The Conclusion of BEING A STEPPARENT

Those qualities  are crucial when one is administering discipline.  Consistent discipline is vital.  (Proverbs 6:20; 13:1) And since children are not all the same, discipline may differ from one case to another.  Some stepparents find that, at least to start with, it may be better for the biological parent  to handle the aspect of parenting.  It is essential, though, that both parents agree on the discipline and uphold it, not favoring a natural offspring over a stepchild. (Proverbs 24:23) Obedience is important, but allowances for imperfection need to be made. Do not overact.  Discipline in love. -Colossians 3:21. 

Family discussions can do much to head off trouble.  These can help the family to keep in focus the most important matters in life.  (Compare Philippians 1:9-11)  They can also assist each one to see how he can contribute toward attaining family goals.  In addition, frank family discussions can avert moral problems. Girls need to understand how to dress and comport themselves around their stepfather and any stepbrothers, and boys need counsel on proper conduct toward their stepmother and any stepsisters. -1 Thessalonians 4:3-8.

In meeting the special challenge of being a stepparent, be patient.  It takes time to develop new relationships.  Earning the respect of children with whom you have no biological  bond can be a formidable task.  But it is possible.  A wise  and discerning heart, coupled with a strong desire to please Jehovah, is the key to peace in a stepfamily. (Proverbs 16:20)  Such qualities  can also help you to cope with other situations. 

Next time: DO MATERIAL PURSUITS DIVIDE YOUR HOME?

From the book: THE SECRET OF FAMILY HAPPINESS, 1996