sense there is no such thing as a secret sin because everything  we do is visible to Jehovah. - Hebrews 4:13. 

We have to reject the world's view of sin. The apostle John wrote: "If we make the statement, 'We have no sin,' we are misleading ourselves." (1 John 1:8) In John's day, apostates claimed that a person could deliberately follow a course of sin and still have a relationship with God. Today, we are living among people who have a similar view.  Many claim to believe in God, but they do not agree with Jehovah's view of sin, especially when it involves the subject of sex.  What Jehovah views as sinful conduct they call a personal preference, or an alternative lifestyle. 

Young Christians in particular may feel pressured to accept their classmates or workmates' views of immoral conduct.  That is what happened to Aleksandar.  He recalls: "Some girls at school tried to pressure me into having sex  with them.  They said that since I did not have girlfriend, I ust be a homosexual." If you face similar tests, remember that when you stick to your Bible-based convictions, you protect yourself self-respect, your health, your emotional well-being, and your relationship with Jehovah. And each time you resist temptation, it will get easier  for you to do what is right.  Remember, too, that this world's  twisted view of sex originates with Satan.  So when you refuse to compromise, you conquer the wicked one.' - 1 JOHN 2:14. 

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Keep Walking in the Truth - The Background to John's Letters

When the apostle John wrote his letters, he was concerned about false teachers who had come into the congregation and were trying to mislead Christ's followers. Both the apostle Paul and the apostle Peter had warned this would happen.  (Acts 20:29, 30; 2 Peter 2:1-3) These false teachers may have been influenced by Greek philosophy.  Some apparently claimed to have received a special, mystical knowledge from God.  But their teaching contradicted Jesus' message and encouraged selfishness and a lack of love.  So John calls these teachers antichrists, or those who teach against Christ. - 1 JOHN 2:18. 

WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO WALK IN THE TRUTH?

To walk in the truth, we need to know the truth found in God's Word, the Bible. In addition, we must "observe [Jehovah's ] commandments,"  that is, we need to obey them. (1 John 2:3-6; 2 John 4, 6.) Jesus set the perfect example of obeying Jehovah. So one important way that we obey Jehovah is by following Jesus' steps as closely as possible. - JOHN 8:29; 1 PETER 2:21.

To keep walking in the truth, we must be convinced that Jehovah is the God of truth, that everything he tells us in his Word, the Bible, is true. And we must also be convinced that Jesus is the promised Messiah.  Many today doubt that Jesus has been anointed  as King of God's Kingdom. John warned that there were "many deceivers," who could mislead those who were not prepared to defend the truth about Jehovah and Jesus.  (2 John 7:11) John wrote: "Who is the liar but the one who denies that Jesus is the Christ?"  (1 John 2:22)  The only way we can avoid being deceived is by studying God's Word. Only if we do that will we come to know Jehovah and Jesus.  (John 17:3) And only then will we be convinced that we have the truth.

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Keep Walking in the Truth

"No greater joy do I have than this: that I should hear that my children go on walking in the truth." - 3 JOHN 4.

CAN you imagine how happy the apostle John felt when he heard that those whom he had helped to learn the truth were continuing to serve Jehovah faithfully?  They faced many problems, and John was working hard to strengthen the faith of these loyal Christians whom he viewed as his spiritual children. Similarly, we feel happy when our children, whether natural or spiritual dedicate themselves to Jehovah and persevere in serving him. - Read 3 JOHN 4.

In 98 C.E., John was likely living in or near Ephesus. He may have moved there after being released from exile from the island of Patmos. About that time, Jehovah's holy spirit moved him to write three letters.  The purpose of those letters was to motivate loyal Christians to maintain their faith in Jesus and to keep on walking in the truth.

John was the last living apostle, and he was concerned about the effect that false teachers were having on the congregations. (1 John 2:18, 19, 26) Those apostates claimed to know God, but they did not obey Jehovah's commands. Let us consider the inspired counsel John gave. As we do will answer three questions: What does it mean to walk in the truth?  What obstacles do we face? And how can we help one another to remain in the truth?

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"When I Am Weak, Then I Am Powerful" - ACCEPT HELP FROM OTHERS

Before the apostle Paul became a disciple of Christ, he was an insolent young man who  persecuted Jesus' followers. (Acts 7:58; 1 Timothy 1:13)  Jesus himself stopped Paul, then known as Saul, from terrorizing the Christian congregation. Jesus  spoke to Paul from heaven and struck him blind.  To recover his sight, Paul was forced to seek help from the very people he had been persecuting. He humbly accepted assistance from a disciples named Ananias who restored Paul's sight. - ACTS 9:3-9, 17, 18.

