PREPARING FOR A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE, CHAPTER TWO

CONSTRUCTING a building requires careful preparation.  Before the foundation is laid, land must be acquired and plans drawn up.  However, something else is vital.  Jesus said:  "Who of you that wants to build a tower does not first sit down and calculate the expense, to see if he has enough to complete it?"  -Luke 14:28.

What is true of constructing a building also applies to constructing a successful marriage.  Many say:  "I want to get married." But how many stop to consider the cost?  While the Bible speaks favorably of marriage, it also draws attention to the challenges that marriage presents. (Proverbs 18:22; 1 Corinthians 7:28) Therefore, those contemplating marriage need to have a realistic view of both the blessings and the costs of being married. 

The Bible can help.  Its counsel is inspired by the Originator of marriage, Jehovah God.  (Ephesians 3:14, 15; 2 Timothy 3:16)  Using the principles found in this ancient yet very up-to-date guidebook, let us determine  (1) How can a person tell whether he or she is ready for marriage? (2) What should be looked for in a mate? And (3) How can courtship be kept honorable?  

Next time:  ARE YOU READY FOR MARRIAGE?

From the book: THE SECRET OF FAMILY HAPPINESS, 1996