How to Build a Successful Marriage

Stay committed to your mate and your marriage

"They [the husband and wife] are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has yoked together let no man put apart." (Matthew 19:6) You have solemnly vowed before God and man and to each other to remain together, despite problems that might arise." Commitment, however, is not simply  a legalistic obligation. Rather, it is motivated by sincere, heartfelt love and is a reflection of respect and honor for each other and for God. So never undermine your sacred  marital relationship by flirting. Have eyes only for your mate. - Matthew 5:28.  

Note: God did not intend for either one to be cruel, or mean or abusive to the other in any way what so ever.  

Self-sacrifice reinforces commitment

"[Keep] an eye not in personal interest upon just your own matters, but also in personal interest upon those of the others." (Philippians 2:4) Putting your marriage mate's needs and preferences ahead of your own is one of the ways to strengthen commitment.  Premji, married for 20 years, makes a point of helping his wife, who is employed full-time, with the housework. "I help Rita with cooking and cleaning and other work so that she has time and energy to do the things she enjoys." 

Next time: How to Build a Successful Marriage - Effort Brings Rewards

From the AWAKE! magazine, 2008