How Can I Protect Myself From Sexual Harassent? -The Bible's answer

 Consider these practical suggestions based on wisdom found in the Bible: 

1. Be businesslike. Be pleasant and respectful to workmates,  yet avoid the sort of friendliness that implies that you would accept their sexual interest. - MATTHEW 10:16; Colossians 4:6.

2. Dress modestly. Wearing provocative clothing sends the wrong message. The Bible recommends   dressing "with modesty and soundness of mind." - 1 TIMOTHY 2:9.

3. Choose your friends wisely.  If you spend time with  those who tolerate or even welcome flirting or sexual advances, you are more likely to receive the same treatment. - PROVERBS 13:20. 

4. Reject offensive talk.  Excuse youself if a conversation turns  to "dirty stories, foolish talk, or obscene jokes. - EPHESIANS5:4, God's Word Bible.

5. Avoid compromising situations.  For example, beware of invitations to stay at work after hours without a valid reason. - PROVERBS 11:3. 

6. Be firm and direct. If you are sexually harassed, clearly  tell your harasser that his or her behavior is unwelcome.  (1 Corinthians 14:9) For instance, you could say: "You keep brushing against me, and it  makes me very uncomfortable.  I want you to stop." You could write a letter to your harasser descrbing what happened, and how it made  you feel, and what  you to happen next. Make clear that your stance  is based on your moral and religious convictions. -  1 THESSALONIANS 4:3-5.  

7. Get help.  If the harassment continues, confide in a trusted friend, family member, or coworker or in someone experience i helping victims.  (Proverbs 27:9) Many victims of harassment have found support through prayer.  Even if you haven't prayed beforel, don't underestimate  the help you can receive from Jehovah.  "The God of all comfort." - 2 CORINTHIANS 1:3.

Next time: YOUNG PEOPLE ASK/What Shall I Know About Secual Assault?-Part 1: Precautions

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