"BE SWIFT ABOUT HEARING"

In this book the need for communication is frequently  highlighted. Why?  Because things work better when people talk to and really listen to each other.  It was repeatedly emphasized that communication is a two-way street. The disciple James expressed it this way:  "Every man must be swift about hearing, slow about speaking." -James 1:19.

It is also important to be careful about how we speak.  Rash, contentious, or severely critical words do not constitute successful communication.  (Proverbs 15:1; 21:9; 29:11, 20)  Even when what we say is correct, if it is expressed in a cruel, proud, or insensitive manner, it is likely to do more harm than good.  Our speech should be tasteful, "seasoned with salt." (Colossians 4:6) Our words should be like "apples of gold in silver carvings." (Proverbs 25:11)  Families that learn to communicate well have taken a major stride toward achieving happiness.  


Next time: THE VITAL ROLE OF LOVE

From the book: THE SECRET OF FAMILY HAPPINESS, 1996