Paul later became a prominent member of the Christian congregation, but he never forgot the lesson Jesus taught him on the road to Damascus. Paul remained humble, and he willingly accepted the help of his brothers and sisters. He acknowledged that they were "a strengthening aid" to him. - COLOSSIANS 4:10, 11.

What can we learn from Paul?  When we first began to associate with Jehovah's people, we may have been eager to accept help from others, realizing that we were spiritual  infants and had a lot to learn.  (1 Corinthians 3:1, 2)   But what about now?  If we have been serving Jehovah for many years and have gained a lot of experience, we may not be ready to accept help, especially if it is offered by someone who has not been in the truth as long as we have. However, Jehovah often uses our brothers and sisters to strengthen us.  (Romans 1:11, 12)  We must recognized that fact if we are to gain the power that Jehovah supplies.

Paul accomplished some remarkable things after becoming a  Christian. Why?  Because he learned that success depends, not on a person's strength, education, wealth, or social background, but on his humility and reliance on Jehovah.  May all of us imitate Paul (1) by relying on Jehovah, (2) by learning from Bible examples, and (3) by accepting help from fellow believers.  Then, no matter how weak we may feel, Jehovah will make us powerful.

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"When I Am Weak, Then I Am Powerful" - Conclusion of LEARN FROM BIBLE EXAMPLES

Despite the unjust way that he was treated by King Saul, David continued  to show respect for Jehovah's anointed King. (1 Samuel 24:6) David did not blame Jehovah for the bad things that Saul did.  Instead, David relied on Jehovah to give him the strength he needed  to endure this difficult trial. - PSALM 18:1.

The apostle Paul faced a situation similar to that of David. Paul's enemies were vastly more powerful than he was.  Many influential leaders of his day hated him. Often, they had him beaten and thrown into jail.  Like David, Paul was treated badly by people who should have been friends.   Some in the Christian congregation even opposed him. (2 Corinthians 12:11; Philippians 3:18)  But Paul conquered all who fought against him. How? He continued preaching despite opposition. He remained loyal to his brothers and sister even when they disappointed him.  And above all, he was faithful to God to the end of his life. (2 Timothy 4:8) He overcame great odds, not because he was physically strong, but because he relied on Jehovah.

Do you have to deal with insults or persecution from classmates, work associates, or non-witness family members? Have you been treated badly by someone in the congregation?  If so, remember the examples of David and Paul.  You can keep "conquering the evil with the good." (Romans 12:21) Your goal is, not to sink a stone into someone's fore head as David did, but to embed God's Word in receptive minds and hearts. You can achieve that goal by relying on the Bible to answer people's questions, by being respective and kind to those who treat you badly, and by doing good to all, even your enemies. - MATTHEW 5:44; 1 PETER 34:15-17.

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"When I Am Weak, Then I am Powerful" - LEARN FROM BIBLE EXAMPLES

Paul was an earnest student of the Scriptures.  He learned a lot of facts, but he also learned from the examples of the people whose experiences are recorded in God's Word.  When writing to Hebrew Christians, Paul asked them to think about the examples set by a long line of faithful servants of Jehovah. (Read Hebrews 11:32-34.) Consider just one of these servants, King David. He had to deal with opposition not only from his servants but also from some who at one time were his friends. As we look at David's example, we will see what strength Paul may have draw from meditating  on David's life and how he can imitate Paul. 

David was viewed as weak by the physically powerful warrior Goliath.  When Goliath saw  David, he "sneered at him in contempt"  After all, Goliath was bigger, better equipped, and better trained for war.  David, on the other hand, was just an inexperienced boy who seemed to be poorly equipped for battle.  But David turned what seemed to be a weakness into a strength. He relied on Jehovah for power, and he defeated his enemy. 1 SAMUEL 17:41-45, 50.

David had to deal with another challenge that could have made him feel weak and powerless.  David loyally served the one whom Jehovah had appointed as king of Israel, Saul, King Saul at first respected David.  Later on, pride caused Saul to become jealous of David. Saul treated David badly, even trying to kill him.

