Forgive One Another Freely - REACT IN A WAY THAT PLEASES JEHOVAH

In accord with Jehovah's will, Christian elders have been entrusted with the responsibility of handling cases of wrongdoing in the congregation.  These brothers do not have the full insight that God does, but they claim to make their decision  harmonize with  the direction given in God's Word under the guidance of holy spirit. Hence, what they decide in such matters after seeking Jehovah's help in prayer will reflect his point of view. - MATTHEW 18:18.

Here is where loyalty matters.  Will you forgive and confirm your love for those being judged to be repentant? (2 Corinthians 2:5-8)  This may not be easy, especially if you are a victim of the wrongdoing or are related to a victim. However, by placing  your trust in Jehovah and his way of dealing with matters through the congregation, you will act wisely. You will demonstrate that you really do forgive freely. - PROVERBS 3:5, 6. 

Mental-health experts recognize the benefits of being willing to forgive.  It releases pent-up  and even debilitating emotions that cause ill health, and it fosters healthier and happier  relationships. Contrast that with the costs of an unwillingness to forgive-poor health, broken relationships, stress, and difficult communication.  By far the most important blessing of being willing to forgive is a good relationship with our heavenly Father, Jehovah. - Read COLOSSIANS  3:12-14.

Next time: The Benefit of Self-Control

From the jw.org publications