THE CHALLENGE OF MAKING A LIVING

Most single parents find it difficult to meet their financial needs, and young unwed mothers usually have a particularly hard time.   In lands where public assistance is available, they may be wise to make use of it, at least until they can find employment.  The Bible permits Christians to utilize such provisions when necessary.  (Romans 13:1, 6)  Widows and divorcees face similar challenges.  Many, forced to reenter the job market after years of homemaking, can often find only low-paying work.  Some manage to improve their lot by enrolling in job-training programs or short-term school courses.

Do not be surprised if your children are unhappy when you seek employment, and do not feel guilty. Rather, explain to them why you must work, and help them to understand that Jehovah requires you to provide for them.  (1 Timothy 5:8)  In time, most children adjust. However, try to spend as much time with them as your busy schedule allows.  Such loving attention can also help to minimize the impact of any financial limitations the family may experience. -Proverbs 15:16, 17.

Next time: WHO IS TAKING CARE OF WHOM? 

From the book: THE SECRET OF FAMILY HAPPINESS, 1996