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"When I Am Weak, Then I Am Powerful" - DO NOT RELY ON YOUR OWN STRENGTH

One lesson we learned from Paul's example is this:  Do not rely on your own strength or abilities when serving Jehovah.  From a human standpoint, Paul had reason to be a  proud, self-reliant man. He grew up in Tarsus, the capital city of a Roman province.  Tarsus was  prosperous and a famous seat of learning.  Paul was well-educated-he was taught  by one of the most respected Jewish leaders of  his day, a man named Gamaliel. (Acts 5:34; 22:3)  And at one point, Paul had some influence in the Jewish community. He said: "I was making greater progress in Judaism than many of my own age in my nation." (Galatians 1:13, 14; Acts 26:4) But Paul did not rely on himself. 

Paul gladly gave up the things that made him powerful by the world's standards.  In fact, he came to view the seeming advantages that he formerly had as "a lot garbage." (Read Philippians  3:8) Paul paid a price for becoming a following of Christ. He was hated by his own nation. (Acts 23:12-14) And he was beaten and imprisoned by his fellow citizens, the Romans. (Acts 16:19-24, 37) In addition, Paul became painfully aware of his own limitations.  (Romans 7:21-25)  But rather allow his opponents tor his own shortcomings to cripple him, he took "pleasure in weaknesses." Why? Because it was when he was weak that ge saw God's power at work in his life. - 2 CORINTHIANS 4:7; 12:10. 

If we want to gain power from Jehovah, we must not think that physical strength, education, cultural background, or material wealth determine how valuable we are.  These things are not what makes us useful to Jehovah.  In fact, not many of God's people  are "wise in a fleshly way, not many powerful, not many of noble birth."  Instead, Jehovah has chosen to use  "the weak things of the world." (1 Corinthians 1:26, 27) So do not view any supposed disadvantages as obstacles to serving Jehovah.  Instead, view them as opportunities, a chance to see Jehovah's power working through you.  For  example, if you feel intimated by those who try to make you doubt your beliefs, pray for Jehovah to give you boldness when defending your faith.  (Ephesians 6:19, 20)  If you are struggling to cope with a chronic disability, ask Jehovah to give you the strength you need to stay as busy as you can in his service.  Each time you see Jehovah help you, your faith grows and you become stronger. 

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"When I Am Weak, Then I Am Powerful"

Did those early Christian allow the negative view of their opposers to stop them?  No. The apostles Peter and John, for example, viewed it as an honor to be persecuted for following Jesus and sharing his teachings. (Acts 4:18-21; 5:27-29, 40-42) The disciples had no reason to feel ashamed.  In the long run, those first-century Christians did more good for mankind than the opposers did. For example, the inspired books written by some of those Christians continue to give help to millions of people. And the Kingdom they promoted not only is in existence  but will soon rule all of mankind> (Matthew 24:14)  By comparison,  the great political power that persecuted the Christians has collapsed into the ash heap of history, whereas those loyal disciples  are not kings in heaven. Their opposers, however, are dead; and if they are ever resurrected, they will be subjects of the Kingdom that was promoted by the Christians whom they hated.

Today, as Jehovah's people, we are sometimes looked down on and ridiculed as being unintelligent and weak.  Why?  Because we do not agree with the attitudes of those around us. We try to be humble, meek and obedient.  The world, on the other hand, admires the proud, the arrogant, and the rebellious.  In addition, we do not get involved in politics, and we do not join the military forces of any country. We not fit into the world's mold, so we are considered to be inferior  to others. - Read JOHN 15:19; ROMANS 12:2/

Despite what the world thinks of us, Jehovah is achieving extraordinary things with us.  He is accomplishing the greatest preaching campaign in human history.  His servants today produce the most widely translated and distributed journals in earth and use the Bible to help millions of people to improve their lives.  All credit for these remarkable accomplishments goes to Jehovah who uses a seemingly weak group of people to perform these powerful  works.  But what about us as individuals?  Can Jehovah help us to be powerful?  If so, what must we do to get his help? Let us now consider three specific things we can learn from the example set by the apostle Paul.

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"When I am Weak, Then I Am Powerful"

"I take pleasure in weaknesses, in insults, in times of need, in persecutions and difficulties, for Christ." - 2 CORINTHIANS 12:10. 

THE apostle Paul openly acknowledged that he at times felt weak.  He admitted that his body was "wasting away,"  that he had to struggle to do what was right, and that Jehovah did not always answer his prayers the way he hoped He would. (2 Corinthians 4:16; 12:7-9; Romans 7:21-23) Paul also acknowledged that is opposers viewed him as weak.  But he did not allow the negative viewpoint of others or his own weaknesses to make him feel worthless. -  2 CORINTHIANS 10:10-12, 17, 18.

