How to Overcome Feelings of Insecurity

PROBLEMS OF AN INSECURE UPBRINGING

Maybe you lacked confidence during your formative years. Perhaps you received little love and encouragement. Possibly,you remember the constant fights between your parents that led to the breakup of their marriage-a separation you  may have mistakenly blamed on yourself. Or even worse, perhaps one of your parents abused verbally or physically.

How may an insecure child react?  Some turn to drugs or binge drinking during their teenage years. Others join gangs in search of belonging. Insecure teenagers may jump into a romantic relationship, seeking love and affection. But these relationships rarely last long, and the breakup often causes even more insecurity.

Vulnerable teenagers who avoid such major pitfalls may still grow up with little sense of self-worth.  "I became convinced that I was useless, since that is what my mother told me time and time again," explains Ana.   "I can't remember receiving any commendation or affection from her." 

Our upbringing is not the only cause of insecurity. We may feel insecure as a result of a traumatic divorce, the trials of old age, or even concern about our appearance.  Whatever the cause, it can rob us of happiness and damage our relationships with others. What can we do to overcome those feelings? 

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From The Watchtower magazine