Growing Older Together

ENJOY YOUR GRANDCHILDREN

Grandchildren are "the crown" of the elderly. (Proverbs 17:6) The companionship of grandchildren can truly be a delight-lively and refreshing.  The Bible speaks well of Lois, a grandmother who, with her daughter Eunice, shared her beliefs with her infant grandson Timothy. This youngster grew up knowing that both his mother and his grandmother valued Bible truth. - 2 Timothy 1:4; 3:14, 15. 

Here, then, is a special area  in which grandparents can make a most valuable contribution. Grandparents, you have already shared your knowledge  of Jehovah's purposes with your children.Now you can do likewise with yet another generation!  Many young children thrill to hear grandparents accounts of Bible stories. Of course, you do not take over the father's responsibility to inculcate the Bible truths in children.  (Deuteronomy 6:7)  Rather, you compliment this. May your prayer be that of the psalmist:  "Even until old age and grayheadedness, O God, do not leave me, until I may tell about your arm to the generation, to all those who are to come, about your mightiness." -Psalm 71:18; 78:5, 6.

Sadly, some grandparents so spoil the little ones that tensions develop between the grandparents and their grown children.  However, your sincere  kindness may perhaps  make it easy for your grandchildren to confide  in you when they do not feel inclined to reveal matters to their parents. Sometimes the youngsters hope that their indulgent grandparents will side with them against their  parents.  What then?  Exercise wisdom and encourage your grandchildren to be open with their parents.  You can explain that this pleases Jehovah.  (Ephesians 6:1-3) If necessary, you may volunteer to pave the way for the youngsters' approach by speaking with their parents.  Be frank with your children about what you have learned over the years.  Your honesty and candor can benefit them.

Next time: Growing Older Together/ADJUST AS YOU AGE

From the book: The Secret of FAMILY HAPPINESS