Paul learned a valuable lesson-a person can be strong even when he feels that he is weak. (Read 2 Corinthians 12:9, 10)  Jehovah told Paul that His power is "made perfect in weakness," meaning that Jehovah's power would make up for the strength that Paul lacked. First, let us see why we should not be troubled when our opponents insult us.

None of us like to be insulted. However, if our enemies do insult us and we are overly concerned with what they say, we can become discouraged.  (Proverbs 24:10)  How, then, should we view the insults of the opposers?  Like Paul, we can "take pleasure . . . in insults." ( 2 Corinthians  12:10)  Why? Because insults and opposition are signals that we are genuine disciples of Jesus.  ( 1 Peter 4:14) Jesus said that his followers would be persecuted. (John 15:18-20) That proved true in the first century. Back then, those influenced by Greek culture viewed Christians as unintelligent and weak. And among the Jews, Christians were considered to be "uneducated and ordinary," like the apostle Peter and John. (Acts 4:13) Christians seemed to be weak; they had not political influence or military power, and people viewed the as outcasts of society.

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Be Convinced That You Have the Truth - Conclusion of STUDY BIBLE PROPHECY

The conviction of those brothers  and sisters was not misplaced.  Before long, the Nazi regime collapsed, and Heinrich Himmler-the man who said "here upon earth it is we who rule" -was  running for his life.  While doing so, he encountered Brother Lubke, a former prisoner whom he recognized. Thoroughly defeated, Himmler asked Brother Lubke:  "Well, Bible Student, what happens now?"  Brother Lubke explained to Himmler that Jehovah's Witnesses knew all along that the Nazi regime would fail and that they would be delivered. Himmler-the man who previously has so much to  say about Jehovah's Witnesses-was finally speechless. Shortly thereafter, he committed suicide. The point? Our study of the Bible, including its prophecies, can build unbreakable faith in God and give us confidence during times of trial. - 2 PETER 1:19-21.

Each one of us should show love-the identifying mark of true Christians. But we also need "accurate knowledge and full discernment."  (Philippians 1:9)  Otherwise, we could be influenced "by every wind of teaching of the trickery of men." including apostates.  (Ephesians 4:14)   When many disciples in the first century C.E. stopped following Jesus, the apostle Peter expressed his firm conviction that Jesus had "sayings of everlasting life." (Read John 6:67, 68)  Even though Peter at that time did not understand all the details of those sayings; he remained loyal because he had discerned the truth about Christ. You too can strengthen your conviction in what the Bible teaches. If you do, your faith will stand the test of time, and you will help to build strong faith in others. - 2 JOHN 1, 2.

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Be Convinced That You Have the Truth - STUDY BIBLE PROPHECY

Bible prophecy is an important part of God's Word that helps us build strong faith in Jehovah.  What prophecies have strengthened your faith?  You might point to the prophecies about "the last days." (2 Timothy 3:1-5; Matthew 24:3, 7) But what other fulfilled prophecies can strengthen your conviction?  For example, can you explain the prophecies recorded in Daniel chapter 2 or in Daniel chapter 11 have been and are being fulfilled?  When you have faith that is solidly based  on the Bible, that faith will become unbreakable. Consider the example of our brothers who suffered severe persecution in Germany during World War II.  While  they did  not completely understand the Bible prophecies relating to the last days, they had strong faith in God's Word.

Under the rule of Nazi Germany, thousands of our brothers and sisters were sent to concentration camps. Hitler and SS Chief Heinrich Himmler hated Jehovah's Witnesses.  According to one sister, Himmler said to a group of our sisters in one concentration camp:  "Your Jehovah may reign in heaven, but here upon earth it is we who rule! We'll show you who will endure longer, you or we!"  What helped Jehovah's people remain faithful?

Those Bible Students knew that God's Kingdom had begun ruling in 1914.  They were not surprised at the intense opposition  they faced. However, Jehovah's people were convinced that no human government could stop God's purpose from succeeding.  Hitler could not wipe out true worship or set up a government that would shove aside God's Kingdom.  Our brothers were convinced that one way or another, Hitler's rule would end. 

