Conclusion of GOOD COMMUNICATION

Recall the occasion when Sarah recommended to her husband, Abraham, a solution to a certain problem and it did not coincide with his feelings.  Yet, God told Abraham:  "Listen to her voice." (Genesis 21:9-12)  Abraham did and he was blessed.  Similarly, if a wife suggests something different from what her husband has in mind, he should at least listen. At the same time, a wife should not dominate the conversation but should listen to what her husband has to say.  (Proverbs 25:24)  For either the husband or the wife to insist on his or her own way all the time is unloving and disrespectful.

Good communication is also important in a couple's sexual relationship.  Selfishness and a lack of self-control can seriously damage this most intimate relationship in marriage.   Open communication , along with patience, is essential.  When each unselfishly seeks the well-being of the other, sex is rarely a serious problem.  In this as in other matters, "let each one keep seeking not his own advantage, but that of the other person." -1 Corinthians 7:3-5; 10:24.

What fine counsel God's Word offers!  True, every marriage will have its ups an downs.  But when spouses submit to Jehovah's thinking, as revealed in the Bible, and base their relationship on principled love and respect, they can be confident that their marriage will be lasting and happy.  They thus will honor not only each other but also the Originator of marriage, Jehovah God. 

Next time: HOW CAN YOU  MANAGE A HOUSEHOLD? 

From the book: THE SECRET OF FAMILY HAPPINESS, 1996