Checking Things Out

Having found a potential roommate, you may be eager to get together soon.  But it is  wise to do some checking first. Is that person "well reported on by the brothers"  in his or her congregation? (Acts 16:1,2) Perhaps you and your parents can speak directly with spiritually qualified individuals who know him or her. You might ask:  'What reputation does this one have? Is this person stable emotionally and spiritually?  Doe he or she share in preaching to others and in commenting at meetings?  Is this person known for upright conduct?  

Remember, "he that is walking with wise persons will become wise."  (Proverbs 13:20)   "My roommate is very spiritually minded," says David.  "That helps keep me going spiritually." Renee, who has had a number of roommates, similarly says:  "Some of my roommates  would suggest that we read a chapter in the Bible together every night.  Since my folks weren't Witnesses, we never had a family Bible study.  So being able to have 'family  study' with my roommates was just awesome for me!"  Yes, having a roommate who shares your love of spiritual things can be a real blessing. 

Next time: Talking Things Out

From the Awake! magazine, 2002