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Be Convinced That You Have the Truth- BE PREPARED TO CONVINCE OTHERS

Once you have established the three basic truths regarding God, the Bible, and God's people, you need to be able to use the Scriptures to prove these truths to others.  Why? Because as Christians you have a responsibility to teach the truths that we learn to those who will listen to us. (1 Timothy 4:16)  And as we try to convince others about Bible truths, we strengthen our own conviction about those truths.

When the apostle Paul taught people, he would "persuade them about Jesus from both the Law of Moses and the Prophets." (Acts 28:23)  How can we imitate Paul when we teach others the truth? We must do more than recite facts. We must help our Bible students to reason on the Scriptures as they draw close to Jehovah. We want then to accept the truth, not because they admire us, but because they have proved to themselves that what they are learning is the truth about our loving God.

 Parents no doubt you want your children to remain the truth. You may feel that if they have good associates in the congregation, they will make good spiritual progress. However, if your children are to be convinced that they have he truth, they need something more than wholesome friends.  They need to have a personal relationship with God and to be convinced of the truthfulness of what the Bible teaches.

If parents are to teach their children the truth about God, they must set the example by being good students of the Bible.  They must take time to mediated on what they learn.  Then they will be able to teach their children to do the same. They need to teach their children to use our Bible study tools, just as they teach one of their Bible students.  In doing so, they will help their children to appreciate Jehovah and the channel he uses to dispense spiritual food-"the faithful and discreet slave." (Matthew 24:45-47)  Parents, do not settle for teaching your children only basic Bible truths.  Help them develop strong faith by teaching them about "the deep things of God" to any extent that is appropriate to their age and ability. - 1 CORINTHIANS 2:10.

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Be Convinced That You Have the Truth - BE "PERSUADED TO BELIEVE"

Timothy was convinced that he had the truth.  How did he arrive at this conclusion? (Read 2 Timothy 3:14, 15)  His mother and his grandmother introduced him to the teachings of "the holy writings." But no doubt he himself also spent time and energy studying those writings.  As a result, he was "persuaded to believe" that they contained the truth.  Later, Timothy, his mother, and his grandmother came in contact with Christianity.  Timothy was not doubt impressed by the love shown by Jesus' followers, and he had a strong desire to associate with and care for his spiritual brothers and sisters.  (Philippians 2:19, 20) However, his faith was built, not on his feelings for fellow humans, but on facts that drew him closer to Jehovah.  You too must logically reason on what you have learned about Jehovah from reading the Bible.

To start with, you need to prove to yourself at least three basic truths. First, you need to be convinced that Jehovah God is the creator of all things. (Exodus 3:14, 15; Hebrews 3:4; Revelation 4:11) Second, you must prove to yourself that the Bible is God's inspired message to mankind. (2 Timothy 3:16, 17)  And third, you need to confirm that Jehovah has an organized group of people who are worshipping him under Christ's headship and that Jehovah's Witnesses are that group. (Isaiah 43:10-12; John 14:6; Acts 15:14)  Proving to yourself those basic truths does not require that you become a walking encyclopedia of Bible knowledge.  Your goal should be to use your "power of reason" to strengthen your conviction that you have the truth.  - ROMANS 12:1.

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Be Convinced That You Have the Truth - GAIN "THE ACCURATE KNOWLEDGE OF GOD"

The first-century disciples built their faith on their knowledge of the Scriptures and the teachings of Jesus Christ, that is, "the truth of the good news." (Galatians 2:5)  This truth consists of the whole body of Christian teachings, including the facts about Jesus' ransom sacrifice and his resurrection. The apostle Paul was convinced that these teachings were true.  Why?  Because he used the Scriptures to prove "by references that it was necessary for the Christ to suffer and to rise from the dead." (Acts 17:2, 3)  The first-century  disciples accepted those teachings and relied on the holy spirit to help them understand God's Word,  They proved  to themselves that these teachings were based on the Scriptures. (Acts 17:11, 12; Hebrews 5:14)  They did not build their faith on feelings and emotions alone, and they did not serve Jehovah simply because they felt good when they associated with fellow believers. Instead, their faith was built on  "the accurate knowledge of God." -  COLOSSIANS 1:9, 10.

The truth of God's Word remain constant. (Psalm 119:160) For example, they do not change if a fellow believer offends us or commits a serious sin. And they do not change when    we face adversity. So we need to be thoroughly familiar with Bible teachings and convinced that they are truthful.  Our firm faith built on Bible truths will steady us in times of test,  just as an anchor can steady a boat during a turbulent storm. How can you strengthen your conviction that you have the truth? 

