HOW YOU CAN MAKE Friends

SIX STEPS TO A LASTING FRIENDSHIP

5. RESPECT THE PRIVACY OF OTHERS.  Everyone needs some privacy, including your friends.  Proverbs 25:17 wisely observes;  "Make your foot rare at the house of your fellowman, that he may not have his sufficiency of you and certainly hate you."  Hence, be reasonable about the frequency and length of visits with friends. Avoid possessiveness, which can lead to jealousy.  Use good judgment when expressing personal tastes and opinions on matters.  This contributes to a refreshing and welcome friendship.

6. BE GENEROUS.  Friendships are cultivated through generosity.  The apostle Paul's advice is to "be liberal, ready to share."  ( 1 Timothy 6:18)  For instance, share encouraging words with others.  (Proverbs 11:25)  Be free with sincere commendation and upbuilding speech.  When  you show genuine interest in the well-being of others, they are drawn to you.  Think about what you can do for them instead of focusing on what they can do for you.

Next time:  WHERE YOU CAN MAKE TRUE FRIENDS

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