When a Family Member Is Sick

SETTING PRIORITIES

In the face of serious sickness, a family would do well to remember the inspired words:  "In the multitude of counselors there is accomplishment." (Proverbs 15:22) Could family members come together and discuss the situation caused by the sickness?  It would certainly be appropriate to do so prayerfully and to turn to God's Word for guidance.  (Psalm 25:4) What should be considered in such a discussion?  Well, there are medical, financial, and family decisions to be made.  Who will provide the primary care?  How can the family cooperate to support that care?  How will the arrangements made affect each member of the family?  How will the spiritual and other needs of the primary caregiver be looked after? 

Praying earnestly for Jehovah's direction, meditating on the Word, and courageously following the way indicated by the Bible often result in blessings beyond our expectations.  The disease of an ailing family member may not always go into remission. But leaning on Jehovah always leads to the best outcome in any situation.  (Psalm 55:22) The psalmist wrote:  "Your own loving-kindness, O Jehovah, kept sustaining me.  When my disquieting thoughts became many inside of me, your own consolations began to fondle my soul." -Psalm 94:18, 19; see also Psalm 63:6-8. 

Next time: When a Family Member Is Sick/HELPING THE CHILDREN

From the book: The Secret of FAMILY HAPPINESS