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Be Convinced That You Have the Truth

Jesus said that some would accept the truth "with joy," but their faith would wither when tested. (Read Matthew 13:3-6, 20, 21.)  Perhaps they did not realize that following Jesus would involve challenges and hardship. (Matthew 16:24) Or maybe they thought just being a Christian meant living a trouble-free life-one with only blessings, no challenges. But in this imperfect world, there will be challenges. Circumstances can change, causing our joy to diminish for a time. - PSALM 6:6; ECCLESIASTES 9:11.

The vast majority of our brothers and sisters prove that they are convinced that they have the truth. How? Their conviction does not waver even if a fellow believer hurts them or gets them involved in unclean conduct. (Psalm 119:165)  With each test, their faith grows stronger, not weaker. (James  1:2-4)  How can you build that type of faith?

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Be Convinced That You Have the Truth

"Be convince in the things you learned and were persuaded and were persuaded to believe." - 2 TIMOTHY 3:14. 

"How did you find the truth?"  Were you raised in the truth?" "How long have you been in the truth?" You have likely been asked such questions-or maybe you have asked them of others.  What do we mean by the term "the truth"?  Generally, we use it to describe our beliefs, our way of worship, and our way of life. People who are "in the truth" know what the Bible teaches, and they live according  to its principles.  As a result, they are set free from religious falsehood and they enjoy the best life possible for imperfect humans. - John 8:32.

What initially attracted you to the truth? Maybe it was good conduct of Jehovah's people.  (1 Peter 2:12) Or perhaps it was the love they showed.  Many took note of it at the first meeting they attended, and more than anything that was said from the platform, that love made a lasting impression on them.  This is not surprising because Jesus said that his disciples would be identified by their love for one another.  (Read John 13:34, 35.) But more is needed if we are to have strong faith.

Our faith has to be based on more than just the Christ like love of God's people. Why?  Suppose a fellow believer-even an elder or a pioneer-commits a serious sin. Or what if a brother or a sister hurts you in some way? Or perhaps someone becomes an apostate, asserting that we do not have the truth. If such things happen, will you be stumbled and stop serving Jehovah?  The lesson is this:  If you were able to build your faith in God purely on the way that other people act instead of your relationship with Jehovah  himself, your faith would not be solid.  In your house of faith, you should use not only soft materials as feelings and emotions but also hard facts and solid logic.  You need to prove to yourself that the Bible contains the truth about Jehovah. - ROMANS 12:2.

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Do Not Think More of Yourself Than Is Necessary - "THING SO AS TO HAVE A SOUND MIND"

We need to cultivate humility because those who are proud do not have "a sound mind." (Romans 12:3) Proud people are contentious and egotistical and actions often cause them to hurt themselves and others. Unless they change their way of thinking, their minds will be blinded and corrupted by Satan. (2 Corinthians 4:4; 11:3) A humble person, on the other hand has a sound mind.  He has a balanced and reasonable view of himself, recognizing that in many ways others are superior to him. (Philippians 2:3) And he  knows that "God opposes the haughty ones, but he gives undeserved kindness to the humble ones." (1 Peter 5:5) Those with a sound mind do not want to have Jehovah as an opponent.

To remain humble, we must apply the Bible's counsel to "strip off the old personality with its practices, and clothe [ourselves] with the new personality."  That takes hard work, we need to study Jesus' example and try to imitate him as closely as possible. (Colossians 3:9, 10; 1 Peter 2:21) But it worth the effort.  As we cultivate humility, our family life will improve, we will promoted unity in the  congregation.,  and we will know  how to avoid using social media in a negative way.  Above all, we will have Jehovah's blessing and favor. 

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Do Not Think More of Yourself Than Is Necessary- SHOW HUMILITY WHEN USING SOCIAL MEDIA

Jehovah made us to enjoy pleasant association with friends and family members. (Psalm 133:1) Jesus had good friends. (John 15:15)  The Bible describes the benefits of having true friends.  (Proverbs 17:17; 18:24) And it tells us that it is not good for us to  isolate ourselves.  (Proverbs 18:1)  Many feel that social media is a way to have a lot of friends and to avoid feeling isolated.  However, we need to be cautious about using this method of communication.

Studies have found that people who spend a lot of time scrolling through social media postings might actually end up feeling lonely and depressed. Why? One possible reason is that people often post on social media photos that depict the highlights of their lives, showing selected images of themselves, their friends, and the exciting places they have been.  A person who views those images might conclude that, by comparison, his or her own life is ordinary-even dull. "I started feeling discontent when I saw others having all this fun on the weekends and I was at  home bored," admits a 19-year-old Christian sister.

Of course, social media can be used for a good purpose-for example, to keep in touch with family and friends. Have you observed, though, that some of the material people post on social media is designed to promote people themselves? "Look at me" seems to be the message they want to convey.  Some even post rude and obscene comments on their own photos or about the photos  that others post.  This too is contrary to the humility and fellow feeling that Christians are encouraged to cultivate. - Read 1 PETER 3:8.

If you use social media, ask yourself:  'Might the comments, photos, or videos that I post give  others the impression that I am bragging?  Could I make others feel  jealous?  The Bible says: "Everything in the world -the desire of the flesh and the desire of the eyes and the showy display of one's means of life-does not originate with the Father, but originates with the world." (1 John 2:16) One Bible version renders the phrase "showy display of one's means of life" as "wanting  to appear important."  Christians do not feel the need for promoting themselves.  They follow the Bible's admonition: "Let's not become egotistical stirring up competition with one another, envying one another." (Galatians 5:26)  Humility will help us avoid getting caught up in the world's spirit of self-promotion.

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Do Not Think More of Yourself Than Is Necessary - SERVE JEHOVAH WITH "ALL HUMILITY"

We view it as a privilege to serve Jehovah in any way we can. (Psalm 27:4; 84:10) If a brother is able to make himself available for a special privilege  of service, that is commendable. In fact, the Bible states: "If a man is reaching out to be an overseer, he is desirous of a fine work." (1 Timothy 3:1) However, when he receives and assignment, he should not think more of himself than is necessary. (Luke 17:7-10)  His goal should be to serve others humbly. - 2 CORINTHIANS 12:15.

The Bible contains warning example of people who thought too much of themselves. Diotrephes immodestly sought to have "the first place" in the congregation.  ( 3 John 9) Uzziah proudly tried to perform a task that Jehovah had not assigned him to do.  (2 Chronicles 26:16-21) Absalom slyly tried to win the support of the public because he want to be king. (2 Samuel 15:2-6) As those Bible accounts clearly show, Jehovah is not pleased with people who seek their own glory. (Proverbs 25:27)  In time, pride and ambition lead only to disaster. - PROVERBS 16:18.

In contrast with warning examples of people, consider Jesus, "who. although he was existing in God's form, gave no consideration to a seizure, namely, that he should be equal to God." ( Philippians 2:6) Jesus, whose authority is second only to Jehovah's, does not think more of himself than is necessary.  He told his disciples: "The one who conducts himself as a lesser one among all of you is the one who is great." (Luke 9:48)  What a blessing it is to serve  with pioneers, ministerial servants, elders, and circuit overseers, who imitate Jesus in displaying humility! Humble servants of Jehovah contribute to the loving spirit that identifies Jehovah's organization. - JOHN  13:35.

What  if it seems that there are problems in the congregation and you feel that they are not being dealt with properly?  Rather than complain, you can show humility by supporting those taking the lead.  (Hebrews 13:17) To help you do that, ask yourself:  'Are the problems that I see really so serious that they need to be corrected?  Is this the right time to correct them? Is it my place to correct them? In all honesty, am I really trying to promote unity, or am I trying to promote myself?

Jehovah values humility more than ability and unity more than efficiency. Therefore,  do your best to serve Jehovah with humility. In doing so, you will promote unity in the congregation.  (Read Ephesians 4:2, 3)  Be active in the ministry.  Look for ways to serve others by doing kind things for them.  Be hospitable to all, including those who do not have positions of responsibility.  (Matthew 6:1-4; Luke 14:12-14) A  you humbly work with the congregation, others will notice not only your ability but also your humility.

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Do Not Think More of Yourself Than Is Necessary - SHOW HUMILITY IN YOUR MARRIAGE

Jehovah created marriage to be a source of happiness for a husband and wife. (man and woman/male and female)  No one is perfect, though, so conflicts  are likely to happen.  In fact, Paul wrote that those who marry can expect a measure of tribulation. (1 Corinthians 7:28)   Some find that they are constantly fighting with their spouse, and they may conclude that they were just not meant for each other. If they have been influenced by the world, they will be quick to think that divorce is the answer.  They will feel that the most important thing is to be good to themselves.

We must avoid becoming dissatisfied with our marriage.  We realize that the only Scriptural grounds for divorce is sexual immorality.  (Matthew 5:32)  So when faced with the tribulation that Paul wrote about, we would not want to let pride cause us to begin wondering: "Is this marriage fulfilling my needs? Am I getting the love I deserve? Would I find greater happiness with another person?  Notice the focus on self in those questions.  The wisdom of the world would tell you to follow your heart and do what makes you happy, even if that means  ending your marriage. Godly wisdom says you should "look out not only for your own interests, but also for the interests of others." (Philippians 2:4)  Jehovah wants you to preserve your marriage, not to end it. (Matthew 19:6)   He wants you to think of him first, not yourself. 

A husband and wife should treat each other with love and respect.  (Read Ephesians 5:33.) The Bible teaches us to focus on giving rather than on receiving. ( Acts 20:35)  What quality will help a married couple  to show love and respect? The answer is humility.  Husbands and wives who are humble will seek, not their own advantage, but "that of the other person." - 1 CORINTHIANS 10:24.

Humility has helped many Christian couples find greater happiness in their marriage.  For example, a husband named Steven says:  "If you are a team, you will work together, especially when there are problems.  Instead of thinking 'what is best for me?' you will think what is best for us?"' His wife Stephanie, feels similarly.  "Nobody want to live with an opponent," she says.  "When a conflict arises, we identify the problem.  We then pray, do research, and talk it out. We attack the problem, not each other." Husbands and wives truly benefit when they do not think more of themselves than is necessary.

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Do Not Think More of Yourself Than Is Necessary

"I tell everyone there among you not to think more of yourself than it is necessary to think, but to think so as to have a sound mind." - ROMANS 12:3.

We humbly submit to Jehovah's standards, realizing that Jehovah always knows what is best for us. (Ephesians 4:22-24)  Humility moves us to put Jehovah's will above our own and to consider others superior to us.  As a result, we enjoy good relationships with Jehovah and fellow believers. - Read PHILIPPIANS 2:3.

If we are not careful, though, we could be influenced by people in Satan's system who are proud and selfish.  Apparently, this was a danger to some in the first century C.E., for the apostle Pal wrote to the Romans:  "I tell everyone there among you not to think more of  himself than it is necessary to think, but to think so as to have a sound mind." ( Romans 12:3)  Paul acknowledged that we need to think of something of ourselves. However, humility will help us avoid thinking too much of ourselves.  Those areas are (1) our marriage,  (2) our privileges of service, and (3) our use of social media.

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Will Our Suffering End? - What the Bible Says

God cares about us.

He is not indifferent to our pain and sorrow.

"[God] has not despised nor loathed the suffering of the oppressed one; he has not hidden his face from him. When he cried to him for help, he heard. - PSALM 22:24.

"Throw all your anxiety on him, because he cares for you." - 1 PETER 5:7.

Suffering will not continue indefinitely.

The Bible promises that God's purpose for us will be realized.

"God . . will wipe out ever tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be any more." - REVELATION 21:3, 4.

God will address the causes of human suffering.

He will do this by means of his Kingdom, which the Bible describes as a real government.

"The God of heaven will set up a kingdom that will never be destroyed. And this kingdom will not be passed to any other people. . . . It alone will stand forever." - DANIEL 2:44.

Will Suffering Ever End?

Yes, but not by human efforts. Man's governments can only address the symptoms of our suffering, but God  can address the causes.  By means of his Kingdom. he will do so.

Note: As I have spoken of this before,  when Satan was telling Jehovah that the only reason Job worshipped him was because he was getting rich etc.  That was Satan criticizing God's sovereignty, so, Jehovah said go ahead and do to him what you wish, just do not kill him and see how wrong you are.  Of Satan was wrong, but would give up, he kept telling Jehovah that, it was just one person, that everyone else would not be like job. Satan said that he, himself would be better at running the world. So Jehovah told him okay, go ahead and see how bad you are at doing running the world.  Now, if you and everyone else lived realistically, you could very well see what a mess human governments made of this world/system of things.  It just keeps getting worse. It won't be like that when Jehovah takes over. So if you want to be in the new world  when it is time, then everyone needs to get into God's graces and worshipped, work for him, trust in him, study about him to learn  and to know the truth of what is really in the Bible.

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